u/sladecho

hey guys i used to work at a diff cfa location but had to quit as i was forced to due to them not giving me hours for a month despite communicating to them.

i applied to a diff location and got a job interview, how should i mention my situation when asked about my job experience?

any help is appreciated

been dating for 6 months: yesterday i had posted a cf story of me in a tank top and you could see my hard nipple. My bf replied back to me saying he could literally see it bulging out and i told him its fine, not like im showing my boobs or anything and he js kind of shut down and told me to move on despite me asking if he will actually be okay if i move on.

later on he started being dry so i asked him again, and we had a talk. he didnt feel comfortable with me showing skin or anything, and felt that he wanted me to js delete my whole story i posted. to me it felt like he was controlling and possessive, and to him, it felt like i shut him down in a "suck it up" tone. in general, me feeling that way was because i felt he was a bit doing too much. i dont really know how to explain it right because we had many moments where he thought i was showing too much skin and it would just be me wearing normal things (no cleavage shown or anything).

i know people are gonna be iffy about this, i could understand his point of view if i was wearing a bikini and showing or something (to an extent) but when he's like that, i feel like i lose my creativity and freedom to express myself the way i want. feel like i cant be myself with im with him acting like this

so if more guys could express the way you feel about revealing clothes and how you guys have boundaries, please let me know. i want to understand where he's coming from but i just dont think he trust me because he expressed that he felt he is easily replaced so he's feeling insecure, but ive told him i pick him again and again, i choose to be with him, i dont know how else to reassure or make him feel secure especially because he overthinks a lot too...

thanks and be nice guys please

tldr: boyfriend is insecure, and i dont want to lose myself, how can i find a balance?

I hate this job now. Don’t get me wrong, I love the food and I actually enjoyed working there, but the directors and managers really ruined it for me.

I went from having around 45 hours a week to having absolutely no hours for almost a month. I already communicated with the store about it, and all I was told was that business is slow and they’re cutting hours. I even tried picking up shifts, but I wasn’t approved.

Meanwhile, almost 15 people have joined the team after me ( i haven't been there for long,) they’re all getting at least 25+ hours. They’re also offering shifts while I’m not getting any, and some of the people they’re giving hours to are calling off.

I don’t know. I honestly give up. They finally gave me one shift next week, but it’s only for one day, and I have absolutely no desire to go in.

It sucks because I genuinely saw myself working for this company long term. I really did enjoy it, but the way everything has been handled completely changed that for me.

i dont have lots of stuff, maximum 10 small boxes and one furniture that is a dresser (not even heavy or as big)

i was looking at uhaul but was quoted $350, and i'm not sure if i even need all the space the 10 ft truck give so if yall had moved before or yall got tips for me regarding this id appreciate it

i want it to be as cheap as possibly, but as of right now i'm choosing uhaul

updated info: I have no car T-T

like title said, i'm looking to move from ann arbor to chicago with little to nothing. i looked at uhaul trucks but they're too big for my stuff. the smallest available is the 10 feet truck that i'm scared of driving as well

only big thing i have is a dresser and those like amazon bookcase thats lowkey short. i will have about 9 boxes only so idk if renting a uhaul truck for $350 is a good thing, or should i go with something else?

looking for something that is smaller and cheaper

hey guys i have been with cfa for about 2 months now, i have not been scheduled to work for almost 3 weeks not even a day

they said its because of slow business and having to cut hours but i see new people getting hired and getting hours (25+) and other people getting like (45+)

i checked everyone and i was quite literally the only one with no scheduled shift idk if this is a tactic to make me quit or what please help idk what to do i have bills to pay

i have picked up shifts but they wont approve it even on busy days where they need people

i have asked boss multiple times for hours as well

summary:

I was a stupid kid and left chipotle 6 months ago. i wasn't communicating properly to my GM, and took advantage of her kindness. Now I want to go back because i truly did like working there, and also need a job. but i think i was terminated and wondering if I'd be able to get rehired?

i appreciate any help.

just for some context, i'm a low income student living by myself. i have made a few financial mistakes that is biting me in the bum right now, on top of being so depressed i didn't think i was going to live to this day. i was supposed to be enrolled in classes but i didn't and so my fafsa loans repayment started counting its grace period, moreover tuitions happened and i barely js found a job. working $16/hr for scraps of hours i am given, and having to pay $1400 for rent as well each month. and i also have credit debt that i'm trying to work to pay towards.

please any advice helps, i tried getting loans from my credit card company but i was denied. i need to pay tuition off asap so i can register for school as i only have one year left, and deadline is july 26 to register. i'm also looking to take a gap semester to be able to catch up and recover financially while i look for jobs so please be kind. i'm already mean to myself about everything you're probably thinking of right now, so i appreciate it