r/realitytransurfing

Have you ever experienced overnight changes? How big can changes be?

I was just sitting here watching the game it's fun to watch but was remembering seeing fan frenzy. This Fifa fever is a pendulum right? Its scooped everyone up into it? thanks for humoring I am wondering genuinely

I was surprised to see Vadim Zeland say to never feel guilty. Like it makes sense in a manifesting perspective, but I haven't seen any other manifesting books say the same.​

My life is always a struggle and I can see how my perpetual feelings of guilt and shame can be manifesting that as life is a mirror. How do I fully forgive myself and stop caring so much about the mistakes I keep making?

Like even just today I had such an embarassing meeting at work with my boss. I even cried. My ADHD also made the meeting really long which I feel so stupid for. My boss is a saint for dealing with me.

I've been working on being more of an observer and mindfulness meditation. It helps for a bit. But I am always reliving the bad stuff in my head.

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ive been trying to decode where is the plait actually and always came across same image

in this picture, please someone tell me which one is the plain, the yellow line or the red line?
watching some videos they said it's from the back of our spine, i assume it's the red one, is it correct? then what is the yellow line for??

I have read the first i think 9 chapters of reality transurfing, and have read of from other authors- like right now seth- idk he feels like a slog compared to zeland
But zeland too has too much content, so how should i go into it, I dont wanna be in a tutorial hell, like someone who just keeps reading books or even reads them on side, i wanna wrap up and get into life and apply..
I have heard from few discussions here that zeland too updates his methods and so on, can you all tell me which stuff should i read from him, should i read tufti or skip to much recent ones?
Thankyou

Vadim wrote this in his book Apocryphal Transurfing. In 2010. He was writing about nutrition already then.

He's just a human like you are, he's simply writing about his findings and personal understandings about this reality. And each of his book is a progression of his personal development that you may not entirely align with, and that's ok.

But I feel like in this world of already instant information and people's decline in sustained mental focus and low attention span people are jumping to conclusions left and right and making unfair judgements based on incomplete information.

I am writing this as reminder, people don't know everything, they haven't read all his books, because they're not all translated to English. Keep an open mind. I especially like what he said here:

"I do not invite anyone onto my path, much less try to persuade them.

I simply offer information.

I do not walk in any herd, in step with anyone, or for anyone.

I do not call myself a raw-foodist, a nutritionist, a Transurfer, a spiritual seeker, a teacher—or anything else.

I belong nowhere.

I am my own.

I have my own path.

A unique one.

Mine.

And I wish the same for you"

So i been really practising the idea of letting go of things and accept them the way they are and this makes me feel super happy, it's like i'm on cloud nine. But then here comes the thing, how do i actually manifest a better life for myself?.

AM i really imagining this to be real, that it can be this easy, will someone out there hand me cash eventually by just taking control over my thoughts? I just don't know any longer how this works. I been told i shouldn't worry about money at all and that it will just come as a byproduct of whatever distraction i choose to engage in.

So like, can i genuinely just think my way into a better world?. Like, it just sounds soo simplistic.....

I know i shouldnt make someone i know love me or like me but what if im lonley and wanna just find friend or love?

Well, tough question here. I’m not an expert in RT, obviously.

Lost my partner last week and now I’m grieving and at the same time feel guilty. He was sick, got diagnosed with cancer last september. We did love each other, but during our relationship he always has had serious health issues and was kind of a hypochondriac. The relationship was tough at times, and we’ve considered quitting several times.

During the last year, but also at some point during our relationship, I have to confess, I sometimes had thoughts along the lines of: hope it ends soon, it’ll be easier alone, stuff like that. Because the situation at that time was overwhelming, felt empty and emotional. As if I had to give and he could take…

Can you manifest someone dying?? I can’t shake the feeling that it’s my fault he’s gone so soon. Or that he got sick even…

I didn’t want to loose him, and certainly didn’t want him sick and dead. I did sometimes think we would be better of in a LAT- or separated relationship…

Feel like crap…

Did i lose energy to transurfing by sex masturbation and pornografy?Should transurfer practice celibacy?

What should i do if i wanna get rich by transurfing?

Would anyone be able to help me with applying coordination principle in this situation - TLDR: I need to move back to a place where I dont want to be. I am currently in a place I love life in but I live there unsustainably, I dont have a permanent home and Im at the end of my savings. I am devastated for having to move back.
Full story:
I used to live in a place that was really not for me. black mould, under the flight path so planes make extreme noise all day long, next to rail tracks so it was all affecting my sleep and wellbeing very badly, I could not adapt to that city at all in 10 years I lived there and I had no friends just my partner. Eventually it became unbearable and I quit my job, took all my savings and moved to a different country.
In the new place I am absolutely thriving, I cant imagine I used to have ‘unsubscribing’ thoughts, I love life. But Im at the end of my savings and I am not working yet, I am on a student visa and in student accommodation (at the ripe age of 40 something) that I have to leave over the summer.
I managed to manifest a friend letting me stay with them! It was marvellous and I had a great time and thought my problems had been solved because they kept saying how happy they are that Im with them and that I can stay as long as I wanted!! BUT they just flipped suddenly and said I have to leave tomorrow. I could not believe this happened but here we are. l am absolutely devastated I dont know how to either manifest accommodation in 1 day or help myself have an ok time where Im going.
Any help appreciated since I cant think straight from literally having panic attack for having to move back to that place.

