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Should I be worried?

Should I be worried?

I found my cat eye on the floor of her enclosure on her side, she was responsive so I’ve picked her up and she seems to have no energy, she’s moving but it’s slow, she’s holding herself up when she hangs but can’t hold herself up properly as she walks. She had became a bit lethargic over the last few days but is Premolt so I had chalked it up to that. She’s had an enclosure upgrade around a week ago and got all new soil, and fake wood. Her temps have been on the low range (25-27c), humidity 40% ish.

u/spelljar — 7 hours ago
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The way it’s sitting 😂

He/She molted less than 24 hours later. Now it’s chilling. I can’t wait to get a better look at its abdomen and see if it’s a boy or girl. Will attach some photos below

Edit: Sorry the video is so bright, it’s all the grow lights for my plants :P

u/rysfcalt — 13 hours ago
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A mantis i met back in 2020

This was in late summer 2020, i worked an outside job and was fighting the good fight against the invasive spotted lantern fly. I saw this mantis hanging out so i got one for her and she devoured it. A week later she was still in the same area (i was monitoring her presence the whole time) and found her laying her egg sack. Later that day she was dead a few inches away

I put a note on the door so people were aware of the ootheca (there was no tenant in the building space at the time luckily) and they did hatch successfully

u/Hot_in_Topeka_ — 18 hours ago

Tips and advice for mantids?

I've been wanting a pet mantis for a long time now and I want to know everything about keeping one.

My main questions are: When should I feed them and what insects should I give them? What should I have in my terrarium and how big should my terrarium be? What should the ground of my terrarium be made out of?

Just general advice to keep my mantis as healthy as possible for as long as possible.

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u/Leading-Box335 — 19 hours ago
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Help me not fk up again

So, my Bug is dying.

He was about to do his final molt today. This morning he threw up, and then was hanging from a branch with one leg off it. I know I startled him once and then he moved twice to new places. Each time he was stretching his back legs and hanging by the front legs. Eventually he fell off the mesh top and landed upside down on a leaf which is where I intervened.

Temp was 23C to 26C all day and the humidity was between 70 and 90 all day.

He ate a bluebottle fly 2 days ago. And his abdomen has gone black over the course of the day/ night of the molt.

I really loved the lil guy and im very sad, so please go easy on feedback but I do want to know where I went wrong.

u/csicada — 23 hours ago

getting 3 new species soon!

i have 3 new mantis species coming next week,
this is my first time having these species so i was wondering if anyone had species specific tips for me to give them the best care!

rhombodera valida (l2/3)

creobroter gemmatus (l4/5)

Gongylus gongylodes (l3)

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u/peapeapuffer — 22 hours ago

Does the dirt/substrate matter?

Hi chat!! I'm planning on getting a female orchid mantis and I purchased this little box for her (I'm going to attach the net for her to hang from soon so dw!) and I'm just wondering if the dirt she has in right now (if anyone can tell what it is lmao) would be okay. Does the substrate matter when it comes to mantis care? Or maybe is there a type that I should get for her well-being? If anyone has problems identyfing what kind of 'dirt' it is, I have no problem purchasing more dirt and essentially just throwing out this and putting in new one. I want to make 100% sure that she's going to be comfy in her temporary home, that's why it's so small :)

u/ANiko_106 — 1 day ago

How do you heat your enclosure

So my problem is, I want to heat up my enclosure by around 2-4 degrees. I have a heat mat, but it appears to be not working very well. I have it on the back side of the enclosure, because I have like 7cm of soil on the ground

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Strange Experience with Seller

USA here, newish to mantids. Not new to critter keeping. I had a horribly strange interaction with a well known and very reputable bug seller online recently.

Long story short, I reached out asking about stock, when certain species might return, and whether the company ever did special orders. Pretty normal customer question, especially from somebody newer to mantises and genuinely excited about the hobby.

Boy did I unknowingly open a can of worms.

