Where to get saree drapped in Kozhikode for onam

I wanted to get my saree draped by a professional for onam celebration. I don't know where to find someone who can do that for me. The celebration is on 22nd and i need someone to drape for me early in the morning

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u/stillaliveaccount — 22 hours ago

I dated a guy for a month and he broke up with me right after 💐

[Posting this story again bc I accidentally deleted the old one + update]

So I first met him through an online friend of mine who connected us both since we were both from the same state, Kerala. I was shocked to realise that he was from my city and how we had soo many mutuals together. And he has also been to my school before for a program so it basically felt destined or whatever. We met during February and we also stopped talking after a week or so since we're both writing our board examination (he was in 10th grade and I was in 12th grade). Thought I would never text him again but he ended up talking with me again during the end of March and that's when it all started.

I only saw him as a friend for a week or so but it was very obvious that he liked me from the reels he sent me. I wasn't interested in a relationship so I was basically dodging the signs. But idk when, at some certain point, I started maybe enjoying his presence more so we talked more ever since. We called for hours and hours at night where he used to tell me about his entire life story. Even though I kinda liked him I was still in denial and I had the biggest commitment issue especially since he is a year younger than me (2009 and 2008) and I'll be going to college while he just starts his high school years.

Bro was head over heels for me, trying soo hard to make me fall for him or whatever. He used every trick in the book at this point so I would give in 😭🙏. He legit even said that we could still make things work even if we become long distance or wtv.

Eventually after all the hard work he put in to make me fall in love with him, he got what he needed and I started letting my guards down and decided to date him anyway. Note that we only started dating after we decided to meet each other irl since we're from the same city. We went on many dates, things were good, he treated me like a damn princess while I wasn't even half as romantic as him.

But I'm not sure when, but he slowly started being more and more unavailable for me and that's also when I started getting attached to him. Now I was the one sending him reels all the time and asking him how his day was going while he was busy for an entire fucking day. As if I was the one chasing him around. He stopped liking my notes and small small things he did were telling me that something was up. But he still acted like everything was okay the last time we talked and he was yapping to me about how much he loves me and shit the same morning before he broke up with me. The day was perfect, no issues between us, we were both happy aside from the fact he was busy again. As always I waited for him till night so he could call me like how we usually do.

While waiting for his call, what I received was his text: "I need to tell you something." Oh boy, I KNEW WHAT WAS GOING TO HAPPEN RIGHT THEN AND THERE.

As you can see from the ss I provided, that's what happened after. So I blocked him for good 👍 (btw he broke up a day after 1 month into the relationship).

Update, I did some digging and figured out that he was apparently pursuing someone else right after the break and they're now possibly in a relationship and mind you this person is long distance. So that says it all.

He liked me first, he confessed to me first, and he left me first so YAYY.

[I'm moved on btw, just reposting this bc I'm bored]

u/stillaliveaccount — 26 days ago

Where in india should I move to for college?

I wanted to know which state in india was the best for me to do college in. It would be nice if someone can tell me which country is best for me to settle in future too. Thanks!

u/stillaliveaccount — 2 months ago

No one can send me a dm on insta

For some reason no one can dm me on insta unless I dm them myself first. I have my message requests on for everyone but whenever someone goes to my profile there is no such option to send me a message. This is really annoying. My account is public/professional btw

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u/stillaliveaccount — 3 months ago

Struggling to choose course and college after 12th

I'm soo confused on what I want as a course and what college I should choose.

Myquals - I got 64%[pcmb] , 73%[best of 5] in 12th cbse (pcmb + IP)

I don't like medical and engineering. What I want is maybe something technology and creative based. I considered ui/ux designing but only a few colleges provide such course and I don't think it's necessary for you to go to college to learn this course. I'm honestly lost. Someone please help me out before I got crazy

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u/stillaliveaccount — 3 months ago

Struggling to choose right course and college after 12th

I'm soo confused on what I want as a course and what college I should choose. I got 64%[pcmb] , 73%[best of 5] in 12th cbse (pcmb + IP)

I don't like medical and engineering. What I want is maybe something technology and creative based. I considered ui/ux designing but only a few colleges provide such course and I don't think it's necessary for you to go to college to learn this course. I'm honestly lost. Someone please help me out before I got crazy

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u/stillaliveaccount — 3 months ago

What college and coursw do you take to be a UI/UX designer?

I just finished my 12th grade and I was considering aiming for UI/UX designing career wise. But I'm unsure about what I'm supposed to study inorder to be one. Like what course do I take and what colleges have the specific course?

Myquals are pcmb with additional sub IP

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u/stillaliveaccount — 3 months ago

Unable to recieve message requests on instagram

For some apparent reason no one is able to send me message request on instagram. I either have to be friends with them or dm them first. I already checked my settings and my message requests are set to everyone. And also my account is public (professional). I need people to be able to dm me. How do I fix this issue?

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u/stillaliveaccount — 3 months ago

No one is able to send me msg request

For some apparent reason no one is able to send me message request on instagram. I either have to be friends with them or dm them first. I already checked my settings and my message requests are set to everyone. And also my account is public (professional). I need people to be able to dm me. How do I fix this issue?

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u/stillaliveaccount — 3 months ago

No one can send me message request on instagram

For some apparent reason no one is able to send me a message request on instagram. I either have to be friends with them or dm them first. I already checked my settings and my message requests are set to everyone. And also my account is public (professional) . I need people to be able to dm me. How do I fix this issue?

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u/stillaliveaccount — 3 months ago

Im soo lost on what to do and I need help

I just finished class 12th cbse and I got 64% on it (pcmb with additonal sub ip). I fucked up my grades and now I don't know what I'm gonna do with my life. I wrote keam and only got 41% on it. I have cuet coming up tomorrow and I have no big hopes for it either. Im not putting in the efforts at all when Im actually suppose to since everything is stressing me out. I dont even what course I want. Im truly lost. All I want is a good college life far away from home and study smthing that I actually like and will land me a good job in future. I was hoping to go abroad before but there is no way im making it abroad considering I have low score already and my family cannot afford a big amount for foreign education.

I feel like I failed life atp and my mental health is not any better. I really wish if someone could help me out on this.

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u/stillaliveaccount — 3 months ago

Good therapists in Kozhikode

I'm looking for good therapists in the town atm. I want someone who makes me feel comfortable and will actually help at an affordable price. I've been dealing with anxiety and overthinking issues for a while now

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u/stillaliveaccount — 3 months ago

18F things have been pretty rough for me since this year started

[Right hand dominant]

My mental health has been soo bad ever since 2026 started. It's mostly surrounding friendship and relationships. I had a friendship breakup that ruined February and march for me, got in a relationship that made me feel amazing all throughout April but it ended too soon ( a week ago) that completely drained my energy and I cannot even move on. I have no motivation in anything and I don't know what to do.

u/stillaliveaccount — 3 months ago

18F , things have not been too great for me since the year started

[Right hand dominant]

My mental health has been soo bad ever since 2026 started. It's mostly surrounding friendship and relationships. I had a friendship breakup that ruined February and march for me, got in a relationship that made me feel amazing all throughout April but it ended too soon ( a week ago) that completely drained my energy and I cannot even move on. I have no motivation in anything and I don't know what to do.

u/stillaliveaccount — 3 months ago
▲ 5 r/AstrologyDiscovery+2 crossposts

My mental health is soo bad atm. I have lost interest in everything.

I thought maybe getting a reading would help in order to understand what's going on with me. I'm genuinely feeling soo unmotivated and just had a breakup that made things worse

u/stillaliveaccount — 3 months ago