r/malelivingspace

Male 36. My first flat. Took me about two years to renovate and decorate. During that time I was playing a lot of elder scrolls oblivion which is why the walls are covered in rugs and tapestries. I thought it was starting to look a bit feminine so I also incorporated a load of flowery cushions, fringed lampshades and soft throw blankets to give it a masculine edge. Did I make a good male living space?

Edit: Appreciate all the comments! I’ve had a fair few questions about where I’ve sourced stuff in the flat. I’m an obsessive scourer of second hand finds. I’d say 90% of stuff in the flat comes from places like vinted, FB marketplace, gumtree etc. I love searching for handmade objects from around the world which is why it’s got a more eclectic vibe!

2nd edit: I’ve had a fair few questions about the rugs and tapestries! The rugs are mainly Persian and Turkish. Some really nice afghans out there too - I just happen not to have any. All of them I’ve found online and were surprisingly affordable as the market for handmade carpets is really slow. If you’re looking for similar I’d advise doing a bit of homework on how to identify handmade vs machine made as it makes a big difference to the look and feel imo. The tapestries are all modern reproductions from France or Belgium I think. Again surprisingly affordable as there isn’t a big market for massive tapestries. Main thing to make sure of is that they’re woven rather than printed as the latter can look really naff. Other than that it’s down to personal taste.

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Hello, I wanted to get your opinion on this modular kitchen table. It's designed to assemble and disassemble in under 2 minutes and built to move with you. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated.

I've got this little space under the stairs that isn't really being used for anything at the moment apart from my 3D printer.

I'd like to somehow turn it into a small office/workspace while keeping the 3D printer in here as well, but I'm struggling to work out the best layout because of the sloped ceiling.

Ideally I'd like to fit a proper desk/work surface, somewhere I can actually sit comfortably, the printer, and some storage for filament/tools etc.

Shower has a glass wall now :-)

45M California

I had no choice but to file for divorce after 13 years of marriage. I broke the news to my wife that I might potentially have cancer. Our marriage did not last long after that. After going through all the tough motions of medical procedures and the separation, I guess I can finally say I'm off to a much better life.

Crazy stuff…I never actually lived alone in my life. Shared flat, sure. But never on my own. Going through a whole lot of feelings right now.

Finally finished! This used to be a garden shed. We converted it into my room, and we did almost everything ourselves. The couch is a sofa bed, so it works as my bedroom for now. Once I move out, it becomes a home office / guest room for the house.
Would love to hear what you think, and I have two questions:

1. The big water heater next to my TV is the one thing that bugs me. Does it stand out as much as I think it does? Any ideas to disguise it without blocking access to it?

2. Although there is no lack of plants right now, I’m still thinking of adding more to the room. But I feel like I'm running out of spots in such a small space. Where would you put them?

Last picture is the before pic , it's terrible quality but you'll see the difference. (The vogue poster is right around where my bathroom mirror is hanging right now)

Hi all, I’m ~3 months into my first solo apartment and looking for general feedback to improve the space and for what to put on the wall above the couch.

The bookshelf, couch, and kitchen island were left by the previous tenant so trying to make it work.

Thanks in advance!!

Got a house with a room mate and a nice room! My temper and disrespect ended me up in my car. I’m not afraid to admit i did wrong, and I’m facing the consequences. But I’m happy to not be on the streets, even if it’s minimal.
Any tips on how to make a room more home feeling?

I am redoing my living room. This is a 8x10 rug, should I return it and go to a 9x12? *Note, art work, curtains, coffee table and a recliner are incoming, and that black box on the floor will be going away. Also, if anyone has any suggestions.