u/0xricky20

Hi everyone!

I’m the solo developer behind a little project called MusicPool, and I’d love to invite you to try it out.

How it works

• Pick a vibe: Choose a genre, mood, or decade you feel like listening to.
• Meet a friend: You’ll get anonymously paired 1-on-1 with someone who picked the same vibe.
• Trade songs: Chat and share your favorite tracks for 24 hours. After that, the chat disappears.
• Stay in touch: If you hit it off, you can choose to swap real profiles, only if both of you want to!
• Rate the taste: Once the chat ends, you can rate each other's music taste!

That’s the whole idea: no follower counts, no infinite feeds. Just two people sharing good music.

I built this because my best music chats have always been with strangers. Most music apps feel like popularity contests, so I wanted something simple: one person, a shared taste in music, and no pressure.

How you can help:

• Share your feedback: Don't hesitate to tell me what could be better! If something is confusing or isn't working smoothly, I’d love to know so I can fix it for you.
• Give it a little time: Since the app is brand new, finding a match might take a moment. If you enjoy the concept, sharing it with a music-loving friend would mean the world to me.

Feel free to also join our friendly community over a r/MusicPoolApp to share song recommendations, give feedback, or follow along with updates.

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I’ll be hanging out in the comments below, so please say hi or ask anything you'd like!

My wife (28F) and I (32M) have been together for two years and got married couple of months ago. Overall, things seemed great, but I recently discovered a situation involving her professional life that has completely shattered my trust.

When we were dating, my wife mentioned a guy in her professional network who she claimed was a "one-off hookup from years ago." What she hid from me-and what I later found out-was that he wasn't just a random hookup; he was an affair partner she had cheated with during her previous relationship-both of them were on a long term relationship-, which was the actual reason that relationship ended. She lied to me about why her ex broke up with her to cover this up.
At the time, believing he was just an old, irrelevant hookup, I simply asked her to maintain healthy boundaries and "keep her distance" if they ever crossed paths at professional events.

Recently, my wife was looking for part-time remote work before starting her next career phase. She attended a professional conference which later I discovered this former affair partner was also present, they called and he invited her to drop by the conference the next day to discuss it further. She went, met up with him and other colleagues at the venue, and attended the evening networking event.

Instead of being straightforward with me, she spent days actively strategizing how to manipulate the story. In private messages, she calculated how to frame the offer as "the female colleague's idea" so I wouldn't find out that *he* was the one who called her directly and pitched it. She admitted to feeling "shady" and like she was "doing something really wrong," but decided to withhold the truth anyway to avoid making things "weird."

We have only been married for couple of months. She claims nothing physical happened this time, that the job was just a great flexible opportunity, and that she was "protecting my feelings."

However, to me-which I was clear about from the beginning and we communicated it very well-, taking private calls from a past affair partner, fwb, meeting him at an event, and calculating a cover story to hide his involvement breaks the fundamental trust of our marriage-especially after lying about their past history to begin with. I no longer feel like I can believe anything she tells me.

AITAH for feeling that this pattern of calculated deception is a dealbreaker and wanting to end the marriage couple of months in?

Edit:
If I had known from the beginning that she cheated on her ex, I would never have gotten into this relationship. That’s something I always make clear on first dates.