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Have you dealt with people whose jealousy turned into them acting like your money, comfort, freedom, or opportunities should somehow have been theirs?

As if you having more means you took something from them, and any boundary you set is selfish.

I’m UK resident and investing outside an ISA. I know UK/Irish UCITS ETFs like VWRP/VUSA/VUAG can become a PFIC issue if I later become US tax resident, and I know selling outside an ISA can trigger CGT on gains.

What’s the most sensible approach if I may move to the US in the future? Should I just keep using UCITS ETFs and sell/restructure before becoming US tax resident, use individual US stocks instead to avoid PFIC issues, or is there any realistic way for a UK retail investor to buy US-domiciled ETFs like VOO/VT/VTI?

Also, does an in-specie transfer actually help here, or does it only solve the broker/platform issue while leaving the PFIC problem?

Not asking for personalised financial advice, just trying to understand the realistic options.

Hi all,

I’m from the UK and I’m planning to move to the US in around 4–5 years. I want to start investing regularly, likely into an S&P 500 index fund/ETF, but I’m unsure whether I should be buying it in GBP or USD.

My main question is whether the fund/listing currency actually matters much if the underlying assets are US companies anyway, or whether I should be thinking more about currency risk, FX fees, platform fees, and the fact I’ll eventually be spending in USD.

I’m also wondering whether there are any UK-to-US issues I should consider before investing, especially around using a Stocks & Shares ISA, a GIA, UK-domiciled/UCITS funds, or potentially moving assets later once I become US tax resident.

I’m not asking anyone to predict GBP/USD, just trying to understand the practical pros and cons of investing from the UK now when I expect to move to the US in a few years.

Any advice or things I should research would be appreciated.

I keep seeing posts take dating patterns and turn them into this idea that women are impossible to please, as if you have to look like a god just to have a chance. But that version of women’s standards is massively exaggerated. In reality, showing basic patience, respecting boundaries, having emotional maturity, and actually treating the person you are dating like a person can make you stand out far more than it should. The bar has been set so low that many women are genuinely interested when someone clears what should already be the minimum.

From my own experience, some women are easily impressed by things that should not stand out at all. That is what I find unsettling, because it makes you wonder how poor their experiences with men must have been for basic decency to feel impressive.

It is easier to blame some impossible checklist than to self-reflect on whether you are even meeting the basics. And honestly, just walking outside and seeing how many completely normal couples exist already derails the idea that only the most attractive men have any chance.

For many women, the so-called “high standard” is just the bare minimum. A lot of people are losing to the floor and calling it a ceiling.

A lot of dating conversations treat extreme examples as if they represent normal expectations. I think that gets massively overstated. It is easier to blame some impossible checklist than to self-reflect on whether you are even meeting the basics.

The absurd part is how small the real ask usually is. A lot of people just want someone respectful, emotionally mature, consistent, and capable of treating them like a person. That should be the floor, but somehow it gets treated like a luxury.

From my own dating experience, some people are surprisingly impressed by treatment that should be completely ordinary. That is what I find worrying: when basic decency registers as unusual, it suggests the baseline many people have had to get used to is much lower than it should be.

A lot of people are losing to the floor and calling it a ceiling.

Many people claiming to be "street smart" are coping with the fact they are neither. Many treat basic situational awareness as more impressive or rare than it actually is. People who are "book smart" tend to be so because they have a higher degree of reasoning or logical capabilities. People who excel at history, or English, may have a higher grasp of nuance and perspective. Mathematics, and sciences also tend to require a solid grasp on reasoning. These skills are highly transferable to the world around you. When it comes to reading others, real-world problem solving, judging credibility, understanding incentives, predicting consequence, etc. "Street smarts" is usually this same reasoning applied outside the classroom. Many struggling academically, outside of external factors, believe they have "street smarts" because they lack the ability to properly assess their own ability and so use this vague terminology as a way to avoid confronting reality.

Just to clarify, there are of course people who are clueless when faced with the real-world in spite of excelling in the classroom, and vice versa. This post is about a general trend with people claiming to be "street smart."

Edit:

To be clearer, higher academic performance is generally associated with things like cognitive ability, working memory, reasoning, executive function, reading comprehension, numeracy, and the ability to process and apply information.

My point is not that someone cannot be academically gifted and still lack common sense. Obviously that happens. My point is that many of the skills needed for academic success are also the same skills that make navigating the real world easier: judging credibility, assessing risk, understanding incentives, spotting patterns, predicting consequences, and solving problems under uncertainty.

Given the same background and life experience, someone stronger in those areas is generally going to be better equipped to understand the world around them. Again, this is a general trend, not an absolute rule.

It is also worth noting that an academically gifted person lacking common sense is more noticeable because it feels contradictory. An academically weak person also being clueless outside the classroom is far less remarkable, so people tend to tune it out.

Finally, people also overstate the usefulness of “street smarts” as a cope. Basic situational awareness is useful, but it is not some grand replacement for reasoning ability. A lot of what people call “street smart” is just learned experience, pattern recognition, and not being oblivious in public, which in the right environment even children can pick up.

Hi, I’m designing a language-learning scrapbook app for a university project and would really appreciate quick feedback on the idea and possible features.

The survey should take around 3 minutes. You can answer as many or as few questions as you want, so even one response would still be helpful.

Survey link: Language Scrapbook – Fill in form

Hi, I’m designing a language-learning scrapbook app for a university project and would really appreciate quick feedback on the idea and possible features.

The survey should take around 3 minutes. You can answer as many or as few questions as you want, so even one response would still be helpful.

Survey link: Language Scrapbook – Fill in form

Hi, I'm currently on episode 10 of the first season and I can't help but notice how many episodes feature ghosts/spirits. I was really hooked by the wendigo and thought the series would explore a range of mythology and legends, but it seems to be at least 50% ghosts, which gets very repetitive. Does this format change? Thank you.