office day 😃

office day 😃

top - Yaduo.ph

bottom - nabili ko lang sa friend na may business before

heels - Parisian

earrings - sa mga stall sa Ayala Malls

u/technicallyelle — 5 days ago

First Time Kong mag cancel ng friends date

Ililibre ko dapat sa Yabu friends ko, 3 sila, kasi I got promoted last month. Pero dahil mahirap ang schedule, we were only able to finalize yung date, supposedly August 16. At dahil ako lang yung malayo sa aming apat, ako na yung dadayo sa lugar nila. Sila nag-set ng oras, 10am nasa mall na. Pabor din sakin dahil Sunday at maraming tao, atleast sa mall opening hindi pa dagsa ang tao.

Come August 16 at 7am, nagchat ako sa GC if gising na sila. Nagrespond yung dalawa na gising na.

Nag chat ulit ako ng 8am if mag aayos na ba ako, no response. Nagchat ulit ako around 8:30 na mag aayos na ako kasi magcocommute lang ako. No one responded ulit.

Natapos na ako mag ayos, around 9:30 nagchat ulit ako sakanila and tinawagan ko na isa isa. Dahil 10am ang kitaan dapat around this time nag aalisan na sila. Walang sumasagot sa GC. Nagtanong ako bakit walang sumasagot, tutuloy pa ba?

Around 9:44 nagchat ako na wag na silang tumuloy, magya-Yabu na lang ako mag isa sa ibang mall. Even then, walang may chat. Note na pinagtatawagan ko na sila via messenger and their personal numbers. Around 9:56 nagchat yung isa na OTW na raw sila and palabas na, tas tinry akong tawagan. Sabi ko, wag na, kasi 10am ang usapan na andun na dapat. Nagpilit, pupuntahan daw nila ako sa mall kung san ako pupunta, and nagsosorry kasi gising na raw sila 7am pa naman and na totoong papunta na sila nung nagchat. Sabi ko, pano ko malalaman na papunta na kayo eh walang nagparamdam? And 10am yung usapan na sila yung nag set na dapat andun na, tapos OTW palang ng 9:56am?

Yung isa naman nagchat around 10:07 na hindi raw nag alarm phone niya.

This is not the first time that this happened. For years, I tolerated na ako lagi nag aadjust pumupunta sa lugar nila, maaga gumigising, nag aayos, even while working 2 jobs, I am never late. Alam ko naman iba iba kami ng situation. But I am ALWAYS respecting their time, but they never did mine. May time na nagpa-late na ako ng 30mins, pero nag antay pa rin ako ng isang oras. I always waited. Always. Kahit sobrang lapit sakanila nung meeting place, laging ako yung nauuna. Running gag na samin na "maaga" raw ako palagi kahit finofollow ko lang naman yung oras na sinabi nila.

This time, I stood my ground. I cancelled on them and went on a date myself. Treated myself to a nice Yabu set.

Edit: ang dami niyo namang pong in-assume sa type ng friendship namin and sa buhay ko, pati kung anong klaseng friend ako. Nagawan na ng kwento ng iba. 😂 Pakibasa po maigi post because I stated that this has been happening for YEARS. This is not a once-off situation.

u/technicallyelle — 2 months ago

got upset so I got me cake

tagal ko na gusto matikman both cakes, ngayon lang ako nagka lakas ng loob bumili kasi masama loob ko hahahaha. but at least lowkey napagaan naman loob.

Brazo de Mercedes & Dulce De Leche

u/technicallyelle — 2 months ago

28 [F4M] jusko po andito na naman ako

Looking for constant kausap which could eventually lead to dates (plural) and HOPEFULLY something long term.

Will drop basic description lang about me. I have a few photos din in my profile for reference.

About me:

-4'8", 47kg kakatimbang ko lang, hindi payat pero hindi rin mukang gasul

-QC

-working from home mostly

-single, no kids (yung anak ko kumakahol 🐶)

-non smoker, not drinking

-nasabihang "uy tumaba ka" before pero never "pumangit ka"

-short hair currently kasi nagmukhang maliit daw lalo face

About you:

-at least 5'9" (SLIGHTLY negotiable. preference ko po ito. wag nyo na ako awayin. skip na lang. kayo rin naman may preference 😭)

-normal BMI

-27 - 34 years old, SINGLE!!!!! and no kids. PARANG AWA YUNG SINGLE!!! ayoko bigla ma "hey girl i know you don't know me" jusko po jusko po

-working din, ayoko maging sugar mommy. dami ko nang responsibilidad sa mundo ayoko dagdagan

-CUTE din hehe para naman kinikilig din ako 😃

-non smoker pls

-taga metro lang din sana para madali lang mag date anek

Hmu if you are up for this. We can exchange photos, I don't mind if we aren't each other's type. Everyone has their own preferences naman.

