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Image 1 — First and Last DGR Los Angeles
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First and Last DGR Los Angeles

While I whole heartedly support the mission of raising awareness for mens mental and physical health, the men during the event made it VERY difficult to want to be there. I was questioned whether my bike was mine even though I was sitting on it because "you people are normally passengers". I had photos taken of me without permission (which is fine) but was apologized to because he didnt want to upset my boyfriend or husband. And TWICE, I had someone tell me I had a round ass. And another guy look at my ass, like literally stopped so I would walk ahead, stared at it then said "I like your outfit". I tried stopping a truck from cutting off the group and he got his arm ready to backhand me. And not a single other biker helped or flagged down the police escorts.

Im frankly disappointed that these younger and older guys exhibited these behaviors. I get women are more likely than not, a passenger. But why talk to me like that? Why not apologize to me about the lack of consent, why aim it at a hypothetical man who you assume im there with? And yes, I have a round ass but omg can you just hide it from me that you noticed? I dont fault people for looking but I dont want to know about it. Out of 400 men, sure only 10 were bad but 10 times in a day is A LOT for a woman to feel like an object or accessory.

I know thankfully from someone here that DGR rides aren't all like this and even the women I went with didnt share this experience. But this bummed me out a ton.

u/Oh_Kerms — 1 day ago
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Basic Tools/Kit for Motorcycle

Getting my first bike tomorrow and was wondering what are the most useful tools or items to keep on hand that are small just in case of any issues when riding - aka wrenches/zipties/screwdriver, etc? Thanks!

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Bikes with ultimate comfort for long distance rides

So I currently have a KTM Duke 390 and while i love love love my bike, I cant go more than 2-3 hours before I’m uncomfortable from the seat. I got a new seat with an additional 1.5 inches of padding, I still can’t take more than 3 hours on it without becoming miserable. My partner and family plan on a 6 hour ride to Maine in 2 months and my partner is trying to help me find a bike that I can do this trip on without the discomfort! Any suggestions? Preferably something that weighs about the same (165kg/363lbs)

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u/selcouthzephyr — 1 day ago

Good highway commuting bike recs?

Anyone have a recommendation for a good bike to use for commuting back and forth to work on the highway?

I currently have a Honda CB500X which I love, but it's not the best for an hour on the highway each way. I bought it more for camping and when my commute was only ten minutes (no highway).

Thanks in advance!

EDIT

I missed explaining why I'm looking for different options, sorry!

Currently, I find my RPMs are sitting fairly high and I'm worried about overworking the engine or wearing it out sooner. I know there's lots of types of bikes out there, with different intended uses, and wondering if there's another option that's better built for extended highway driving. Hope that makes sense.

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u/nicole-hockey-12 — 2 days ago

Hello from Boston

Nightster 975: of all the bikes I've ridden I like the Nightster 975 the most due to how nimble it is. It has a low center of gravity, so it's forgiving weight-wise on my arms. I like that it's an upright seat too.

Things I don't care for: basic issues with the bike/brand. A clamp was installed too high on the radiator causing a minor leak. The gas tank floater also sticks. The air box is where the gas tank usually is, and the gas tank is now under the seat. It's a little more difficult to fill without splashing gas on the battery (also under the seat). I can't complain too much about where the tank is though, it contributes greatly to the low center of gravity.

Wind and Throttle Fiona Jacket and Pants, leather and abrasion resistant fabric with joint flex armor inserts. I'm 6ft and built like a linebacker, so gear is tough for me, but this fits comfortably. Black gloves not shown. I also just noticed my forearms are unzipped, I usually zip them up after putting on my gloves. oops!

Capstone helmet. I have a huge head and unfortunately I don't have much choice in fit. I like the double visors, and general comfort and fit. I had the helmet wrapped to match the suit.

I'd love to meet other women riders in the Boston area. I ride mostly for the therapeutic feel of it, but I always appreciate a friendly wave.

u/Gunmetalsunscreen — 2 days ago

Protective hairstyles or gear suggestions??

Not sure if anyone else has really fine, long hair & has any suggestions for what to do with it?
Last summer I would just wear two braids and it was mostly fine but I’ve spent the last year growing it out and my boyfriends riding now too (YAY) so we’ve gone on some long rides already but my hair gets SO frayed by the end of it. I’ve tried tucking it into my jacket and stuff but nothing really works well.
Any ideas or suggestions are welcome, thank you!!

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u/lilblonde96 — 3 days ago

Gear for women

So I’m trying to find some gear to get my wife into riding with me sometimes. Problem is that I don’t buy women’s gear so idk what’s good for them at the end of the day, and she has never worn gear so she has no idea what’s good for her.

Anybody have suggestions? Right now just looking for a nice textile jacket with decent air flow (have been informed no zippers on sleeves) and gloves.

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u/lriggi91 — 4 days ago

First group ride!

I went on my first group ride today for the DGR! I was pretty nervous before but it ended up being totally pleasant and less stressful than my daily riding. Amazing weather in New England for it! Hope everyone stays safe and has a great riding this season.

u/kitkatklyng — 4 days ago

Having trouble finding the desire to ride again

I bought a Ninja 300 in my early 20s, that I still have because it’s not worth a lot of money now anyways, and eventually a Grom because the Ninja proved to be more than I could chew, even at such a small size. I learned to ride on it, and got better on the Grom, but I’ve never rode consistently enough to build the confidence to ride solo.

The only person I know who rides is my dad, and he’s had limited interest in riding with me even though I motivated him to buy his first bike in 30 years after I bought mine, and he always made empty promises of riding with me more.

While I can operate a bike, I just don’t have the confidence to go out alone. This is worsened by the fact that I recently moved to a busy suburb after living in the boonies my whole life.

