u/valuesVoyager

Random question I have been curious about since I started going to clubs, the situation is the same across all Indian and american clubs as per my experience.

Most of these clubs let women in for free or give them special deals, while men pay higher entry fees. The idea seems to be that more women in the club attracts more men, and that's where the club makes most of its money.

What do you think about that? Is it just smart marketing, or does it feel like women are being used to attract customers? Is this objectification, and how do you see it from feminist lens? Curious to hear different opinions.

Hello, I am trying to understand what consent is. In a relationship, is consent limited to sexual context? What are some areas where consent is important but isn't discussed enough.

What about something that one partner doesn't want to do, but the other one is adamant, and uses coercion to make the other person also participate in it? Be it shopping, dates, trips, clicking photos, etc etc. If one partner is doing against their consent just to please the other one or to avoid conflicts, how wrong it is?

I am just trying to understand where you draw the line where consent is important, and where it is not?

25M, Corporate techie, 30 lpa and NCR based.

Dreams of living in the city for the mountain-hilly area, and raising my family there.

I incline towards spirituality and responsible living.

I have special liking for people who are employed in sectors where they help and empower others like teachers, therapists etc (basically a career/ job that provides more meaning than corporates as am already doing that 🥲), however more than anything what matters to me in my person is a blend of when to be mature and understanding and when to be lively and bubbly.

Let me know, the title is a hook but still I don't eat Briyani wo bhi 370 wali to bilkul nhi.

Hi, I(25M) used to always think that I have a higher libido, but after dating and being in relationships, I am hyper sexual, and it can trigger based on various emotional states.

I have a slight history of sexual activities when I was very young by someone. However she was also a minor slightly older than me, but I was too young to understand and just used to do it, feeling ticklish down there. So I had very early exposure to it, and I know I was very young and I knew how to feel it.

As I have transitioned to adulthood and after years of dating, when it's my phase I now think about my hyper sexual state, I think why is it so.

I am not very sure in what ways it has shaped my relationship with intimacy, but I don't really feel much about it.

Has anyone faced something like this? How did your life turn out to be in terms of relationship with sex? What things did you do?

I am not complaining, just maybe I want to share and know what's it like for others.

Thanks for reading.

Well, this question comes from the fact that every woman I have interacted with has shared the story of being manipulated and taken advantage of in their late teenage years or early twenties by someone who used their insecurity/ lack of exposure. The same pattern of love bombing and then goes towards abuse/ control or manipulated sexual acts and not committing etc.

What would be the right approach to empower a younger sibling or daughter without making it feel like restricting them? I don't think restrictions really work in today's age, just leads to resentment and loss of identity.

I have around 7000 Sbi cc reward points

I think the option to convert to cash/money is no more there, so what are my options from SBI CC reward portal, what are some good things I can get that is actually good value of money

Hi, I am trying to understand the watch market for women, especially in India.

From most women, I have heard there are very limited styles of watches that they usually come across, and don't really click.

Just curious, what kind of watches do you folks buy? What matters to you in a watch?

Do you care about vintage or evergreen designs? Or you lean towards minimalist or jewellery like? Does movement and brand matter to you, or the aesthetics and expression is more important?

What are the gaps you feel when looking for a watch for yourself?

Thanks in advance

Since, a few years the so-called dating guys have been pushing out content for approaching girls (random) and pick up lines, and hacks and tricks. Most of it is just useless and weird stuff.

Have you seen a change in the behaviour of young men in recent years, where they are approaching women in public spaces more?

Edit - Getting dms from some folks, so no cold approach is not wrong, but there should be some indication that she's also interested in you, either by some glances from her, or other form. I am talking about randomly approaching women who are just out for some other thing, and it becomes annoying.