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u/technicallyelle — 2 months ago

28 [F4M] jusko po andito na naman ako

Looking for constant kausap which could eventually lead to dates (plural) and HOPEFULLY something long term.

Will drop basic description lang about me. I have a few photos din in my profile for reference.

About me:

-4'8", 47kg kakatimbang ko lang, hindi payat pero hindi rin mukang gasul

-QC

-working from home mostly

-single, no kids (yung anak ko kumakahol 🐶)

-non smoker, not drinking

-nasabihang "uy tumaba ka" before pero never "pumangit ka"

-short hair currently kasi nagmukhang maliit daw lalo face

About you:

-at least 5'9" (SLIGHTLY negotiable. preference ko po ito. wag nyo na ako awayin. skip na lang. kayo rin naman may preference 😭)

-normal BMI

-27 - 34 years old, SINGLE!!!!! and no kids. PARANG AWA YUNG SINGLE!!! ayoko bigla ma "hey girl i know you don't know me" jusko po jusko po

-working din, ayoko maging sugar mommy. dami ko nang responsibilidad sa mundo ayoko dagdagan

-CUTE din hehe para naman kinikilig din ako 😃

-non smoker pls

-taga metro lang din sana para madali lang mag date anek

Hmu if you are up for this. We can exchange photos, I don't mind if we aren't each other's type. Everyone has their own preferences naman.

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u/technicallyelle — 2 months ago

Working 19 hours a day and people's first thought is "mayaman" na

Talked to a few people on here and my sleep time is 3pm-8pm. So usually sinasabi ko na yun agad kasi baka gumanda yung convo tas bigla ko ica-cut. Ina-add ko na rin I work 2 jobs kaya ganyan lang yung oras ko para mag sleep on a daily basis.

A lot of them have commented "ay mayaman" or something along those lines. Given the fact na hindi naman nila alam yung situation ko, I usually let it pass and respond jokingly na "kung mayaman ako, bakit ako magwowork ng 19 hours a day?"

However, personally, if someone tells me they work more than fucking half a day, my first thought would be, "omg, why do you need to work a lot?", and not "mayaman na to", or minsan may joke pa na magpapalibre.

Hindi ko alam bakit kailangan ko pang i-explain na KAILANGAN ko 'to, and I'm not just doing it to earn more. For context, I am a breadwinner. Paying off a lot of NEEDS for my siblings.

Alam ko naman marami kasing may double jobs or multiple clients ngayon kaya gets ko bakit ganun ang first thought. But why would I opt to work that long kung mayaman ako? And why would I want to sleep between the hours of 3pm-8pm kung trip trip ko lang mag double job?

If you tried sleeping around that time, you would know na mahirap, at mainit.

Yun lang. I'm so tired of this life. 🥀 Miss ko na matulog sa gabi araw araw. 😃

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u/technicallyelle — 2 months ago

outfit when i watched 🕷

very tita na di marunong mag pose atake nya dyan 😭😆

top: Brishtyle - I recommend this top for the girlies, maganda sya. https://ph.shp.ee/M7XD3zcR

pants: Shopee

heels: apolloshoes

outfit when I watched Spiderman!

u/technicallyelle — 3 months ago

First time ko kumain sa Mary Grace mag isa

my fave 🫶🩷🩵

Blake's dapat ako kakain pero hindi pala available dun sa mall na pinuntahan ko. oks lang, favorite ko naman dito sa Mary Grace.

u/technicallyelle — 3 months ago

celebrated my promotion alone 🫶

have been working for over 8 years. 3 different companies na dumaan, palagi nappromote per company. the past 2 companies na pinanggalingan, i had a partner i could share my good news with.

this time, i am alone, celebrating my promotion. contented and happy. watched a movie and ate at my favorite restau alone. 🌺

alone but not lonely. 🌷

u/technicallyelle — 3 months ago

expanded my horizon 🤣

lagi ako pinipilit ng friends ko mag jeans kasi bagay daw sakin. eh lagi ako nahihirapan bumili online (as a Shopee girl) ng pants kaya iniiwasan ko.

