My fiancé and I are custom making my ring. We got the wax mold back from the jeweler and all of my friends and family think it’s too big. The center emerald is 2 carats, and my finger is a size 5.75. I kind of love it, but now am conflicted. I won’t be wearing it at work since I wear gloves, but I’ve been wearing the wax mold at home with no issues. Is it ridiculous? Or is it iconic?
I've been trying to get a custom ring made for some time, but I'm anxious about the gold costs. General information about this would be appreciated as I'm trying to learn what I can so I can be better informed in future too.
I've been quoted roughly 6k AUD for 9ct rose gold. I unfortunately dont know how many grams the ring is expected to be as it's still in the design process and they aren't very forthcoming with information (part of why I lack confidence here), but Id say that so far, its on the larger end of what seems normal.
Is this price point to be expected for a thick ring that is not absurdly large? I appreciate that these metals are expensive in general, I just want to cover my bases and not make a mistake with so much money.
As the title says, I am so new to all of this lol. My lovely lady told me everything she wants and I just got my CAD back from LGG. Anything seem off here or can I green light it?
Thank you!
Hi everyone,
I’m planning to propose and want to commission a custom bespoke ring. Instead of going with the big luxury houses (like Cartier or Tiffany), I'm looking for a highly refined, understated piece — a top-tier NY-based atelier where the budget goes entirely into exceptional hand-craftsmanship, precise proportions, and stone purity rather than a brand name.
The Logistics:
My sister lives in NYC and can visit the studios/view stones in person over the next few weeks. I will be flying to NY from August 10th to 17th, which is when I plan to pick up the finished piece.
The Design & Specs:
Center Stone: Princess Cut. Not looking for a massive, flashy rock. Targeting the 0.2ct – 1.0ct range with exceptional specs (VVS/VS, Colorless).
The Metal: Solid Platinum.
The Band: Ultra-delicate, hand-forged micro-pavé. I want that "thread of light" look, aiming for about 1.5mm to 1.7mm in thickness so the diamond appears to be floating.
Inspiration: Structurally similar to the Cartier Étincelle (Princess), but executed with superior bespoke precision, no bulky baskets, and perfectly seamless prongs. (Cartier Link for Inspiration - looking for platinum and better custom execution).
My Questions:
1 I've been looking into Leon Megé because of his reputation for platinum micro-pavé work. Does anyone have experience with him for this specific ultra-thin style?
2 Are there other top-tier, highly exclusive ateliers in the Diamond District (or nearby) that excel at this kind of delicate work?
3 Given my timeline (approving the CAD/stone in June, picking up mid-August), does this sound realistic for these top-tier jewelers? (If not, that's OK).
Any advice or photos of similar rings you've had made would be hugely appreciated!
Hi!
Can anyone with an engagement ring with diamonds on the sides (front/back) of your ring give me insight into how they’ve held up?
I know it’s typically frowned upon because it can scratch up wedding bands but I like the look personally. As I’m getting ideas for a ring, this is something I’m strongly considering but want to hear from people who have this.
Would you recommend it? Do you replace stones often? Anything I should keep in mind or just completely avoid it?
TIA😊
Hello everyone! I’m looking to propose to my girlfriend shortly and I wanted to know if you guys are familiar with any NYC jewelers. I have a few ideas and will attach the rings below that I know she likes a lot. For some quick context, she would a thick gold band mostly. She also wants an oval diamond because she thinks she has slim fingers (Which Is a non-negotiable for me because I want to respect that). Finally, we are both fans of the Toi Et Moi style ring because she would like a natural Emerald, but is fine with a Lab-Grown diamond. I’ll drop some photos below that she has shown me she likes…Thank you all!
If you guys have worked with some of the jewelers and can vouch for the work/pricing points…please do not hesitate to drop them below!
Edit: Also, open to New Jersey Makers as well!
I think one change I would like to make is to add additional beaded accents on the halo setting between the smaller stones (similar to the beaded accents along the outer edge) is this possible? I saw a similar design once in person that seemed to have additional beading within.
I also want to ensure that a wedding band would be able to slide in and fit beside the engagement ring without a gap.
Any notable items that stand out to address? I’m a complete newbie and have no clue what i’m doing, lol.
Having already had my bespoke ring, but due to a multitude of issues with the jewellers I've now got a refund and looking for advice on next steps.
I absolutely love the design (hence going down bespoke route initially as I couldn't find a ring like it).
Is there anything you would change about the design to make it anymore secure?
I'm thinking I should increase the width slightly, so 2.2 instead of 2.0 and 2.0 instead of 1.8 as per CAD.
Or instead of bespoke route, is there anywhere that has same style of ring I can order with custom spec of centre stone? I haven't been able to find any rings with the twist compass set and a hidden halo.
I'm in the UK so only interested in ordering from UK companies.
Thanks
Need help please!! I have two diamonds from each Grandma, I need to make one ring. Anyone have any ideas? The stones are 3 and 5. Thank you!
Looking for 3.5ct radiant cut ring with a 2.4mm pave band in yellow gold.
I’m deciding between a) cathedral setting with tulip and hidden halo b) cathedral with hidden halo or c) cathedral setting with tulip alone
The shank will have a few diamonds like image b.
Is doing option a too much?
