r/Japaneselanguage

思わず・構わず。。。What does the わず mean after the verb?

i tried looking up online but there wasn't really an answer for it. Is this a thing i can attach to any verb or...?

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u/Jamoues — 11 hours ago

I am stuck

Heyy! My Japanese learning story is kinda long so I will try to keep it short. I started studying jpn in high school and I took the AP test and I got a 3 which is kinda bad considering i was learning it for four years. I took jpn classes in my hs. After hs I took a year break studied here and there but I want to restart. I feel ashamed and embarrassed of how bad my skills are even though I studied for so long. To put it in perspective, i can pass n4 but barely and I can barely speak the language.

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u/Unlucky_Duck_6025 — 8 hours ago

What do you all do to remember kanji once they become more complex?

I’m about 400 words into the kaishi 1.5k deck and I find myself revisiting some words often cause they either look similar enough to something else or there’s a lot going on and I can’t remember. Looking for some techniques or advice on remembering the words because trying to look at it for awhile and memorize it isn’t super efficient by any means but I do typically brute force it after hitting repeat many times.

u/Nearby-Phase8971 — 17 hours ago

I understood a Japanese sentence in real time and then immediately forgot how to function

This happened so fast my brain still hasn’t processed it properly.

I was watching a random Japanese street interview clip earlier and someone said something and I just… understood it.

No subtitles.

No mentally translating word by word.

No pausing the video every three seconds like a detective trying to solve a crime.

I just heard the sentence and knew what it meant instantly.

The crazy part is I didn’t even realize it happened at first. My brain registered the meaning before my conscious thoughts caught up. Then like two seconds later I froze and rewound the clip because WAIT. Did I actually understand that??

I replayed it five times just to make sure I wasn’t hallucinating.

And now I’m having this weird crisis because if you ask me to explain the grammar I probably couldn’t even do it properly. But somehow my brain absorbed enough Japanese over time for that sentence to just click naturally for a moment.

Language learning is so weird.

You spend months feeling like nothing is sticking and then suddenly your brain decides to surprise you out of nowhere.

Anyway the next sentence completely destroyed me and I understood nothing again so we stay humble 😭

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u/Seigoy — 19 hours ago

Need help.

I want to start learning japanese from base level. Can someone tell me from where I can learn it, it's fine even if it's paid.

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u/Gernone — 14 hours ago

Mock test for n5

If any of you have taken N5 or plan to take it, could you recommend some free and relevant mock tests?

Just wanted to test my learnings

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u/DJDARA555 — 16 hours ago

Japanese Introduction

I am learning Japanese in school right now and I'm wondering if my introduction is correct?

Also how do you say you love something? I know _____ ga suki desu is for stuff u like so how would I say I love something??

Here is my Introduction. Tip r appreciated!

はじめまして

私はエリンです。

ニュージーランドでうまらましたばからニュージーランド人です。

私の誕生日は三月二十一日です。

すしがすきです。あにめがすきです。まんががすきです。

どうぞよろしく。

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u/Meowzerzzzowo — 18 hours ago

As a Japanese person, I didn't realize how difficult Japanese is until I saw people learning it

As a native Japanese speaker, one thing that surprises me is how difficult Japanese can become at an advanced level.

A sentence can be grammatically correct and still sound unusual to native speakers.

Many learners think vocabulary and grammar are the hardest part.

But natural Japanese often depends on context, tone, and how people actually speak.

Even Japanese people sometimes explain things with:
"It just sounds more natural."

For people learning Japanese:
What part feels the most difficult or unexpected?

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u/ke----------i — 1 day ago

Please explain the word "見して" to me.

As a Japanese native who immigrated to the US while quite young and have forgotten many things about the Japanese language, there is one thing I'm very curious about.

I noticed that there are Japanese people who say "見して" instead of "見せて". Is this just a regional thing? I don't remember hearing this when I lived in Western Japan.

There is an English YouTuber who I follow speaking fluent Japanese, and I've even heard him saying this.

Would someone please explain this mystery to me? It's driving me crazy.

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u/Iadoredogs — 1 day ago

What is the word for "father"?

I don't mean "father" as a parental figure, I mean "father", like a priest. In English, let's say there is a priest called "Kuro", you would call him "Father Kuro". But, in Japanese, how would that be? "___黒" or "黒___"?

