Can you recommend a plant light that has a richer switch or doesnt have a built in timer?

I have my own timer and want to control the light so that when it goes off I dont have to press a button to turn it back on. Every light ive seen for sale has its own built in timer and when my timer turns off and then comes back on, I have to turn it back on manually. I am using it for a Norfolk Island Pine Tree that isn't getting enough light.

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u/wood_floor_roar — 6 days ago

Married with kids in 40’s. Is there a group for me?

i’ve been married to the same woman for over 20 years and she has started dating a woman. I have been given permission and want to explore, but this is all new to me. I’m looking for a group of married fathers in a similar situation who I can learn and talk to. what happens if I develop feelinga for another woman. we were meeting with a therapist but I haven’t dated anyone yet and I don’t know how things will change if I meet someone.

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u/wood_floor_roar — 2 months ago
▲ 392 r/bayarea

Tipgate: Passione Pizza is charging a dine in service charge of 10% and then when you pay the auto tip options are 18%, 20% and 25%

I just ate at this restaurant in Berkeley. They charged a 10% included dine in service fee. The auto tip options are on top of the dining bill before that addition, but start at 18%, 20% and 25%. Wouldn't this be 23%, 25% and 30% tips? The Toast POS screen is calculating the dollar amounts correctly based only on the raw food cost of $78.50 (so it's not compounding the tip on top of the service charge or taxes). However, since 10% was already auto-included as a service fee, pressing that "18%" button means i'm leaving a combined 28% for service/gratuity. The food is very good and the service is too, but this seems convoluted and shady. Make it make sense!! https://imgur.com/a/nsDbxEM

u/wood_floor_roar — 3 months ago

Bitten by bed bugs on my flight and can't fill out form

I don't want to dox myself, but I just got off a flight and im covered in bites. I went to the lounge to shower and take pictures and I've tried filling out the personal injury form on my phone and my laptop and it doesn't send. I spoke to the agents and they just keep telling me to fill out the form. Nobody at the airport can do anything. Don't they want to know that the seat has bed bugs? I don't want someone else having to deal with this!! It itches! It sucks!!

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u/wood_floor_roar — 4 months ago
▲ 43 r/gayjews

Mixed feelings

I just got this email from my Temple. I have mixed feelings about whats going on in the Middle East, but I dont think anyone is being told they cant bring Palestinian flags to the parade.I dont want to incite anyone at the parade and my goal isn't to incite anyone here on Reddit. Im sad that we are being asked, actually not just in pride but elsewhere to shy away from the Israeli Flag. Many Jews and Jewish organizations argue that demanding Jews disavow or hide the Israeli flag is a form of antisemitism, especially when no comparable demands are made of other groups regarding their national symbols. I feel we in general we are being asked to hide or apologize for our identity and connection to Israel.

I dont really have a clear goal in posting this, because chances are its not going to have a resolution, but as a queer jew, I feel like im being forced back into the closet as a jew.

Join Temple ------ in the SF Pride Parade!

Sunday, June 28 in San Francisco, CA

Temple xxxxxx is proud to represent our community in this year’s San Francisco Pride Parade! As we have the past couple years, we will be marching as part of the broader Jewish Bay Area contingent! All marchers need to register as part of the XXX Contingent (link below). Please register by June 8^(th) to receive a T-Shirt! We kindly ask that no national flags be brought, in order to keep the focus on Pride. Additional security will be in place for everyone's safety. If you have any questions, please reach out to Rabbi xxxxxx

Edit: there are other posts discussing feelings about Pride. Its amazing that instead of celebrating our Queerness and our Jewish identities we are focused on anything but.....

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u/wood_floor_roar — 4 months ago
▲ 823 r/Antipsychiatry+1 crossposts

I’ve been on Adderall for 30+ years and now they want a tix screen

I have successfully treated my add with adderall for most of my life. now my Dr wants me to do a yearly drug test. I don’t smoke cigarettes let alone take any drugs and I’m not comfortable subjecting myself to a drug test. it’s the principle! So, here is someone who has successfully treated their disorder with a medication and now because I’m stubborn I’m going to fuck it all up. I must be crazy! Toxicology. Not tix!!

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u/horriddaydream — 5 months ago

Char Siu Pork Ice Cream

There is a restaurant near me that makes incredible Char Siu pork. He smokes me the meat over Cherry wood and im convinced it would make a good ice cream. Some of the meat is pretty fatty though and im wondering how I would adjust the fats in the ice cream to balance things out. There are recipes for bacon ice cream, but this is bigger pieces of meat and fattier. Does anyone have experience with a flavor like this?

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u/wood_floor_roar — 5 months ago

I cant justify the AF and I am looking at getting a different amex card to keep my points. If I downgrade to gold or green I lost the opportunity for a sign up bonus. Why do people say downgrade instead of signing up for a new card?

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u/wood_floor_roar — 6 months ago