r/Rich

I have had a great career. I have been in the right place at the right time and we have been financially rewarded accordingly.
I have been able to give my family all of the experiences and things.

I am being asked to be based away from the family for the next 2 years and I’m taking the role.

The family is very comfortable and engrained in the community we’re in. I will be home every weekend but otherwise gone.
Money is not a constraint- how do I keep it manageable for the wife & kids?

The Argentine player turned down an eye-watering Saudi contract to join Inter Miami but has still crossed into billionaire status after recent pay and sponsorship deals.

£10m NW compromised of:

•3m market investments (managed).

•3m property (yields 8%, PA, pays wife’s salary, max pension contributions and her car.

•2m personal home

•2m secured loans to property developers returning 11% PA.

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I’m about to come into around 3m and I’m after an investment that will provide a guaranteed dividend/yield to top up my salary (200k).

Any suggestions from the collective brain of this sub?

Thanks!

I run a documentary company that works with wealthy families. The thing that got us into this work is that our dad passed away, and there was a documented story of him. No record of his voice telling us why he built what he built, what it cost him, what he wanted us to do with it.

Since then we've talked to a lot of families and the pattern is wild. The wealth transfers fine. The governance holds up. But the actual story, why the founder did what they did, what the early days looked like, what they sacrificed, what they were actually trying to build beyond the money, that almost never gets passed down. And then the next generation is sitting there with resources but no context. No sense of what it means or what they're supposed to do with it.

Curious if anyone here has experienced this. Did you inherit wealth but feel like you never really got the story behind it? Or the opposite, did your family do a good job of passing down the why along with the what? What did that look like?

I have my own opinion but would like to hear others opinions

Hello,

I am a trust fund baby and heir, now 43 years old.

I have $12M investable, the rest of about $25M in homes and commercial property.

I am pretty happy in my family life, my wife and I are getting along right now and my son is genuinely wonderful.

The family business is failing. It was a catalog company and now e-commerce and sales are continuing to decline.

I know the solution, let go current manager who is somehow social-media illiterate in 2026, commit to forming a YouTube audience, drive with short-form.

The thing is, sometimes I truly believe this business has ruined my life. I wish my dad had sold it a long time ago at its peak. He was too attached, I guess.

Hard to let go now with basically no value. The parent corporation was founded by my grandfather almost 100 years ago.

My advisor assures me I won't need additional income if I close the business, but letting go is very difficult. The shame of letting the current manager run the business (my interpretation) into the ground is overwhelming.

I'm a bit of an oddball, very into philosophy, religion, literature, consciousness studies. I always wanted to be a writer, but I just can't seem to take myself seriously. Every time I try I get slammed with self-doubt, shame, guilt, and depression.

Anyway, not sure what I'm going to do. A deep, dark part of me still feels poor, and is sure the window of upward mobility is closing forever. A voice tells me to get off my ass and start some business that I'll hate just for the money, since $25M is really nothing and the future is looking very cutthroat. My brain is all over the place, it's like a hall of mirrors, I don't know what is true and who is the real me.

My parents snd 2 grandparents were major smokers. I avoid it until college when I started to hit the casinos.

Even when broke, I always found money for cigarettes.

If I’m outside at a local watering hole, no one bats an eye, do it outside the Mandarin or Daniel in NYC, you get side eye. When a VHNWI friend sees me smoking, she tells me that’s “not something you see in these circles, especially in NYC”.

I know it makes my clothes (some of which I’ve spend a tidy sum on) smell, bad for me in all sorts of ways, etc. But I’ve begun to feel like it’s seen as a “pleb” thing.

Good cigars, totally different attitude. Even cannabis people are much more accepting.

I’d love to quit, it’s a tough habit, and when I was younger quitting had a financial motivation. I quit for 7 years in the early 2000s and literally made a car payment every month with the money.

My question is, is it only my perception that smoking is looked down up MORE harshly amongst wealthy social circles?

It sounds simple but I’m honestly struggling. My family keeps most jewellery in vaults/ safes and since we have an important event/ wedding coming up I wanted to wear a few of the sentimental pieces that rarely see the light. After all some things should be enjoyed.

At the start of the trip my jewellery was in each individual box but they started scattering in my bags and i was starting to misplace a few things. Then my mother saw and freaked out so currently it’s alll been thrown inside a metal tumi suitcase but im not convinced this is much safer/ functional.

How is everyone travelling when you take more than the basics? Any recommendations for jewellery trunks where items dont get tossed around, scratched? never thought this would be a main concern for travel!

Has anyone had custom ear tips made for their AirPods or AirPod pros? It’s something I’ve been looking at doing for too long. I’d rather have a good referral. For what it’s worth, I know they likely won’t work on future AirPod models and I’ll have to reorder them.