One of the most profound ideas in Reality Transurfing is that the world around us is not the most important thing to focus on. What is more important is our relationship to the world. Simple enough, lots of great philosophers and manifestation teachers have also said similar things. But how do you put that into actual concrete practice? I am going to try to put my giant ball of disorganized thoughts in order and hopefully we will get to an answer. Thank you u/lava_cake_123 and u/ticarod for inspiring this post.

Most people assume that they are thinking independently. They believe their opinions, fears, desires, and reactions originate within themselves. I hate to break it to you, but according to cognitive behavioral psychology 90-95% of your decisions, emotions, habits, anxieties, and reactions come from prior unconscious programming that is running on autopilot. I think Joe Dispenza does a great job of delving deeply into this if you want a more thorough look.  

According to Reality Transurfing, much of this conditioning comes from pendulums that have an agenda. Countless pendulums have been competing for our attention since birth. We have families transmitting their assumptions onto their children, schools reinforcing cultural expectations, advertisers competing for our desires, social media algorithms looking for our engagement. You get the idea. Add in peers, influencers, religion, legal systems, ancestry and you have a whole lot of programming that did not originate from yourself floating around in your brain.

Each of these pendulums seeks our energy, attention, emotional involvement, and participation. Over the years (and a huge chunk of this is in place before you are 7 years old) these influences become internalized. We no longer hear them as external voices. They become our own internal dialogue. They feel like WHO WE ARE. The great news is, you can completely change who you are once you know about this. 

Do you have automatic beliefs or thoughts like: I’ll probably fail, money is always a struggle, good opportunities don’t happen to people like me, I have to work very hard and hustle for money, the world is becoming more dangerous, etc? These often feel like objective observations in the moment, but they are actually inherited assumptions. You are unknowingly selecting life tracks that are consistent with those beliefs and thoughts. I think Neville Goddard does a wonderful job discussing assumptions and how they out-picture into your life. 

According to Reality Transurfing we are continuously moving through the alternatives space, selecting among countless existing variations of reality. Our habitual direction of attention gradually aligns us with corresponding lifelines. This is why mastering your attention is one of the central principles! 

Modern neuroscience agrees with all of this by the way. The most primitive part of the human brain, what people refer to as the lizard brain, is responsible for basic survival instincts like fight or flight, fear, and aggression. It governs automatic, impulse-driven reactions rather than conscious, rational thought. It evolved over millions of years for survival not happiness. It naturally gives great weight to potential threats and ignores neutral and positive events. Psychology refers to this as negativity bias. This helped our ancestors survive. In the modern world abstract threats like an unread text, a typo in your presentation, someone asking “can we talk?” trigger massive overreactions. Pendulums exploit this tendency. They want your emotionally charged reactions. It is their food. 

Advertising (including influencers) is a great example of this. There is a whole field called neuromarketing! Ads don’t simply describe a product. They create importance. You are incomplete without this. You are behind everyone else. You need this to be enough. You are not successful, attractive or secure without this. Why can’t you be like everyone else? I could write 10,000 words on marketing tactics alone, but this is getting too long already. 

One of the most deceptive aspects of all of this is programming is that it never feels like programming. It feels like common sense, realism, and your own personality. You think “this is just who I am.” or “this is just the way things are.” I challenge you to believe that both of those things are completely malleable and within your control. 

So, what the bloody hell are we supposed to do about this? It all begins with your awareness. The first step is observing your internal dialogue. This actually takes quite a bit of practice. You will be way down the rabbit hole of thinking some bullshit before you catch it at first. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy breaks it down into three steps. 1. Identify the thought or belief. 2. Examine the evidence (where did I learn this? How do I know this is true? Does this thought make me feel great?) 3. Generate an alternative. 

Repeatedly redirecting attention gradually weakens old mental habits while strengthening new ones. It sounds too simple, but it's true. It is all about mind control. Eventually your new thoughts will feel just as natural as the old crap did. But your attention must be retrained. You were originally programmed by repetition, you need to reprogram yourself the same way. 