What followed was multiple increasingly bizarre emails ranging from defensive explanations about customer behavior to commentary about my “psychology,” me being “entitled,” comparisons to chess, and long philosophical monologues about human nature and business. All because I politely said the tone of the original email came across curt and dismissive.

At one point I literally had to stop and reread the thread because I couldn’t believe this level of psychoanalysis came from asking about bugs.

And honestly? This kind of interaction is what pushes new people away from niche hobbies.

We are already a tiny community of people passionately raising insects in jars, terrariums, and bioactive enclosures. We should be excited when new people show curiosity and enthusiasm, not treating basic questions like they’re personal attacks or moral failings.

I totally understand burnout. I understand repetitive questions. I understand running a live animal business for decades probably gets exhausting sometimes. But if someone asking “hey, will this species come back in stock?” turns into a lecture about entitlement and manipulation, maybe the call is coming from inside the enclosure.

Come on. We’re bug nerds. If we can’t be kind to each other, what are we even doing here?

Some of the best parts of this hobby are the people who light up when someone new asks questions, shares excitement, posts their first enclosure, or nervously buys their first mantis. That curiosity and wonder is literally the lifeblood of the hobby.

Anyway. Curious if others have had interactions like this in the invert world or if I just managed to stumble into the Dominion War of customer service emails.

Also, any recommendations on sellers or breeders who arent psychopaths?

Edit:USA not Isa

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u/Tricky_Jay91 — 1 day ago

sleepwalking??

guys I got my praying mantis about 4 or 5 months ago hes very sweet and we have a very trusting relationship now but sometimes when his eyes are brown (so I can only assume hes sleeping) he spins in circles slowly kind of ?? is it a type of sleepwalk or is there something going on??

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u/Scary-Coffee-4067 — 23 hours ago

Why won't my mantis abdomen get smaller?

My L4 giant dead leaf mantis has a plump abdomen and it isn't getting smaller. I thought it must have been premolt but he is still interested in food and doesn't seen to be molting. He hadn't eaten for around 5 days yesterday and I gave him a locust today so he doesn't starve but his abdomen is still so big and I have to take the locust off him so he doesn't eat too much. What do I do?

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u/raf_kennexy — 1 day ago
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HELP

Just noticed her like this, is she going to be ok? Should i help her?

u/ambrose_recluse — 1 day ago
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Isn’t she a little small to have wing buds?

Hey! My girl moulted the day before yesterday after a significant wait (3 months), and now has a little black mark—which I’ve read is the colour their ovipositor turns in the subadult stage? not sure if that’s true—and what appear to be wing buds. Is she a subadult already? I expected this to be only instar i5/6! She’s about 3-3.5cm long.

Do they start getting wing buds this early or should I expect this next moult to be her last?

u/WeirdRequirement — 1 day ago

Can anyone help ?

Is there anyone out there smarter than me that can gender my mantis ? I'm leaning towards female but I don't know if I counted correctly

u/kabalcharron — 1 day ago

Can she safely eat medium/large crickets? She is I6 and currently eats two bottle flies every 2-3 days. (She’s eating a bottle fly in the picture if that helps show her size a bit better. she isn’t as large as she looks - about an inch and a half all together)

I’m afraid to feed crickets because I hear they fight back and I don’t want her to get injured - I know they come in smaller sizes, but I’m only able to source medium/large ones. My self sustained bottle fly colony has been decimated, between her and her larger sister eating two flies every 2-3 days.

u/KiwitheBirdNOTAFruit — 2 days ago
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Male or female?

Emmy is my first praying mantis, and I’m curious to know if they’re too young to tell yet?? They’re a Chinese praying mantis if that helps!!

u/Wooden-Chemist-4348 — 2 days ago

Help :((

My friend's rhomobodera-stalii is spitting up what appears to be blood. The mantis is very new, she arrived a couple of days ago, and has been fed those mini cockroaches as far as I'm aware. Is there anything that could be done to nurse it back to health? I've never had any contact with this species, any help would be much appreciated.

u/Informal-Rest5980 — 2 days ago