r/eyelashextensions

Honest answer to "do extensions ruin your natural lashes" from a lash tech

I get asked this almost every day, and the honest answer is no, but only if they're applied properly. The extensions themselves aren't the problem. It's what happens during and after the appointment that makes the difference.

What actually causes damage:

  • Lashes that are too heavy for your natural ones. If a tech puts thick, long extensions on fine natural lashes, the weight pulls on the follicle over time. A good tech will assess your natural lashes first and choose a weight that matches.
  • Glue touching the skin. Adhesive should only go on the lash, never the skin underneath. If it touches the lid or the lash line, it blocks the follicle and irritates the area.
  • Lashes stuck together. Each extension should be isolated on one natural lash. When two or three get glued together, they can't shed naturally and that's when you get gaps or breakage.
  • Picking or pulling them off at home. This is the biggest one. If you want them off, get a proper removal. Pulling takes your natural lashes with it.

How to keep them healthy between fills:

  • Clean them daily. A lot of people think they shouldn't touch their lashes, but oil and debris build up and that's worse. Use a proper lash cleanser and a soft spoolie.
  • Stay away from oil-based products near the eyes.
  • Get fills every two to three weeks so they stay balanced and don't get heavy on one side.

If your tech is doing all of this, your natural lashes should be completely fine. The damage stories usually come from rushed or careless application, not from extensions as a concept.

Happy to answer anything if you're on the fence about getting them.

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u/urbanglam1 — 1 day ago

Lash techs: Is becoming a lash artist still worth it in 2026?

I’m considering training as a lash technician, but before spending money on courses and supplies, I’d love to hear from people actually working in the industry.

  1. How long did it take to start earning?
  2. How much did you spend to become a lash tech?
  3. Is there still good demand for lash extensions in 2026, or has the market become too saturated?
  4. Can you realistically make a decent living doing lashes full-time, especially as an independent lash tech renting a room/bed rather than owning a salon?
  5. Would you choose this career again if you were starting today?
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u/Plane-Archer-1942 — 1 day ago

Classic set looks off

Need an opinion- first day of classic set. Do these fit my eye shape? The ends look off to me but maybe I’m just not used to it? I only got classic so wasn’t expecting craziness but these just seem…. Off.

u/Jazzlike-Note415 — 2 days ago
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How much should I be harging

Hi there,

I am a lash tech from a small town in Australia looking to open my business. I've been in the industry for a few years now and the salon I was working for has closed for their own reasons.

I am wanting some advice on how much I should be charging for infills, fullsets, etc. The salon I was working for was charging $110 for a volume fullset whether that was hybrid, light or mega, and $55 for 2 week infills, $65 for 3 week fills, $90 for classics and $45 2 week fill and $55 for 3 week fill. The salon increased the prices from the ones I mentioned by $15 but just for the owner's work and not mine although I believe my work is worth more than what was being charged.

I am worried about charging too high and people not booking with me but worried about not charging enough and not making any money either and the business will fail.
Currently I will be offering classic, light volume, full volume, mega, hybrid, wet set, wispy, coloured and hopefully tinsel/glitter lashes. I will also offer lash lift, brow lamination, waxing, and tinting.

I hope to offer handmade volume sets later on once I have worked more on my own skills for these. I also plan on training in nails as well to provide those services too

Any advice on opening a business and pricing would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you

u/Successful-Peak4291 — 3 days ago
▲ 6 r/eyelashextensions+3 crossposts

Lash techs: Is becoming a lash artist still worth it in 2026?

I’m considering training as a lash technician, but before spending money on courses and supplies, I’d love to hear from people actually working in the industry.

  1. How long did it take to start earning?
  2. How much did you spend to become a lash tech?
  3. Is there still good demand for lash extensions in 2026, or has the market become too saturated?
  4. Can you realistically make a decent living doing lashes full-time, especially as an independent lash tech renting a room/bed rather than owning a salon?
  5. Would you choose this career again if you were starting today?
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u/Plane-Archer-1942 — 2 days ago

HELP!! How do I fix this?

Last night I must have rubbed my eyes while sleeping, now my lashes arent straight anymore. How do I fix it?

u/middle-fingerr — 3 days ago

Allergic reaction?

