u/stonnedbrocoli

I've been in a fwb (27M, 21F). We never did anything sexual just kissing. Eventually, I caught feelings, so I decided to end it myself. We stayed friends afterward and texted casually once in a while.

It's been almost a month since I ended things. It was really hard not to think about him, but I was slowly starting to move on.

A few days ago, he texted me saying he still craves me. The moment I read that, everything I had done to keep him out of my mind felt like it had gone to waste. Later, he said he wasn't trying to restart anything—he just wanted to tell me what was on his mind.

today, I texted him again, and he was actually rude. I don't understand this person at all. I'm so shattered, and I don't know how to move on from him.

This is my first FWB. I never thought I would be in one, but I did it. He was my long-term crush, and when I finally got a chance with him, I took it.

At first, he made me feel so desired. He would always video call me, ask for kisses over VC, and call me whenever he was free. Initially, I found it strange because it was supposed to be casual, and things like this could make it more complicated later. But eventually, everything slowed down, and I started craving the attention because I had gotten used to it.

When we meet in person, everything feels so good. I feel loved and desired around him. But on the phone, he feels like a completely different person. He used to compliment me so much during the initial month, but then he just stopped. I don't think it's because he lost attraction towards me. Maybe he just got used to me and doesn't feel the need to express it anymore.

But when he says things like, "She's so pretty" or "She's so hot" about other girls, I can't help but wonder if he ever thinks of me that way. Recently, he said something like that about my friend, and I felt really jealous. That's when I told him I wanted to stop this because all of this was affecting me.

He tried to convince me not to stop, but I repeatedly told him that I wanted to end it. Now, though, I'm having thoughts about him again and wondering if I should go back to him. I honestly don't know what to do.

This is my first FWB. I never thought I would be in one, but I did it. He was my long-term crush, and when I finally got a chance with him, I took it.

At first, he made me feel so desired. He would always video call me, ask for kisses over VC, and call me whenever he was free. Initially, I found it strange because it was supposed to be casual, and things like this could make it more complicated later. But eventually, everything slowed down, and I started craving the attention because I had gotten used to it.

When we meet in person, everything feels so good. I feel loved and desired around him. But on the phone, he feels like a completely different person. He used to compliment me so much during the initial month, but then he just stopped. I don't think it's because he lost attraction towards me. Maybe he just got used to me and doesn't feel the need to express it anymore.

But when he says things like, "She's so pretty" or "She's so hot" about other girls, I can't help but wonder if he ever thinks of me that way. Recently, he said something like that about my friend, and I felt really jealous. That's when I told him I wanted to stop this because all of this was affecting me.

He tried to convince me not to stop, but I repeatedly told him that I wanted to end it. Now, though, I'm having thoughts about him again and wondering if I should go back to him. I honestly don't know what to do.

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So..... there's one guy whom I had a huge crush on back when I'm in 11 th stnd and he was my tuition teacher. He was a b.e.d student himself at that time...... I don't have that many crushes but for this guy I've had a huge crush on him....then even after my tution I kept in touch with him . We would text sometimes and overtime i lost that crush and after 5 years on a random nyt that I was bored I texted him and he took was bored and we talked a lot and we started playing truth or dare....and you know one thing led to another and you know something happened. And he asked me if we could continue this. At that time I also agreed to that fwb . He told me everything that......he's now 27 and his family is looking for his arranged marriage they're searching a bride for him. And we're different religion so even if we want to we can't make this happen. And we started our fwb....in the first month he would call me frequently....vedio call me.....text me.... compliment me...like a literal relationship. First it was weird for me but then I got used to it and the first time we met after that Convo was one week after that night and I got literal butterflies when kissing him. I've had relationships before but I've never had these kinda feelings. And then after a month things started changing I've been always thinking about him and he's bzy at work( so I'm a clg student and he's a police officer now) and then those calls started declining I've also became more obsessed. I craved his text his calls his touch evrything. We are soo in to each other......the thing is that overtime i understood that he's a kind of guy that is emotionally unavailable. He does care about me likes me takes care of me but he's now acting like just a fwb . Ig those first month was just bcoz of that extimnet. He dnt compliment now.....I would have to ask do I look pretty for him to answer. He still soo in to me when in person.....but I......I am actually obsessed with him... Even small things can make me cry and I would think that I'll end this but after sometime I forgot this and back to old me. Now his family is actively looking for a bride and this can end anytime . I'm actually prepared for this but I just can't stop thinking about him..... craving him......I never want to marry him but the time he's with me I want him fully into me.....as in the first month of this relationship. Ig fwb are not my thing. How do I overcome this attachment. Please give honest reply. Just don't tell me to end this rn . This is gonna end anyways in few months but without ending this I want to stop obsessing over him and be in this like the way he's in this relationship. Tell me how do I stop obsessing over this guy?

So..... there's one guy whom I had a huge crush on back when I'm in 11 th stnd and he was my tuition teacher. He was a b.e.d student himself at that time...... I don't have that many crushes but for this guy I've had a huge crush on him....then even after my tution I kept in touch with him . We would text sometimes and overtime i lost that crush and after 5 years on a random nyt that I was bored I texted him and he took was bored and we talked a lot and we started playing truth or dare....and you know one thing led to another and you know something happened. And he asked me if we could continue this. At that time I also agreed to that fwb . He told me everything that......he's now 27 and his family is looking for his arranged marriage they're searching a bride for him. And we're different religion so even if we want to we can't make this happen. And we started our fwb....in the first month he would call me frequently....vedio call me.....text me.... compliment me...like a literal relationship. First it was weird for me but then I got used to it and the first time we met after that Convo was one week after that night and I got literal butterflies when kissing him. I've had relationships before but I've never had these kinda feelings. And then after a month things started changing I've been always thinking about him and he's bzy at work( so I'm a clg student and he's a police officer now) and then those calls started declining I've also became more obsessed. I craved his text his calls his touch evrything. We are soo in to each other......the thing is that overtime i understood that he's a kind of guy that is emotionally unavailable. He does care about me likes me takes care of me but he's now acting like just a fwb . Ig those first month was just bcoz of that extimnet. He dnt compliment now.....I would have to ask do I look pretty for him to answer. He still soo in to me when in person.....but I......I am actually obsessed with him... Even small things can make me cry and I would think that I'll end this but after sometime I forgot this and back to old me. Now his family is actively looking for a bride and this can end anytime . I'm actually prepared for this but I just can't stop thinking about him..... craving him......I never want to marry him but the time he's with me I want him fully into me.....as in the first month of this relationship. Ig fwb are not my thing. How do I overcome this attachment. Please give honest reply. Just don't tell me to end this rn . This is gonna end anyways in few months but without ending this I want to stop obsessing over him and be in this like the way he's in this relationship.

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