u/whatshesaid99

Recently widowed and my guy’s favorite truck needs help.
2012 6.7 Superduty XLT 8’ bed, stock. No rust. Very good body condition. Underbody is A+ condition.
Best running truck we’ve ever had. Used for tons of highway miles, hauling campers, horses, farm equipment, etc.
It’s sat for 2 years (while he was fighting cancer).
Needs new tires, batteries & windshield. 330,000 miles.
Every guy friend of his has told me to get it deleted and keep using it. I’d like to keep it as replacing it isn’t an option.
Please give me advice about finding a good diesel mechanic to do the modifications. I’m near St Paul, MN & Hudson, WI.
Also, (rough ballpark) how many $1 dollar tacos is this gonna cost?

We have a Beam + 2 Era 100 together as “living room” . Added 2 Era 100 + sub mini as “living room rear”
Is there a way to put 6 components together as “theater”?
I get confused easily and even though the interface is simple, I’m struggling. Thank you.

This timeline is trash. Dealing with the aftermath really sucks. The financial stuff is awful. I’m so over it and really don’t care to do this alone. John, dammit I could really use your help here!! Half of me is gone. The responsible yin to my flighty yang. I miss the timber in his voice. I miss his farm-grown, down to earth sensible solutions to all my weird asks.
It’s been over a month for me. Several late payments, overdrafts etc… he handled that shit. I’m capable but it was always his thing. Death certificates to all financial institutions (that day sucked so bad).
Sell his vehicles. Refigure auto/home insurance. Navigate health insurance COBRA because we had It through his employer. He was in the process of applying for social security just before he had the episode that resulted in his final hospital ICU stay. I’m still mad that we were fighting fucking terminal cancer over 3 years but we didn’t do anything to plan for me being alone. He told me again and again that he was tired, ready to go, the only reason he was hanging on is that he’s worried about me. Cap why didn’t we plan?!?

26 hybrid Limited
I’m looking for hi quality upgrades.
Thank you all for any assistance.
__ Rain guards
__ Rugged floor mats
__ Door edge protection
__ Mud Flaps
__ Black out grill & badges
__ Best PPF gravel roads protection

Any help? Just picked up a 26 GHH limited yesterday. I was expecting the second row seats to fold flat. I can’t figure it out.
All the videos I watched prior to the purchase showed the mid row folding flat. I’ll be really sad if it doesn’t.

My guy of 32 years passed a month ago. Wow, it’s been a month, fuck 😭
I’d love to share his story and maybe connect with other folks with similar.
John was 66, nearly 67 when he passed from acute kidney failure(due to complications from Leiomyosarcoma).
He was diagnosed with stage 4 Leiomyosarcoma Sept of 2022. Seems like everything about life changed the minute we heard the expectation was 4-6 months to live. After chemo, several hospitalization, and high dose radiation, he was ok for about 18 months. Time we never expected to have. We traveled to Alaska on a cruise, Disney, and Mexico. About a year ago we got the bad news that things were spreading. Back to more different chemos. Each chemo put him in the hospital fighting for his life with neutropenia. He refused to let this shit disease win. When he was admitted on May 3rd he told me this was it. He was dying. The ICU team did an amazing job helping him go from critical to (stable?) over 4 days. 2 of his siblings visited Thursday and he got right with his religion. That visit brought him great comfort. (we never practiced religion as a couple). But he was raised in the catholic faith. Then he perked up and rallied for 3 full days. My amazing dude HELD COURT for 3 solid days. He had an enormous string of visitors that kept us busy all day Friday, Saturday and Sunday. We laughed, we cried, told stories and laughed some more. He had plenty of dilauded on board to help with his pain. But he kept the dope to a minimum because he wanted to savor every minute with his family, coworkers and good friends. After the last visitors left. He was so tired. His eyes were rolling back and he no longer spoke clear. I didn’t have a chance to have a last conversation with him. So I told him I loved him & id be ok. I’m not, but I wanted him to know it was ok to go.
That was Sunday. I spent all day Monday at his bedside. He didn’t speak unless a nurse asked if he wanted more dope. He would nod yes. When his sister & nieces arrived to see him Monday evening, his face lit up. It was amazing to see his smile again. I try to keep that smile forefront in my mind. But he looked at me and scowled. That’s my last memory of my love before he passed. I was not with him at the end. Jump up awake Tuesday morning at 4:45 am drove to hospital to find he had just passed. I held his hand firmly while family came in to hug. I’m still devastated.
John was raised on a farm with 7 brothers and 4 sisters. He was incredibly resourceful having grown up on the farm. He learned everything he would need to know from his grandfather and his amazing Dad. It’s quite impressive how much a farmer knows… really. (a bit Cliff Kleven at times) He has a keen sense of humor with strong midwestern sarcasm and self-depreciation. I believe he kept himself going thru sheer will, determination and his love for family and for me.
He did as much as he could for as long as he possibly could with an unstoppable positive attitude. Even last winter after dealing with 10 months suffering from pneumonia, he insisted on carrying firewood in for the woodstove. I took over that chore when I saw how hard it was on him. No longer did he plow the drive or cut & bale hay, but he was damn sure to supervise!
We spent all of our time together the past couple years. We gave up the things we loved to do. Many friendships faded away.
Over a hundred friends and family attended John’s celebration of life last Sunday. He wanted to throw a fish fry at our home. Thank goodness for his family that did most of the set up, cooking, PA system to share memories with the crowd etc... His brothers caught 60# of walleye, prepared it all delicious and brought food to feed an army. We absolutely delivered his dying wish.
Now that is over. I’m working on selling vehicles, tractors, so much stuff. All this paperwork! Insurance! Social Security! Multiple trips to multiple banks. Multiple trips to DMV. More, more, more!
I’m fucking exhausted. Alone time feels amazing after the past month carrying shock, disbelief, rage and despair. But I’m ALONE!! Fuck this. How do I do this alone? I expect him to come home. Our dog continues to look for him. I’m so alone. I’d really like to join him.
Thanks for listening. ☮️

ISO comfort, 4wd capability, plug in hybrid, cargo room.

Since y’all dislike the brand, could anyone recommend a higher rated comp with similar features and capabilities?
Must be AWD & plug in hybrid. Thanks!

How? My position is 100% customer service. This just seems like an impossible ask right now. Anytime I engage with another person ( family, friend, random delivery person) I start crying. I’m 62 and my guy, my entire world was 68. He battled end stage cancer for 3.5 years. We gave up all our interests and nested together. He worked a bit (salaried) and I worked full time. We’d been trying to apply for his SS but the stupid website was not helpful. So, paychecks are essential. I really feel like there’s no way forward. We rent our home. Tiny 401k. He would be telling me not to worry about it but here I am.