r/LawBitchesWithTaste

Hi Ladies. Looking for some advice. I have tattoos on my arms and ankles so I have to wear long sleeves and pants to my internships (and probably ultimately my job). I live in a city that gets really hot during the summer, and I walk to work.

Last summer I sweated through my shirts every morning walking to work (I've become a sweaty gal as I've gotten older). Luckily I don't get stinky but it's embarrassing and uncomfortable, not to mention most of my work shirts are silk and have to be dry cleaned, which gets so expensive (I'm switching to washable shirts to solve this problem). I don't know if there's anything I can do about this and was wondering if anyone deals with something similar and has found solutions.

What I've tried: I don't wear my suit jacket while I walk. I have a little battery op fan but it only helps so much. I've also started walking slower because my preferred power walking doesn't help things. lol. I use "prescription strength" men's antiperspirant which doesn't make a dent.

What I'm considering: laser treatment for underarm sweat, but it's expeeensive ($2200). I've also considered not putting my blouse on until I get to work (just rocking an undershirt on the way) but I'd feel so weird putting on and tucking in a shirt while standing outside the building.

Any advice is greatly appreciated!!

I currently have long and very thick hair that reaches down 3/4 the way to my back. Long feels like my comfort style but I want to switch things up because washing it is so much work and styling it is difficult and I’m worried it doesn’t look professional. I usually air dry it (blow drying takes like 1.5 hours) and then just straighten it in the morning. Does anyone have any ideas for a haircut that is super easy to style in the morning, like roll out of bed and brush it and go? But still cute?

Can I just take a moment to be sad about the reality that is fashion gatekeeping? Many of us have to spend so much time and money (neither of which is available in droves) to “look right” for our jobs, in order to be successful. I’m glad this subreddit exists, and glad that we also have fun with fashion too. But it saddens me that we (esp. women) have to make such an investment in something that does not actually reflect our abilities as legal professionals. And as usual, this burden hits hardest on folks who come from non-upper class backgrounds, who are not thin, not white, and/or have disabilities.

Ok, not literally 2000 things. On an average day I’m carrying my laptop, gym clothes and shoes as I’m probably headed there after work, and a lunchbox or two with my food for the day (I’m super health conscious and counting calories and protein so I’m taking lunches and snacks prepped to the office). But I’m also a rising associate 10 years into my career and want to look the part walking into the firm each day. It’s time to upgrade my backpack situation as my current Herschel is ready for retirement. Any suggestions for bags that can pack it all while also looking classy?

I have hip dips and am struggling finding a suit. I know maybe I shouldn’t care about them appearing so obviously, but alas I do. I know I need a form fitting suit, but I can’t find any trousers that fit well for this. I’ve always done wide-leg trousers plus a more fitted top. Does anyone have any styles or brand suggestions? Please let me know! Thanks!!

I’m starting as a summer associate next week and have no idea what to where to events the firm is scheduling, such as boat cruises, baseball games, concerts, etc.

They told us to bring changes of clothes for days when such events are scheduled but I am at a loss for what I should be looking for! Any recommendations would be appreciated!!

I do not have the creative eye to put killer outfits together like you all. I still wear the same few conservative labels I bought when graduating law school 15 years ago: Ann Taylor suits, Calvin Klein dresses with blazers, Ralph Lauren cocktail dresses for fancier functions and Coach or Kate Spade handbags. I haven’t updated anything because, as you all know, quality has fallen off a cliff.

For shopping fun on a government employee budget I search thrift stores for DVDs of a few tv shows I watch on repeat to destress. On Monday I hit the jackpot!

A lovely lady my same size donated barely worn outfits including an Ann Taylor suit, a Calvin Klein structured A line dress, a Ralph Lauren cocktail dress, and a black Coach handbag, almost identical to my daily bag, but in like new condition! I snagged them all for $32 total!

I am 25 and was admitted about 2-3 months ago. Court appearances obviously still make me nervous and I am timid as a result and am not one to talk back/argue because I’m just not confident if what I’m saying is correct..(basically I just don’t wanna be loud and wrong at the same time). It doesn’t help that I look much younger than 25.

I am frequently called “young lady” and get taken advantage of by male attorneys. My boss told me I need to start being more assertive and bitchy. I would love to make this happen and I really do think it’ll come with time and experience but I’d love to know if anyone has tips for how I can begin to implement this personality trait.

