Eating disorders as they relate to addictive disorders-
I recently heard someone say this about a woman, in recovery and in recovery from addiction/alcoholism and in recovery from an eating disorder-this woman is also vegan-
“If they see what we both eat at least you could concentrate on bulimia instead of anorexia. That way, I could eat what I want and you could just throw up!”
As a counselor and aspiring psychology/therapist, having been I and around the recovery environment in a multitude of capacity- i have seen and heard so many people more concerned with the free meal they receive at whatever agency or for being part of a club. They have no compassion or comprehension of eating disorders.
This woman isn’t a counselor, and I still expected a certain level of decorum from her, anyway. The blatant lack of knowledge that:
1.) a eating disorder isn’t about food
2.) people don’t care when they’re insensitive about eating disorders
3.) it’s one of the most difficult to treat because the patient always has to have food to survive as a human.
4.) There are no know medical procedures or medications that specifically treat eating disorders-
( I don’t support pharmaceutical answers to any problem for anything longer than a detox for addicted individuals, but she does, so she should know this since she supports pharma)
5.) since the closing of many “psych “ units and loss of facilities specifically designed for eating disorders. substance abuse treatment is left with the additional need for facilitation of groups and treatment for these individuals with less than adequate curriculum.
in this case, personal “complications” of veganism are confused with “diet” and she took her anger out, on a selfish, uneducated display of insensitivity.
As a counselor and empathetic lover of life and living beings, that I don’t ever cause someone to feel this way or make harsh comments about something so intimate and personal.
I am taking into consideration she’s uneducated on the matter, and doesn’t seem interested no in anyone but herself, so I should keep that in mind.
Has anyone else experienced this disconnect in a clinical setting for addictive disorders?
Along with gambling, it seems like people with eating disorders are left to their own devices because other people don’t relate to it and don’t want to. Dual diagnosis curriculum barely covers these issues along with addiction. So, how are we, as counselors, clinicians, therapists and human beings, supposed to approach a person exhibiting hostility against these issues they don’t have a desire of knowing about? Some of them have struggling family members relying on support from those that say they care about them? I hate the answer is sometimes that they just really don’t care? And we aren’t trained to teach them.