what actually helped when i was in the messy middle of it
about six months in now and honestly the thing that helped most wasn't a tip or a habit, it was just stopping measuring my progress against people on here who'd lost twice as much in half the time. the food noise going quiet was bigger for me than any number on the scales, and once i stopped treating the scale as the only data point i had, the whole thing got a bit less miserable to live inside. i know that sounds like something you'd stitch on a pillow, sorry, but i mean it practically, like it freed up actual brain space i hadn't had in years. curious what it was for other people, if anything, because i feel like nobody talks about this bit.