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u/IceFoxGames — 1 day ago

Slowest learner

Hi! I am learning Japanese about one year and half. Today I found out, that usually after that long time I should be N4-N3. But I am not even N5!!! 😭 Please, tell me someone, that its not only me. I don’t want to give up but …

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We all know "textbook Japanese sounds stiff." Here is how to actually fix those beginner habits with

Hey guys. We’ve all seen the classic advice given to beginners: "stop speaking like a textbook" or "don't sound like a robot." It’s basically a meme in the learning community at this point. Everyone knows it.

But as someone who has been living and working in Tokyo for 13 years, I notice that while people know they need to loosen up their textbook habits, they really struggle with the actual execution. They try to drop the beginner-level rigidity, but they overcorrect, use casual slang in the wrong settings, and end up sounding accidentally rude to coworkers or strangers.

I actually wrote out a full breakdown on how to safely bridge this gap because the formatting is way too long for a single Reddit post, but here is a quick reality check on how to handle those basic conversational adjustments without being a jerk:

1. Particle dropping (The polite way)

We all know you're supposed to drop を and が in real life so you don't sound like an exam audio track. But don't just drop them with everyone. With friends, yeah, ditch them. But at work or with strangers, keep your polite verb endings (です/ます) and just replace the heavy particle with a tiny, natural pause. Like saying "お茶、飲みますか?" instead of "お茶を...". It softens the sentence but keeps the respect.

2. Finding the middle ground on contractions

Beginners usually learn the raw casual shortcuts like ちゃった (chatta). But please don't use that with your boss just to sound "fluent." Instead, use the polite workplace contraction tier like 忘れちゃいました (wasurechaimashita). It sounds natural and fluid but keeps the required workplace manners.

3. The "No" fade-out

Another basic rule we all hear is "Japanese people don't say no." True, a blunt いいえ or 行けません hits like a physical slap. The actual mechanical fix for this is just stating your excuse, tagging 〜んですけど... (it's just that...) on the end, and then literally stop talking. Let the silence do the work. They’ll read the room and rescue you by saying "ah, next time!"

4. Pitch-matching your aizuchi

We know we need to nod and say はい or うん while listening so the other person knows we're alive. But the execution trick is pitch-matching. If a coworker is telling you a rough story, drop your vocal tone to show empathy. If they are excited, your voice needs to jump an octave to match their energy. Otherwise, your aizuchi sounds fake and robotic.

Anyway, I ended up compiling this into a master guide with full comparison tables for Robot vs Friend vs Work modes since I couldn't fit all the examples here.

If you're trying to shake off those stiff beginner habits but aren't quite sure how to balance it in the real world, hopefully this helps you bypass some of the social friction I went through lol. You can check out the full write-up here:

How to Sound Like Native Japanese

I really want to keep expanding this article and adding more practical tips over time, so please share any experiences, awkward blunders, or weird hacks you've picked up from your own journey in the comments!

u/Japan_nomad — 1 day ago

Kanjibox, an app I’ve used since 2009, just pushed a beautiful update after three years of silence

Unfortunately only exists for iOS, not android. EDIT: Apparently it's finally coming to the Play Store "in a few days"!

There’s also a free web site version but looks like the UI there hasn’t been updated yet. And the website stopped working at all for about a year, so I figured the app support was dead and stopped suggesting this to anyone, but it looks so good now that I felt like sharing. And I’m really happy to see long-term support like this in an age where we have to fight to keep games alive, to pay for every new version of Photoshop, etc etc.

I solemnly swear on my great great grandfathers grave in 竹原市 that I am not affiliated in any way with the author

u/Zen1 — 1 day ago

Trying to show respect

Hey I’m new here and new to learning Japanese. I don’t know much but I’ve seen the use of Chan, Sama, San, Kun, etc. when do I use these?

Also is it inappropriate to use it with English?
Example: if I’m speaking to someone that is Japanese in English and I refer to them and use their name could I use Chan etc and it still be respectful?

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u/AbsorbentFish — 1 day ago

Does anyone know the third hiragana?

So im guessing the handwriting is what's throwing me off but I cant decide what hiragana could it be. Does anyone know?

u/FireRespectOffical — 2 days ago

What else can I do to improve my Japanese?

I’m currently studying Japanese From Zero! 1 and using Anki to memorise the vocabulary from each lesson. I only move on to the next lesson once I can remember most of the words and feel comfortable with them.

The problem is that once I’ve finished my daily Anki reviews, I’m not really sure what to do next. I can’t do more reviews, but I also don’t want to move on to the next lesson too early.

I already know hiragana and katakana, so I was thinking maybe I should start learning kanji?

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u/Far_Psychology3270 — 2 days ago