I will also add this here. You know how subconscious programming feels completely natural, like your own thoughts? The manifestation of your life feels the same way. One of the most fascinating parts of Reality Transurfing is that reality shifts almost never appear supernatural while they are unfolding. Instead they seem like ordinary events. For example, three days ago I was making something in the Instant Pot and overfilled it. I made the offhand comment, I should buy the bigger version, I am constantly overfilling this thing. I was home alone when I said that. The next morning my husband was driving to the pool for his morning swim and stopped at a yard sale. He bought a giant Instant Pot for $5 and brought it home. I asked him why he bought it when we already have one. He said he just had the strong feeling that we needed this or that I would really like it and it was only 5 bucks so why not. Totally “normal” sequence of events. 

This aspect of RT will never stop amazing me. One opportunity introduces another, a conversation leads you to just the right person, a chance meeting becomes the start of a new business, etc. Looking backward the chain appears astonishing. But looking forward, each individual step felt completely ordinary. Was it Neville Goddard who said that the bridge of events is invisible while crossing it? 

To wrap up, I want to remind you that Reality Transurfing is not about changing the external world. In practice, the deepest transformation happens internally. Get your attention under your constant control. I just came back from a 1 year break from the internet and TV. I planned to do it for a few months while we were in Mexico for the winter, but it felt so great that I kept it up for a long time. Something this drastic is probably not necessary for everyone, but if you think you can Transurf your life while staying enmired in pendulums you are deluding yourself. No single affirmation is going to change your life. Sustained attention alters your relationship to reality, carrying you to lifelines that once seemed completely impossible. 

What can you do today? 

1. Observe your thoughts. Every hour ask yourself what you are thinking about. Interrupt your thoughts and reinsert great-feeling ones. 
2. Go on a pendulum diet. 
3. Audit your internal beliefs.Write them down. 
4. Practice low-importance goals. 
5. Practice ecstatic over-the-top levels of gratitude whenever possible. 
6. Reduce importance. What if there are 50 different ways that your goal could work out and you only know about 3 of them? 
7. Stop monitoring the mirror (checking reality) Instead take action. 
8. Meditate. Create a nice mental white space with no music, no podcasts, no phone, no tv. Why not drive your car in complete silence and see what ideas pop up? I do this during dog walks.

 

Let's talk about this! What have you done to reprogram your own mind? My husband listens to theta-wave binaural beats with a list of affirmations playing in the background while he does yard work. What is your technique?

Would putting a slide through my door remove limiting beliefs? Ik he said not to involve your door but I’m not even having limited beliefs about my goal it’s just my door requires getting sales and I feel like imagining a slide getting sales will help me

So he says the best moment too slide in pictures inside my brain is when i lose focus or fall asleep.

How do i actually catch myself doing that, because i been told. When i doo it, that's the best moment to put in my new future slides.

hi fellow transurfers,

if you were me, how would you deal with this situation and how will you normally manifest wealth into your reality:

i just learned about transurfing and i encountered a situation and needed some help.

my bank account was low on money then when i visited my bank statement i realise i got charged by a subscription service that i have forgot to cancel. in that moment, i felt a certain rage. but i paused myself. i caught myself being stuck in a pendulum,

so i just paused and try to think of the positive side of things, but it somewhat hurt my situation so i kinda cant stop thinking about it.

thankyou!

Hello fellow Transurfers! I’ve been unplugged digitally for about a year and I wanted to come back and finally share my story. 8 years ago I decided to treat Reality Transurfing like an experiment. I committed to practicing it for 90 days instead of just reading about it.

That experiment completely changed my life.

In winter of 2018 I bought the digital copy of Reality Transurfing Steps 1-5. I have read many books on this subject and studied lots of esoteric, philosophical, and manifesting type material. I was at one point very deep into Neville Goddard, with no outward success. Something about this giant book really struck me internally. I decided to do an experiment. I ordered the physical paperback version and locked in for 90 days. I decided to disconnect from as many pendulums as possible during this time. I unplugged my television and deleted all social media apps. I committed to practicing the material, not just reading about it. That 90 days completely changed the direction of my life and turned into many years of transurfing.

At the time of this challenge, my life really sucked. I was making $20 dollars an hour in a HCL city and living in a run-down apartment building in the worst part of town. I had been dealing with treatment-resistant depression for over 2 decades and did not see any way out of this life. I also have two auto-immune diseases that would flare up seemingly at random to complicate everything. All in all I was lonely, unhealthy, and miserable most of the time

The first thing I did was take on Vadim’s recommendations on gratitude. I forced myself to write down 10 things that I was grateful for every evening. I had an exceedingly negative mindset, so this was hard. The most I could come up with in the beginning was being thankful for coffee, sunshine, and weekends off. After a while, my brain was trained to search my environment for things to be grateful for and I could list a dozen items easily. I had read about this phenomenon before, but never tried it. Turns out having recurring thoughts like What’s the Point? and God, I Hate My Life!, do not make you feel good. Lol. 