My dad is likely moving out of state soon now that he’s retired, and I’m considering selling my bikes. I feel like I have failed myself, but I have no idea how or where to find it in my heart to just get over it and go out there alone. My anxiety is so high. I’m curious if anyone else has gone through something similar, or if there was something that happened or you did to reignite your passion for riding?

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u/newmarks — 5 days ago

Hi-viz colorful gear

I just got my endorsement and I am looking to find gear before getting a bike. The problems I am running into are that I am a BBW/plus size and there is a lack of hi-viz colorful gear.

I will more than likely be ordering mens gear because all the "plus size" gear for women is too small. For reference my hips and bust are 54 inches.

I have been noticing that a lot of motorcycle gear is black with very little to none hi vis or light reflective markings. It does not make sense to me when it comes to visibility and heat. I do understand that black hides grease and dirt better, but that is not a sufficient reason for all the black.

I have seen companies on social media that appear to have colorful gear with light reflective patterns/decals. However, I am hesitant to purchase because I dont know if they are a legitimate business and if their gear is actually CE certified.

I am pretty sure I will probably need to get creative with some light colored gear, add in my own bright colors, and find a way to add some light reflective patterns/decals.

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u/flawed-mama — 7 days ago

Wearing a dress over your motorcycle jeans/pants/leggings/...

Hi,
Before anything I'm from EU, even more specifically for my country you always gotta wear gear. (And I'm totally not opposed) But I'm a big dress-wearing girl. All through the year I'm wearing dresses or skirts.
Are there any girls out here who wear a dress/skirt over their motorcycling pants? I say over because well with a dress that definitely makes the most sense, and my skirts are all pretty high waisted, so I feel like putting my pants on under my skirt is also more sensible.
Also, it would just be easier to take off the pants under my skirt when I get off my bike.

Any other girls out here who do this?

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u/MagicianAcrobatic545 — 11 days ago

Was my joy killed by a difficult, too tall bike?

I am 35, used to ride when i was 15 to when i was in college 24-25 ish years old. My family loves motorcycles, and I grew up going to bike rallys every holiday, sidecar passenger. I was kind of "forced" or heavily persuaded to get a license immidiately when i was old enough (all of the licenses, even up to heavy bike), and I got a bit fed up after a while.

I am just 5 feet/152 cm tall, inseam 27,5 inches/70 cm, and I am skinny and not very strong. My dad chose and bought the bike we used (my mom, my sister and I).

I could barely reach my tippy toes to the ground, I always felt a bit umfortable maneuvring the bike (a Suzuki SV650 from early 2000's), and my dad always had to maneuver it into and out of the garage for me. So i never felt independent, needed his help always.

I once fell over on a tight turn in a parking lot, broke the clutch. I felt a bit helpless sometimes.

And I had to lean forward so much on this bike! After a while, the vibrations made my crotch numb and sore, since I was leaning so much forward. I am also hypermobile, so i don't think this was a good bike for me, or..?

The only time i felt good, was once on a learning bike in a drivers school ed lesson, a cruiser type bike with a very low seat and more upright position. That was just one trip, sadly. This is also what i like on a bicycle, an upright position, cycling along calmly, no stress.

So my question is - do you think I could find joy in riding now if it is a choice, not forced on me, and I find a bike that actually fits me? I don't think my dad really took into account, what would be the most comfortable for me, as he is taller and stronger.

I wanna commute to work, which is 30 minutes each way, and theres a highway with 70 mph, and a lot of city driving and traffic jams. There are slower back roads as alternatives to the highway.

So because of the motorway, I think I would need a slightly more powerful bike.

If I got say the Honda Rebel 500 - do you think that would be more joyful and comfortable and feeling more safe and confident and able to handle things on my own? Or maybe some other bike? How much do you think ergonomics and comfort influence driving joy?

I am not into speed, i just want to be comfortable. And I like retro looking bikes like the honda rebel, that look a bit anonymous and "normal".

u/Julie984 — 12 days ago

Gear advice for beginners

Hi everyone,

I’m about to get my motorcycle license and buy my first bike. I’ll mostly use it for very short city rides like going to the gym, the beach, or running errands, but I still don’t want to cheap out on protection just because the bike is small.
The problem is: it gets really hot in summer where I live, so I’m a bit lost on what gear is actually worth investing in as a beginner.
If you were starting from zero again today, what gear would you buy first and what would you avoid wasting money on? What would your “beginner but safety first” setup look like?

For context:
Helmet will probably be an HJC RPHA 71
Likely a Japanese 125cc scooter

Would love recommendations for gloves, jackets, pants, shoes/boots, especially for women, or even general beginner gear advice.

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u/tehanu_k — 10 days ago

Bought a 125cc to teach my backpack to ride

Whats cooler than two girls on a bike? Two girls on their own bike <3

u/Oh_Kerms — 11 days ago

Makeup interaction with helmet?

Hi all,

For reference, I'm a trans woman and I typically don't wear any makeup (can't be bothered normally). I've been riding my bike for about 2 months now. I'm half-considering applying makeup again, but I'm also wondering if it is even worth it if I'm going to be wearing a helmet. If it is any relation, I'm from New Zealand, and afaik it is mandatory to at least wear a helmet when on a bike here.

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u/RainbowEngineer100 — 11 days ago

Women’s gloves for skinny hands

Hi y’all I’m having a lot of trouble looking for a pair of long gloves for my skinny hands. I’ve tried Dainese and the fingers are just too short when the palm is right. I know that HELD probably has the closest sizing for me but unfortunately it’s been impossible to find any L-D8 still available in the market. My palm circumference is 17.5cm (6.89 in) and length is 18cm (7.1 in). At this point I’m so close to giving up and just order a smaller men’s HELD for L-7 as it has similar measurement as the L-D8.

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u/SureAd6999 — 11 days ago