I got my lashes done and then filled 9 days later. They started feeling pokey right after the fill and then more than 24 hours after the fill there was some mild swelling and itching. Woke up today (about 2 days after the fill) with worse itching and swelling. I want to remove them but should I wait for swelling to go down first? I’ve seen mixed responses on here and want to know what’s best!

u/bellevillle — 4 days ago

Eye mapping help for sultry eyes

So I always get 60 piece and J lashes. Because I have almond shape eyes that are smaller. I really do not like a big curl on me. I always ask for a cat eye effect and I feel I never get what I imagine. I always come out looking for eyes. And I don’t properly know how to communicate it. My techs are in no way bad. I just wish I knew how to get what k want.

u/Bonitabonilla558 — 4 days ago

Can allergy to the lash glue affect only underneath the eye and the eyeball, but not the upper lid?

I’m wondering if I’ve developed a mild allergy to the glue or if it’s the eye pads that are an issue. I now always get redness on the lower half of my eyeballs developing a few hours after I get extensions (my eyeballs always look fine straight after) and over the last few months I’ve noticed my undereye area constantly looks more puffy and the bags and darkness I have under my eyes anyway are much worse.

The eyeball redness goes after a couple of days, but my undereye bags/darkness are consistently worse than they were a year ago, before I started getting extensions.

My upper lids are absolutely fine, no issues at all.

Could this still be an allergy?

Wondering if anyone else has experienced similar?

TIA 🙂

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u/Agreeable-Item-7371 — 5 days ago

Chemical burns I think

So I signed up for lash model at a lash place near me for new techs to practice on me which should have been a first red flag. I got a lash perm a month ago and it was fine but a different technician did my lash extensions and I feel it's my fault for not speaking up about the tape being uncomfortable. Anyways any advice on how to deal with this. It doesn't burn it just feels like a bruise on my eye when I blink. (Fingers are green from hair dye I swear they're not filthy)

u/STINKYRUE — 4 days ago

What do you think? Inspo pic vs results

Inspo pic is last picture, obviously. This is my first time getting lash extensions. I showed her that picture and a couple more similar to it. We talked about it and I explained that I like the look of the darker lash line and spiky lashes. She said she could do that. She said since it was my first time she’d use brown, which I’m happy with the color.

I think I’m mostly happy with them. I wish they were a little spikier. I just worry because some areas of the lash line look so sparse and I feel like clumps of the lashes might fall off really early. Is that what may happen or is there no way of knowing? I can also see and feel a bit of glue on one of my eyes but maybe that’s normal for the first 24 hours too.

She said I had really fine eyelash hairs, and I believe that cause the hair on my head is super fine, so maybe she just did the best she could with what I had. Or maybe my expectations were too high and I should be happy. What do you think? I’m going to the beach in 2 days for a week. I don’t plan to go underwater in the ocean but I do just hope they last for the week at least.

u/FileCompetitive4254 — 6 days ago

What I wanted VS what I got 😡

I showed the tech the photo above and explained to her that I wanted the shortest lash to be at 8 mm (inner corner) and I wanted the longest spikes to be 13 mm in the middle. Doll eye I wanted them wispy with volume in between the spikes. She finished up my full set in in 45 mins and I only had classic lashes no fans! I asked her to add volume between spikes. She took about 15 more minutes and $200 later here I am 😠

u/Impressive_Mall_3605 — 7 days ago

Are my lash extensions too close to my waterline?

I got extensions today, but they have been stinging and felt uncomfortable whenever I close my eyes or blink.

Not sure if it is an allergic reaction or if the lash tech has stuck them too close to my waterline. Any insight from you folks would be amazing.

Please ignore the pupil coloured in.

u/Appropriate_Bit9743 — 7 days ago

Is this normal for 24 hrs after a new set?

I’ve never gotten my lashes done before, it’s currently Tuesday, my wedding is on Saturday so i figured I’d get lashes done to enhance my appearance! Welll my appointment was at 3:30 on Monday, it’s 3:37 Tuesday. This is just from the past 3 hours.

She told me there would be fallout but this much?? I paid $167 for this and idk if I should call back and either get them removed and get falsies for my wedding, have her fix it, or if this is normal and is expected?

u/pixieswithoutstyle — 8 days ago

PSA: go to a consult

Hey all, I see so many posts on here "what I asked for vs what I got." Full sets are so expensive, it's not worth it to go in blind.

Find a tech that offers consults! You can even just ask you artist beforehand if you could some in and discuss what you want.

What you want isn't always achievable with the type of lashes you naturally have, or even sometimes the shape of your eye. A consult allows full transparency between you and your artist. Show them what you're going for (multiple pics are better), and they should be able to communicate to you what they can do to obtain that look, or what they can do to get something similar.

I just went to my first consult a few months ago and found my routine lash artist.

It's not worth it to spend so much and come out disappointed! Lashes are suppose to make you feel beautiful.

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u/mnicklas666 — 7 days ago