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My previous dating partners all were Catholic and had their sacraments but were not practicing Catholic and only time would tell their walk with God. Yet, I have met a few Christian men who truly love the Lord and it feels like my heart really does want someone who loves the Lord, and lives by it, but then I think about some nuances that could arise like when I think about marriage and how I want to raise my kids Catholic. Of all the dates I have gone on, whether they were “Catholic” or “Christian”, this one guy I met who was raised Christian has truly been the most respectful man I have connected with. So it just has me thinking a lot.

My previous dating partners all were Catholic and had their sacraments but were not practicing Catholic and only time would tell their walk with God. Yet, I have met a few Christian men who truly love the Lord and it feels like my heart really does want someone who loves the Lord, and lives by it, but then I think about some nuances that could arise like when I think about marriage and how I want to raise my kids Catholic. Of all the dates I have gone on, whether they were “Catholic” or “Christian”, this one guy I met who was raised Christian has truly been the most respectful man I have connected with. So it just has me thinking a lot.

Have any of you men (asking for answers from biological men who settled down with a biological women… just wanting to hear this perspective since this is the dynamic I am after/situation I am in) who were looking to settle down and marry the one- did you ever feel like someone was the one but you were dating others casually because you weren’t able to date the one just yet (be in schedule, distance, timing)? Have any of you men out there known just by a conversation based on something that was said or on a first date? Did your person also feel that way immediately but took time to tell you? I wouldn’t say I am a hopeless romantic but I have heard stories like this and they just make me smile!

Hello! First time post here. I have been using burbur oil the last few weeks and months before that I would use castor oil or castor/rosemary combo and didn’t see growth but felt my hair was healthy. For context I have always maintained long hair but during school and stress noticed more falling out.

The last month I have been diligently taking collagen, bone broth, glutathione, and hair oiling with burbur which I had never used and just finished one of their bottles. I then added some of the green Mielle hair oil and left in on for several hours. Didn’t wash until next day. There was no burning or anything and in the past I have used mielle before. Then I double washed my hair and straightened.

A couple days later I noticed my scalp feeling very dry in one area around the middle part. It almost felt like flaky but like dead skin scalp and only that part (mind you i put oil everywhere though). Then I carefully removed some of the scalp skin and it hurt and I put some aloe vera gel on it. Then the next couple days I noticed like little hairs sprouting where those flaky part had been on the middle part. The strange thing is it is only there. I know I have new growth in other areas but this one little part is like a bunch of them like they are just sprouting up.

So I am wondering is this new growth or did i burn my scalp/hair in that area and not realize it and it is growing in? I never had a bald spot there either, so I am confused. I don’t really have any before pics that I intentionally meant as a before pic but can try to find a pic with my middle part so you can see there wasn’t ever a bald spot. It feels like new growth.

Any insight because this was a new bottle of Mielle I opened, and I tend to straighten my hair every few days but also give it a break from heat. I was also wondering if it was because I overwashed it with the double wash, but I have washed my hair daily when I sweat and never had an issue but it could be the water too?

*Photo is in comment section because I didn’t have a link*

So, I am a pretty intuitive person and have had dreams in the past that give me information before a situation or individual does. It doesn’t always happen, but happens more often than not. Of course, there are some random dreams in there that feel different than the ones that gave me precognitive info.

When I have dreams that feel like they hold a certain gravity compared to the ones that don’t, I write them down.

So here it goes, I connected with a guy on a dating app. We exchanged numbers and had some texting and some calls here and there. After the first conversation, the word husband kept playing in my mind. It was very loud. I began having dreams about him. We have yet to meet because of my schooling and some other things. We had one conversation after a couple weeks of not speaking/messaging and the night before we spoke, I had a dream of him telling me he had made reservations for us to go to a specific sushi restaurant and my mom was invited. The name of the restaurant was so distinct I looked it up and it pulled up the restaurant in a different country - so I made a mental note of that. That next day when he and I spoke, he mentioned he had lived abroad for a year, and I asked him where- and he said that exact country I had just looked up the restaurant from.

After that conversation, we didn’t hear from each other for like three months (this was my doing because I have a lot of things i am figuring out). He then reached out to me and said he had a dream about me.

During that time of not speaking, I had several dreams about him. The first was we were at some fancy place and he was paying for a bracelet that went on my left wrist and had some letters on it. (side note: I ended up going to you tube to try to find some videos of what the specific letters mean in dreams, and the random video I chose at the end of the video said who it was made by - and it literally says the same name as the guy but with a different spelling which was bizarre because it is such a unique name. The name of the you tube channel didn’t have any names on it.)have been we are on dates. Another one was us in a house like we had just moved into and were working on something in one of the rooms. One dream was me meeting some of his family. Another dream me saying “I love you” by accident before hanging up the call. Another dream of us arranging a date. Another one of him texting or calling me. There have been three dreams where it shows him with other girls. One dream seemed to show me a past girlfriend. Another dream was like he was out on new years but the girl he was with didnt seem they had chemistry. The most recent dream he was on what seemed to be a date but not like someone he had been dating.

When we finally spoke after three months I only shared the one about family and planning the date. The one where we were planning a date , I pushed back the time to be picked up. I told the guy these dreams and he said they sound positive and that the delay in the dream might reflect the delay in our connection.

I just have never dreamt so much about someone in a short span of time who I have not met in person yet. Even past relationships or friendships or family, I have never had so many dreams weeks and months consecutively.

I also am trying to understand my intuition verses when something is just in one’s subconscious… especially because I have had dreams about others that gave me information.

Any insight on this is much appreciated. I am wondering has anyone had dreams of their husband before meeting in person? or similar experience?

I was wondering if I have a chess profile on this app, but never synced my contacts, can someone who creates their own chess profile and does sync their contacts see that I have a profile. We have each other’s phone numbers but never mentioned to each others we play chess. I was just wondering if they can see my profile if they synced their contacts even though I never did?