u/zynthrr_n

unc zyn ne ap sab ko boht miss kia🥀🥀

issok im back to spread da wisdom

"I will become a doctor and help poor people for free" I think I am the poor person thinking of becoming a doctor💔

WHY DID I DO PREMED

I've realized that now Pakistani dramas have alot of English in them, my question is why? I don't watch those but my mom does and I often hear English sentences etc, it's not inherently bad but back then when I used to watch Turkish dramas or my sis who watches Korean dramas, there is barely any English, our parents and grandparents who know less English should have the right to enjoy Pakistani dramas without having to decode English sentences

I know alot of us are speaking English irl but don't y'all think dramas should be less burger type?

What do y'all think Abt this

2 years ago in matric I wore a sari to my farewell and my father called me kaafir, and said I'm a Hindu and he disowns me, that he would be and is extremely ashamed if anyone in the society calls me his daughter and he told me to not tell anyone that I'm his daughter

Mind u my sari was not revealing even a bit, I could show u😭😭😭😞🥀

he didn't even pick me up from the farewell event and I had to call mom at 10pm night to pick me up and I came home with her in sari in a rickshaw🥰🤞🤩😝💔 😞 🥀

I wonder how he acts so normal lol, like he didn't say that, didn't even apologize, doesn't think it was bad either

so I've basically decided that I want to take a gap year, because I'm lwk sick and my fsc result is not so high either, id have to get 170 to get admission and idk if that's even possible...

I was studying and all properly but since my fsc result came, I realized I'd need to score exceptional and honestly it's so fucked up

Is there anyone who's doing the same? To improve your alevel/fsc grades and mdcat... And giving this year as practise?

Its been almost a year since my dad lost job and honestly there are nearly no chances that he'd get one, he was given golden handshake and now he's putting it in business, but in bulk, I don't really want to demotivate him but I am scared, I just hope things go well

I wanted to become a doctor but seeing this all I've decided that medicine would be torture to me as I'm the eldest daughter and even if public med school is not so expensive, Jo bhi Jayega if would be from whatever savings we have left

On the other hand, constant fights in my house daily have ruined my mental health, my father and mother both are extremely incompatible, my father was a bad husband back then and now my mom doesn't like him either since some years, my father has been through some depressive era back then because his father kicked him out for some reason, this was the era we suffered mentally esp my mom bcz my dad didn't leave us out of his depression, worst is, the day my dada abbu called us back, next day dad lost his job, and a few months later dada abbu died, it's been really hard for us and honestly I feel miserable, I will turn 18 in a few months I have to start uni.

Is there any suggestion of what should I do? Is SE a good option? I want to earn and study both, my parents are willing to invest in our education, obviously in a public uni or on need based aid

Since mdcat is on 20 sep, almost all uni admissions have ended, I'm planning to join a school for teaching before uni admission cycles reopen bcz even with this all shit my parents are conservative and won't let me to go call centres etc

my father's phone, my mom's purse got pickpocketed a week ago in Sunday Bazar, and alot of people are complaining here on reddit too that there phone was stolen etc, is this a season or what?

I don't even take my phone out anymore, and my father is also using my siblings' phone but that stays home bcz apparently now we have to rely on Nokia OG lol

Honestly it's getting worse day by day I can't wait to move out and take my parents with me

are these good for even Sindh? Ya apni province book read karu? For bio esp

I've realized something that in pyqs and question banks, there are only 70-75% mcqs u can solve from "just doing your own board book" advice (this is for Sindh book)

The people who give those advices take lectures and then read textbook

And honestly time is so less k lectures Lena is nearly impossible

Do u think I should read the mentr shortlistings/studyhigh.pk/premed shortlistings instead of going through full lectures or taking a lecture is lwk non negotiable? I ain't gonna read other textbooks but I wanna increase my score

Or is Sindh ka mdcat very provincial? If it is, please suggest sources Jo k Sindh specific hain taake mera dimagh Kam kharab ho bcz litr glycolysis k step wale enzymes nhi hain mention textbook mn yet pyqs mn bhar bar k questions diye hue hain

I'm aiming for 170(ik unrealistic) but I'd appreciate y'all's help thankyou

U can suggest two shortlisting sources or just one..

hi, so I finished my fsc premed( I'm 17F) and couldn't study for mdcat this year bcz I was too confused whether I want this or not, I researched on alot of fields and considered the fact that finances are extremely tight in my house

I decided I wouldn't do medicine and would start something else, I looked into cs, finance, and alot of other things, I didn't find anything interesting