Video reference for:
Option a) https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWj6vtbCXyr/?igsh=NXhwdTkxd2puMmwx
Option b) https://www.instagram.com/reel/DLNhR4tsrJn/?igsh=cDEzY25ocW8weG9n
Option c) https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/4351207928/vintage-tulip-setting-engagement-ring?ref=share_v4_lx
Thoughts?
I’m designing a ring with Tianyu and have just received my first CAD design - any feedback/input is greatly received.
Straight away, I would say that the pear diamond needs another prong at the top to fully support it.
Hi there! We just got the CAD back for my ring. Overall I'm in love, but I have a few questions and want to be sure I'm thinking about/asking the right things. (Ring size 7.75, center stone is 2ct.)
- I was surprised by the collet setting, as this wasn't something I thought we had discussed. I think they probably added it because I talked about wanting something that was very secure. I don't mind it necessarily, but I wonder if it will limit how much the diamond sparkles? Should I ask for the diamond to sit a little higher/collet to be a little lower as a compromise between security and sparkle? Or potentially get rid of the collet and ask for v-shaped prongs on all sides (which is what I thought we had discussed)?
- The CAD is not as sparkly as other sample CADs from the same jeweler - is that just a symptom of the CAD itself, and not reflective of what the ring will look like? Or should I be asking for something different in the setting to allow for more sparkle?
- Does anyone have tips on how to work with the iJewel CAD? I would love to be able to get the tool to show me the actual size of the ring so I could compare to my finger. I have tried a few times to adjust and print to the correct size, and I really have not had much luck. I wish they provided something to measure against in the model.
- I am still waffling between a 2ct and 2.5-3ct. I included shots of a 2ct on my finger and a 3ct. Anyone have input? I don't want to go too big, but I have larger fingers and worry that the 2ct looks underwhelming on me.
Thanks for all the feedback! I really do love what they've sent overall. This is probably the biggest jewelry purchase we'll ever make, so want to make sure we're covering all the bases!
I’m early on my engagement ring journey, but I know a style I like. I really love intricate detail but simple style overall. I am looking for a ring that has this type of detail in it. Was also curious if places like brilliant earth, Frank darling, etc would be able to create something like this?
Any thoughts or guidance would be much appreciated
Hi, I would really appreciate a CAD check and any feedback
I asked for a low profile split shank, 2.2mm wide and 1.8mm thick with petite claw prongs. A matching contour band with 4mm wide on top and taper down to 2.2mm. Both to be comfort fit bands.
I might ask to change the split shank to make more slim and a bigger gap?
Please let me know any thoughts on any changes I should make. Thanks!
A recently completed custom platinum engagement ring and wedding band set, made with love in our Toronto studio. Set in the centre is a custom cut Chatham lab grown spinel, complete with a lab diamond halo and accent diamonds on the band.
What do you think?
Hi everyone!
My partner and I are currently searching for the perfect engagement ring for me, and I’d love some recommendations.
I’m especially drawn to Georgian, Victorian, and Edwardian pieces, with an old mine cut diamond. I also love high crown settings with an delicate open gallery profile and a lot of antique character/detail. I’m open to an original antique ring or an antique diamond reset into a newer setting that still keeps that vintage feel.
We’re located in the New Jersey/NYC area, so I’d really prefer jewelers, estate jewelry shops, or dealers where I can view rings in person. Recommendations for trusted people in the Diamond District or even social media sellers/local dealers in the area would also be greatly appreciated.
We’ve also been debating whether to purchase an antique diamond separately and create a custom setting, but I’m really sentimental about owning a piece with original history behind it. Any advice on where to shop or recommendations would mean so much thank you!
I’m looking for suggestions on how to set this antique old mine cut in a bezel setting that merges modern and antique style and is basic enough to stack with any band but is still unique! Any help would be amazing!
Ive been married for a few years and love my rings. My engagement ring is a 1.8 carat solitaire radiant cut bezel setting.
The ring is gorgeous and i love the look from the top, but i’d like to add some extra light coming in from the sides (currently its solid gold from the band to the top of the stone). I think i’m looking to go from a full bezel to an open bezel?
Is it possible to alter my ring without causing damage to the original setting? And how expensive would that be?
(Note that my husband is supportive of this as he had it custom made but didnt know about the sides being an option and the custom jeweller he used didnt ask any questions about it when he was designing/making the ring.)
Thanks in advance for the help!
I’ve been with my partner for 10 years and we’re at that stage where marriage has always been part of the plan, just not rushed.
We recently started talking about engagement rings. I showed him a few styles I like, and he also started asking questions about what I actually want. I already know my ring size and I have a clear idea in mind, so I thought it would be simple.
But now it feels a bit in-between. He said he wants to be part of choosing the ring since it’s a big decision, which I totally understand. At the same time, I also feel like I already kind of know my preference, especially after seeing pieces from Lucce and similar styles online.
So now I’m just a bit confused in a light way. Do couples usually pick it together first then keep the proposal as the surprise? Or is it more of a shared decision from the start?
Not a problem, just that funny stage where everything is half planned but still feels special.
unfortunately this is the only photo for reference i have, but i was hoping maybe there’s some people out here who can help! I’m looking to get this ring but i’ve had no luck looking for anything close to the design. As per her description it’s
it was like square kind of
and the middle has a tiny diamond in it
and you can see in the first picture on every side of the square
there were little gaps
Not the most amazing description and photo but i’d really love the have a replica or close to of this ring!