u/sharkwoods

Alright gang after like 2 weeks of attempting this I'm throwing in the towel.

My son is UNBOTHERED by wet underwear, he'll sit in it like its not a problem, same with poop. Like if I shit myself that is priority number 1, but he could not give a fuck.

I was making him help me clean up any accidents, and we'd put the dirty underwear in the wash.

But he just like, doesn't care???

He can tell me he is wet, he tells me when he has already pooped. He can sit on the toilet when prompted ("It's time to go potty" is what I say). But lately he'll decline and say "not right now" or simply "I don't want to".

Like what do I do when he is flat our refusing?

Do I resort to bribes?

I lost my lip balm and a super nice girl squeezed some out of a tube for me, and it lasted for the next 5 hours with me eating and drinking and chewing gum. It was amazing.

I didn't ask what it was and only remember it was a squeezable type. I have the laneige one, so I know it's not that or aquaphor.

The consistency was thick and kind of sticky.

My son is 2.5 and we've tried some potty training here and there, but nothing consistently.

How are working parents doing potty training if they work all week? Are we just doing it after work/weekends?

My son is still in diapers and I'm not sure how to rip off the bandaid and just switch to underwear. He just pees in the underwear and the wetness does NOT bother him at all???

I feel like staff always used to throw in a couple samples when I would buy stuff in store.

Do they not do that anymore? Are my vibes off? Do I have to ask for samples of specific items? Is there a secret code?

Pleaaaaase help a girl out 🙏🏻

I had wanted to be cautious about dosage because it was my first time trying it, although I have had MDMA before. They were pressed pills and I have no idea what the actual amount was.

I took 50mg at 10:30 on a somewhat empty stomach (I had a snack at 7ish). I was surprised that it took about an and hour and 15 mins to really start feeling it. 11:45ish The come up was steady and gentle as I was sitting down and resting before my next set. I would call this like a baby roll, I wasn't fully lost in the sauce but absolutely felt amazing. I am normally an anxious person in really big crowds but I believe this helped calm my nerves down.

I still felt clear headed, no fogginess, feeling very positive, good vibes, I was more social than I normally am. An added plus was that I believe it gave me more energy for the rest of the night! Even at 5am I still felt good, and the only caffeine I had was a red bull (114mg of caffeine) at about 7:30pm.

I had probably peaked around 12:30-1am, and from there it was a veeeery gentle come down. I mean, I cannot emphasize how gentle it was, very clean but still euphoric.

We left at around 5am and everyone was exhausted but still kinda up. There was a beautiful sunrise on the way home and while I was physically tired, I was mentally still good, feeling very peaceful.

I also wanted to mention that while I did not experience any obvious nausea, I did feel a slight "something" in my stomach around 11:30-11:45ish and have a ginger chew candy which seemed to help.

The jaw clenching was moderate and about as bad as I expected it to be, but I had some gum which helped. It's currently 10am as I write this and my jaw is sore, but I will be fine by tomorrow.

All together it was a great experience, a wonderful balance between being clear headed enough to navigate the chaos of EDC, and the classic MDMA type of euphoric bliss. 10/10 would do again. I think 50mg is perfect for beginners who want to dip their toes in without feeling overwhelmed.

I'd like to add that I did not do any other substances, nor did I drink alcohol, and I have ADHD, no other mental conditions, and I do not take any medications.

Been thinking about Nesta a lot since the SJM interview. I love strong willed characters. The ones with an unbreakable spirit. The ones who achieve their goals through sheer determination and force of will. I can not get enough of this character trope especially because I feel like I do not see it in FMC that often.

Is it possible to take less than 75mg of Plür and still feel something?

I've taken mdma before, but they were pressed pills and I have NO idea what the dosing was, but half of one was good, and a whole was waaaaaay too much. I still like to feel in control. And I'd rather feel not enough than be overwhelmed.

I also have weed gummies on occasion but I cut them up into 2.5mg-5mg doses and that's good for me.