ito, tinry ko na finally, and okay naman pala 🤣

top: Kily.Ph Online

jeans: ME Women's Clothing Store

sandals: apolloshoes

u/technicallyelle — 3 months ago

ramen and froyo

Kyukyu 99 tas Chimmy.

oks lang pero di masyado fan both. pag wala masyado siguro budget pwede ulit at may ramen craving pwede mag Kyukyu 99.

u/technicallyelle — 3 months ago

28 [F4M] what if mag date tayo

SFW dates only, pero let's talk a little bit over chat muna. ^^

We can talk about anything, and okay lang kahit hindi mabilis magreply. Will drop basic description lang about me. I have a few photos din in my profile for reference.

About me:

-4'8", 47kg kakatimbang ko lang lol

-QC

-working from home mostly

-single, no kids

-non smoker, not drinking

-nasabihang "uy tumaba ka" before pero never "pumangit ka"

-short hair currently kasi nagmukhang maliit daw lalo face

About you:

-at least 5'9"

-28 - 34 years old, single and no kids

-cute din hehe para naman kinikilig din ako 😃

-non smoker pls

-hopefully yung lean din kasi I'm on the lean side din naman ^^

No expectations, if we'd develop into something serious why not? So at least pasok sana sa preference ko hehe.

Hmu if you are up for this. We can exchange photos, I don't mind if we aren't each other's type. Everyone has their own preferences naman. If you read this far pls drop an intro thank you 🥰

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u/technicallyelle — 3 months ago

28 [F4M] what if mag date tayo

SFW dates only, pero let's talk a little bit over chat muna. ^^

We can talk about anything, and okay lang kahit hindi mabilis magreply. Will drop basic description lang about me. I have a few photos din in my profile for reference.

About me:

-4'8", 47kg kakatimbang ko lang lol

-QC

-working from home mostly

-single, no kids

-non smoker, not drinking

-nasabihang "uy tumaba ka" before pero never "pumangit ka"

-short hair currently kasi nagmukhang maliit daw lalo face

About you:

-at least 5'9"

-28 - 34 years old, single and no kids

-cute din hehe para naman kinikilig din ako 😃

-non smoker pls

No expectations, if we'd develop into something serious why not? So at least pasok sana sa preference ko hehe.

Hmu if you are up for this. We can exchange photos, I don't mind if we aren't each other's type. Everyone has their own preferences naman.

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u/technicallyelle — 3 months ago

and it was all yellow💛

didn't think I would also look good in yellow!

both top and bottom are from Shopee.

top- Brishtyle

u/technicallyelle — 4 months ago

cutest vacay fit so far!!

remains one of my fave!

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wig from tiktokshop *i have the same hair color but my hair is straight :)

dress from shein - borrowed from a friend

shoes from lovito

​

💙🩷

u/technicallyelle — 4 months ago

mall fit

I've been into this type of fit lately. nagtry lang ako maong and I liked it ^^

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top: shopee

maong shorts: surplus

u/technicallyelle — 4 months ago

cigarette smoke

I regret you

And how long I stayed

I resent you

For not being brave, oh

Tell me something honest

So the memories turn dark

You said that I made lovin' look easy

'Til I made it hard

​

u/technicallyelle — 4 months ago

28 [F4M] Kausap lang muna.

Hello, looking for kausap para ma-distract konti. No meetups or anything kasi di pa ako ready. Kausap na may konting flirt I guess? lol

I'm not clingy. We can talk about anything, and okay lang kahit hindi mabilis magreply. Will drop basic description lang about me.

About me:

-4'8", average slim according to my BMI lol, cute ^^

-QC

-working

-single, no kids

About you:

-at least 5'9"

-28 - 34 years old, single and no kids

-cute din hehe para naman kinikilig din ako 😃

No expectations and no guarantee if we'd develop into something more, so at least pasok sana sa preference ko hehe.

Hmu if you are up for this. We can exchange photos, I don't mind if we aren't each other's type. Everyone has their own preferences. ^^

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u/technicallyelle — 4 months ago

First time ko mag sleeveless sa labas

Buong buhay ko insecure ako sa maraming bagay. For the first time last week nakapag-sleeveless ako na hindi nagpalit ng damit hanggang pag uwi. May dala akong extrang damit sa bag in case mahiya ako pero I was comfortable the whole time. 😃

Yun lang. I love dressing up cute for myself. 🫶

u/technicallyelle — 4 months ago