Appreciate any advice!!

Partner at my law firm and looking to class up my wardrobe. Are very obvious designer purses considered gauche nowadays? What is considered more tasteful but still fashionable? Or are designer purses still the thing?

Starting my summer internship, I tend to feel more put together when I feel feminine (I look very bulky wearing pants). Most of the cute dresses and tops I’ve found are sleeveless - would a cardigan be appropriate? Any versatile affordable options that hold up in the wash?
Also, I have some strappy dresses I’m hoping to wear a buttoned up cardigan or sweater/top over the top (so I still have the dress part on the bottom but not showing the top), any ideas for options would be great.

I am the only associate at a 5-attorney firm. While not perfect because it's a job and we're human, we have a fantastic culture and I really, really appreciate the partners as bosses and humans. I'd like to get a little "just because" gift for each of the partners and add a card letting them know I appreciate them and the culture they've built here. (And yes, I do want to make partner in the next ~4 years, why do you ask.)

There are 2 men and 2 women, ranging in age from 43 to 60. I don't want it to be a big deal, and I don't want to spend a lot which I think would make them uncomfortable. Just a sweet treat or a little plant or something. I don't know the partners' individual tastes well enough to get them each a separate food item, though. Any ideas?

Hello. I’m 24 and I’ve always had a lot of body hair since I was a kid. My mum doesn’t think it’s that big of a deal as she never removed it, and thinks I shouldn’t either, but I don’t like it on me.

I do have pcos, but I think it’s genetics. Only the parts I’ve shaved have come back thicker such as my armpits, leg hair (especially inner thighs looks like a beard), and arms. I get laser on my face and sideburns, and the hair isn’t that thick there really.

My issue is I have hair at the back of my neck. All of my body hair is connected, so back of hair goes down to my back, stomach, chest, and so on. Like I said it’s all connected and a lot, but it’s very fine and very dark.

Would waxing be good for this?

I’ve never been able to wear my hair up in a bun or ponytail because of how much hair I have that’s going down from my hair to my back. It looks like a thick trail and I hate it.

I’d really appreciate some advice :)

Hi LBWT! I’m headed to New York City this weekend for a little solo trip.

Are there any stores you love that are NYC-only (or online, but only has a few locations, with one in NYC) that you would recommend visiting?

Thanks in advance!

hey y’all!

i’m a recent b.a. grad with a summer internship at a local attorney’s office that has me going to the courthouse for at least 2-3 hours everyday. i want to look professional, but i will absolutely PERISH if i try to wear a suit in 90°+ in north carolina.

i am on several medications that affect my heat tolerance and i have almost passed out in the courtroom multiple times already from exhaustion and blood pressure drops. i walk with a cane and may possibly be taking my forearm crutches this week because i have been in a B A D flare lately. even a light long sleeve shirt has me overheating. i’m not doing paralegal work, just observing and helping with organization from time to time.

i don’t really own any skirts except for two, which are black and sage green. most of the slacks i own are dark colors. hell, most of my clothes are dark colors. i’m aware that this doesn’t help but i’m working with what i’ve got here!!!!

any help is appreciated!

Any recommendations for a clothing rental subscription box? I tried a few years ago but I found there weren’t enough professional options. I’d love to try again if anyone has thoughts!

Every pair of work shoes I have ever owned have caused terrible heel blisters. I have tried everything. I wear socks, I use moleskin, I use anti-chafe sticks, I pre-emptively place hydrocolloid blister patches, I wear sneakers on my commute and then change into my dress shoes at the office. I have tried loafers, ballet flats, and oxfords, the only shoes that don't ruin my heels are sneakers. No matter what I do or wear, I still end up with bloody heels every day. I am a student so my budget isn't super high but honestly at this point I am willing to pay almost anything for a shoe that won't brutalize me. Please give me suggestions.

I almost always wear a skinny ankle length pant with a loose tunic style top at work (business casual office that is more casual than business). I really want to wear a wider leg pant, but it is so hard when you are trying to hide your mom belly. Any slacks recommendations are much appreciated.

I would really like to stop switching back and forth from my work bag to my purse all the time and be able to just take my laptop in and out. Currently, i carry a Coach handbag plus my work tote and I LOVE both. Just wanting the option to carry less lol.

I like slouchy brown or green, preferably leather, not picky on brand but I do generally like Coach. Also preferably not a huge bag - my laptop is pretty small. 🙂