I planned to aim for money and fuck the mbbs dream, I am lwk flexible in studies thing so I believe I can adjust in finance regarding fields without much passion, since Ion have passion for anything, med k Liye tha but ab ROI dekh k I was very demotivated

But then again, aaj aur kal mn saara din bethi wi thi and all I could think about was mbbs, I was like choro sab ko.. mdcat ki full tayaari karungi mbbs ye wo bla bla

But phir abhi mn ne doctors ki posts dekheen and I'm again scared of being a doctor

But mujhe mbbs k ilawa Kuch samajh nhi araha aur itna khaas interesting nhi lagraha Kuch mujhe

I've always thought about mbbs and maybe even my dream is mbbs, if I stop looking at the ROI factor mujhe phir mbbs hi Karna hai, to the point that I stopped caring about money

I was thinking k agar boht tang agayi mbbs se(Jese boht saare doctors Yahan bolte hain k you're degraded etc) toh phir Kya Hoga Mera agar mujhse bardaasht na hua

Or I shouldn't be thinking about those things abhi? And study for mdcat

sorry if it's a weird question

dil se gaaliyan nikalrahi hain mdcat itna ajeeb, 11 July pe free hui thi mein, nhi parha jaraha, mn to register bhi nhi karwarahi thi parents were like ab bilkul aakhri time pe fear of failure ki wajah se give up na karo, dw hojayega, ITNE KAM DIN REHTE, kese hoga ye sab, ye mat Bolna k Shuru karo hojayega etc, karliya hai Shuru but dimagh phatraha hai

I hate this, doctor banne jarahe hain ya chakki peesne

They could've told us ngl, my parents wer constantly Sayinh k academy join karo and I was idiot "Baad mn araam as 3 mahine parhungi ache se" han bhaee 3 mahine? 1 mahina tak nhi diya weird a*** ne, didn't even join academy Kya karungi academy jaake, online parhte hain

I'm glad my parents aren't pressurizing me but ..

AAAAHHH I'm litr spiraling, is anyone else loosing their shit?

Im an mdcat aspirant and a female, due to mdcat juvenile policy I had to get my smart card, mind u I'm about to turn 17 in 4 months, and this data entry operator verbally harassed me

Before this, I was with another data entry operator and he was very professional asked me relevant details and stuff, but due to a mishap my token expired and now I had to go to that counter

Firstly he was not willing to change my name spelling to a correct one despite me showing him my matric and xi and birth cert's spelling, told him my updated b-form got my spelling wrong he said he doesn't believe me

He told me to get my MarkSheets printed(I had soft copy) , when I gave it to him he looked at my picture and sarcastically smiled or maybe smirked and then despite me telling him the spelling 4 times he still didn't write it

Asked me to come over and check my picture, then I told him that he didn't change my spelling, I had to tell him word by word and I knew he was trynna rage bait me bcz I was lwk confused

Then even though nadra automatically fills "unmarried" for minors, he asked me "Shaadi ki hai? Shaadi hui wi hai?" I was fucking stunned(because the previous guy didn't ask me that and it was obvious cz I was with my parents) and said defensively "under 18 kiski Hoti" (to which my mom is saying k I should've said "mama ye uncle pata nhi Kya poochdahe hain aap ao idhar; they told my mom to sit peeche)

Then I had to do the finger prints, his machine was not working or he was trynna belittle me, he constantly said nhi horaha(jabke pichli Baar aik try mn hogaya tha) and then called my mom to press my fingers but it didn't work, I said machine kharab hai so he said "pyaaz kaatti ho na?" I was so anxious idk why, I knew it was not normal at all

Then when I was signing I was gonna press on confirm he said "pucha mujhse?" I got confused, he cancelled it and said dobara karo

Idk why I'm unable to get this outta my head maybe bcz this was weird af

Idk why but I feel like crying it's been 7 days but I randomly start thinking about this and I'm unable to study for mdcat too, ik it's nothing big but it's getting on my head, he was just trynna take advantage of me being confused the moment my mom went back

Then he was being so rude and then smiling the moment he saw me confused

Fucker I hate him, I wish I would never go to nadra, I wish I could use this smart card as cnic direct always I hate it

edit: i appreciate y'all's support, thanks everyone💖

My father worked for 17+ years in an automotive industry(a renowned one), he has worked in different areas of management, projects, and leadership, knows English and communicates well, it's been almost an year since he and some other peers were asked to early retire

He's an electrical engineer and an MBA grad

Is there any chance he'd get a job, he's been trying everywhere and has been called for interviews, but there's zero progress till now, they just ghost

Is there any specific approach we need or something, please help, I'd guide my father

It's been a really hard time recently