r/AskMenOver40

I’m 45 and facing a bit of a reset. Looking for work, living with my parents, single, no kids. This isn’t where I thought I’d be at this age, and some days that gets to me more than I’d like to admit.

I’ve worked for years and know I have something to offer, but starting again feels different now. I want to build a life I’m happy with, and I sometimes struggle with the feeling that I should have figured it out already.

And can I do anything to reverse the negative course? I’m already experiencing a not so strong you know what. I’m also not thinking about sex as much as I did even a few years ago.