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Nobody actually cares how I'm just going through life with no life of my own.

I've been stuck at home since 2019. I moved back from my PG to my family home so I could spend time with them while working from home, but since then I've been stuck here and I don't see a way out.

I spend 24 hours in one room. I eat once a day, I sleep, I work all with the same routine, in the same room, on the same bed. I haven't even stepped out onto the balcony for more than 3 months now.

I'm trying for a new job, but no luck. I'm also looking for marriage, but nothing is working out.

All my friends are married, well-settled, have achieved a lot in their careers and have kids.

Every time I try to talk to someone, they just shut me off with their so called success stories. I have no one to talk to or share anything with. I've lost all motivation. I've stopped taking care of myself. I don't remember when I last dressed up properly. I try really hard to stay motivated by reading, working out and praying, but it only lasts for a day or two and I'm back to feeling low again.

I'm stuck in my career too as a non-techie, I don't know what to do next.

Whenever I get on a call with friends, I feel like a loser and a failure. It feels like I've achieved nothing in my life. And even if I want to achieve something, I don't know what to do i don't have a single person to share or talk to.

My siblings have stopped talking to me, they don't care and have no gratitude for my sacrifices. My mother is just happy that I stay at home and don't meet anyone I'm her safety net. She starts crying the moment I talk about going out, even for a day.

What do I do? How do I come out of this trap? How do I make myself live and enjoy

Okay, so a couple of months back I happened to go on a trip with a few of my friends. I have known them for a couple of years. They are married with kids but somehow manage to take time out to travel. This was actually the first time I was sharing a room with these girls (40s). They are way elder than me.

Somehow, I enjoy their company. I feel like they have achieved so many things in their life that if I’m around them, I’ll learn something. I met them professionally and we ended up becoming good and close friends. One of them is really close to me.

Coming back to the topic, we shared the same room. We were really tired from the journey. I hadn't slept for almost more than 26+ hours. I wanted a single bed in the same room, so I took it and went to sleep.

Those two shared the double bed right next to me. It was around 1 AM in the middle of the night. I heard noises. I am a light sleeper, I wake up easily, but those noises kind of scared me, so I kept quiet. I wanted to hear what it was before screaming. The room was not pitch dark, the bathroom light was still on.

So I heard noises of breathing, kisses, like constant. Then I heard, "aise nahi waise kar, tu paas toh aa." I went into shock. I was under my blanket. I couldn’t move. I hated it and I had to hear them go all the way. I heard them finish.

I couldn’t sleep the whole night. All I wanted to do was get out of that place and not face them ever. Unfortunately, we went by car, so I didn’t know what to do. I waited until morning. They left the room for a morning walk. I pretended to be asleep and called my other close female friend. She just asked me to pretend and act as though I heard nothing and just be normal. It took me more than 2 hours. I couldn’t believe what I witnessed. These two women are married with 2 kids (17 years old and 13 years old). They were cheating on their husbands and the way they spoke about their relationship God, what two-faced people!

The worst part about this is they didn’t even bother that there was someone else in the room and how she would react.

After being cheated on by men, I had trust issues for a long time. I thought I could rely on girls, but I no longer feel safe to even communicate with them.
Those ladies, after their hot night that gave me trauma, wanted to make sure that I didn’t hear anything. They came up to me and told me upfront, "we hug while we sleep," didn't realise etc. Like my close friend suggested, I pretended to be normal. I acted as though I didn’t know what they were talking about.

I don’t care which gender they choose to cheat with. If you want to act like all good, perfect wives and religious persons, then have a private room or don’t bring someone along when you have to do all this shitty and shady stuff.

I still hear those noises it’s so scary I have difficulty falling asleep except for my one close friend I haven’t shared these things with anyone.

I just hate them so much I was good being isolated just by myself now I can’t even trust female friendships even though it directly affect me but I ate the fact they are open cheat even females are worse these days.

Hello everyone,

I'm looking for a room to rent in Mysore from October 2026

About me: Female, working professional, non-smoker, clean and easy-going.

Looking for:
• A single room in a preoccupied flat with females / a 1RK / 1BHK
• Budget: within 15k
• Preferred areas: Center
• Furnishing: Fully furnished preferred

If you are a female looking for a flatmate or have a lead, please reach out in comments / DM.

Thank you! 🙏

Need your help and advice on this situation because I don’t have a single person to discuss about this relationship

I am in a ON and OFF relationship with this person for almost 8+yrs now we have decided to get married several times unfortunately he took any step I just felt it’s always me who wants him he doesn’t need me and he’s not much very expressive and he’s into his 40s

Recently he accepted Islam while we were not in talking terms without informing after a month of converting he came to saying he wants to get married again disappeared for a month later came back to me saying he’s father expired he needed time which is a fair ask I agreed stayed by his side.

After 6 months of his fathers death he still doesn’t talk about marriage and wants me to be dependent on him (which I can’t as I’m the eldest daughter without a father from childhood)

Now when I initiated the conversation he says that he’s family had a arranged engagement where in Tamil registration is done which is as equal as marriage but he says that he was forced to sign in that paperwork and he has no relationship with that girl he was just engaged.

Now he says that let’s married stay seperate il keep visiting you whenever I can then slowly after kids my family will accept you and you can come and live with me.

QUESTION looks like I’m being fooled and taking advantage of me as I have no support from anywhere I don’t have very loving or friendly family.

What is this Tamil registration ? Is this considered as legally married ?? He says that he will not take any action it’ll just go away is that possible ?? I have no idea help me out

Retrain from negative comments please going through a lot already