The two biggest Transuring ideas that I took on during this time were also about changing my own mind. First, I decided to genuinely believe that the reality I wanted already existed in the alternatives space. My job was not to create it because it already existed. Second, I became ruthless about my thoughts. When doubt showed up I immediately repeated an affirmation or changed to subject. Same thing for thoughts about things that I did not like or did not want. I did my best to switch those to thoughts about what I do want. Those recurring depression thoughts were nearly gone by the end of my experiment. 

The biggest manifestation in that 90 days was in my career/income. I had lots of little manifestations occur during this time that built my confidence, but I will skip over those so this doesn’t get too long. I was initially working as a telemarketer for $20hr. I had no formal business education and no connections. One day I applied for a Business Development Associate position that I was honestly underqualified for. Somehow, I got it. 

Once I was there, I applied the same transurfing techniques to my work. It was extremely stressful, because I didn’t understand the job, but I stayed focused on the version of myself who was already successful. It was actually completely insane to watch myself start to understand and comprehend topics that confused me the previous week. Where was this knowledge coming from? It felt like my brain started connecting dots it couldn't connect before. In a short period of time (after the 90 days), I was promoted to leading my own team and enjoyed that for a while. That opened a door, and I moved to a larger, global company. By that time I was making a mid-six-figure income. What is interesting to me is that my mind could come up with a logical explanation for most of this, it didn’t seem like magic or anything while I was living it, except for a few things (like a new skillset being downloaded into my brain somehow!). When I think back to it though, I can see how wildly improbably the whole sequence really was. 

During that experiment I came to believe with complete certainty that any reality I desired already existed. I also started treating every little coincidence, opportunity, or lucky break as confirmation that I was moving toward that reality. Looking back, I think that strengthened my confidence more than anything. 

The really crazy part is that life just kept getting better after those first 90 days. Here is a quick list, otherwise this would be way too long:

I moved out of that apartment and into a house in a suburb. I paid it off in 4 years. 

I met my husband, who against all odds had already heard of transuring. 

I manifested my dog, who is my constant companion and biggest joy. 

I decided I wanted a new SUV. I was driving a 12 year old Chrysler that was on its last leg. Once I put my mind to it and visualized the new vehicle (using the plait), it showed up in a crazy way 10 days later. 

My husband’s longtime business went from barely profiting to very success quickly. He was able to sell it for a high profit several years later. 

We bought a beach house in another state on the West Coast (usa). 

I retired early and still do consulting on the side when I’m in the mood. I help small businesses attract new customers via all those fancy business development skills I learned :) 

Both of my autoimmune diseases went into remission just last year. 

The difference in my life is so dramatic that I can’t ignore it. Can I prove that it was all transuring? No. I’m not trying to convince the skeptics, everyone is free to draw their own conclusions. I'm just sharing what happened in my own life because I know reading stories like this helped me when I first started. I also want to catch up with all of my transurfing friends after a year of goofing off. I missed this community!  

I typed this out in a Google Doc and pasted it here, hopefully the format isn’t a hot mess. I omitted lots of detail to keep it as short as possible. I will be around to chat for the next few days. Happy Transurfing! 

Hii I just started implementing coordination, basically I had dyed my hair since I wanted it lighter, I accidentally gave myself hot roots which made my hair orange at the top and brown through out the my hair, I didn’t panic and I just focused on the opposite side ( beautiful hair) and just got hair dye and dyed it a different colour the next morning. Now I just 5 compliments on my hair and people love it 🤗🤗

Isn't pendulum just like over importance, like a fan club, politics, religion, etc?

Like i get what he means, when he says that if we focus on negative aspects on our life. we use our energy on something that is outside of our control.

But that doesn't necessarily solve the problem that i came to a world, where resources already have been hogged right.

Like, my personal feeling to this right now, it's as if he just wants us too ''deal with it'' and accept your cards you where given and choose if it's worth the effort too work yourself up or not.

that sounds so like mildly infuriating and insulting.... because it's not as if i could save all the way to becomming a multi-millionaire....

However on another part i cannot disagree with the information aswell, because i've tried this.... thing uhm... how to call it when i just let go off everything.... it's as if there's this whole other new world, where everything becomes vibrant and alive and i feel happy and cheerful.

However it gets very hard too maintain this ''presence not sure what too say it''.

But it's as if i am a jedi master or something... i can just feel a constant flow... or source.

i am not really sure what to call it honestly... but the world looks a lot more happier....

Anyone got any ideas on how i would create a reality, where i am surrounded by three attractive women, living by a mansion with a swimming pool and being taken care off ? :d.

Like will i be able to get too this reality.... without needing to earn 50-60 million or however much i have to earn for owning a mansion.

Or am i missing something here? is there a cheat code, to getting more resource's?