u/Abdims

Please have a full read first. This is absolutely not a generalising all men hate post. I just wanted to talk about this pattern and issue in this society. This might offend and sound harsh to a few... But I just wanted to present a broader reason. Also this is not "biased" it's a real problem happening in real time, and also cuz... biology.

One of the things I dislike in this society is the misogynistic men (not all ofc, but the older uneducated uncs) being sexually obsessed and aggressive, 90% of the times their thoughts are filled with porn and sex. They treat women like objects and are worth nothing more than just sex dolls and making babies.

I'll cut to the chase, and mention some points I find reasonable (THESE ARE PSYCHOLOGICAL REASONS, not limited to religious beliefs, please be cognitive) a few of the reasons that are starting the butterfly effect I think are: limited or no co-ed (especially working or lower classes), restricting the socialising between opposite genders and attraction (going against human nature and fundamentals), discouraging any sort of relations or dating, treating basic human interactions (holding hands or kissing) like a huge crime, religious propoganda, promoting affection and relations as sin. the "no kiss before marriage" culture and aggression, etc..

Now cuz of this, if you're literally limiting interaction between two biological classifications and organisms who are required for not just reproduction but social and psychological concepts in humans. You're literally going against mother nature now. You need to look at the animals.

Now look, in these modern times, in real life when these people don't get to interact with eachother as much. They absolutely lose confidence, get socially anxious and awkward, get lonely, don't know how to treat the other, and lose basic sense and respect. Basically being deprived of others and the aspects they should be familiar with. Also when they watch porn, they start to have unrealistic expectations and aggression which just harms more.

In basic psychology, when a human's brain is deprived of something, It'll act more violently and aggressive towards it. A thirsty man would thrash around for some water. Additionally, they also become obsessed with porn to yk obviously relieve those conflictions. As a result when you look at a typical pakistani young virgin man who's never dated, when he sees a women, the thoughts are obviously gonna be aggressive and sexual and they're gonna stare... And then when they actually see some 'skin and hair' of a women, they respond... sexually.

If you look at other first world countries or secular states. Women are walking around without any complications or pervert stares without any imminent actions, why? because it's normalised there and almost everyone is familiar with it, familiar with seeing eachother in any way and clothes (ALSO it absolutely is NOT about clothes, any woman of any age, an inf*nt to a grandma, and wearing all sorts of clothes gets raped and assaulted), that feeling, relations, affection, being around the opposite sex, social aspects etc. Almost no one is gonna stare at you cuz you'd be ordinary. Hence, the men there don't act like the dogs here, and have basic decency.

But here... the typical are gonna stare and judge you for their own thoughts and arousal and then blame you for it.

Also cuz of this, men here prefer being gay than being straight outside of that online sigma andrew tate mindset. Not actual lgbt (love is love, i love my lgbt people), I meant like those men who call out and hate gay people then act the gayest themselves, like oh bro you actually wash your faceee and take care of yourself and smell nice?? gayy.. wait you got a girlfriend???... youre gayyy... Im gonna stay single forever! #proudsignal #boss #birthdaycake24/5 #proud

You ever noticed these people are like "sister why are you not wearing a hijab?" acting like it's the women's fault else they'll get an erection. Brother, why are you not wearing a blindfold? and why aren't you also covered up? Also outside of religious reasons, when they see a women without a hijab, they act aggressive once again? why? earlier deprivation once again.

Also anyone, especially these online men who give that Hijab example of A covered lollipop/candy vs an uncovered lollipop/candy full of ants... Notice something? they're comparing women to candy.. like you're comparing women as something that's just meant to be sucked and eaten. That's disgusting and ignorant.

This is what also causes the promote and growth of the stupid Arrange marriage culture and Cousin marriage culture, cuz you can't date a stranger? you can't have relationships... the fundamental aspect and way to know more about the other person and have basic love??.... it's viewed as disgusting... so what do you do? yes! just blindly marry a stranger without any common ground or knowing anything about them! don't matter if they turn out to be abusive!... or just marry your own cousin and have deflections in your inbred kids!

As a result there's a lot of misogyny and oppression against women outside religion and other things. I believe these are few of those reasons why and people just blame it on the "culture bro". It's messed up. And I think this might also be one of the reason why there are more cases of immigrants raping/harassing the locals. because when they move from a strict society like ours to a completely different world and society, its a huge feast and they immediately become spoiled.

This might be a weird post, basically yesterday i posted a news vid about some pedo getting caught trynna groom.

Now look, nowhere in the post’s title or description did i mention anything related to any country or pakistan. All i said was this dude is disgusting and should be hanged. The title inside the video mentioned “pakistani man”, not me.

All the fucking comments are “where the fuck is he pakistani you indian fag”, BRO WHAT, wtf is going on? that wasn’t even the point of the post also WHO tf said he might not be? do you know him personally? pakistan is diverse, now ik media propaganda and lies but that was NOT THE POINT of the post, i was pointing out pedophilia and grooming kids, but ofc it’s reddit.

I’m pakistani, and to these nationalists if you just missed the whole point of the post and just started attacking me and justifying that dude which is disgusting, why are you acting like there aren’t actual countless cases of pakistani immigrants grooming or raping, like in the uk, or in pakistan itself? i can pull up hundreds articles up for you.

What pissed me off was that was not even the fucking point of the post, these ppl are like “op is an indian and hates pakistan” BRO ALL I SAID WAS “PUNISH THESE PEDOS”, when i made that post i didn’t even think about what nationality that dude is, i was only thinking about humanity, also if it was from any other country i doubt anyone would’ve questioned his nationality. Anyways that’s not the point man, i js shared news about sm getting caught and ppl getting nationalist. This happens in every country and place.

The thing that really bothers me about this society, is that people living in poverty (which is 45% of pakistan, can’t afford basic food) really lack any signs of sense when it comes to having a family and finance, they have like 10 kids per wife and often have multiple wives, while earning just a dollar a month, like brodie why are u bringing another human being in this already messed up world while you’re struggling and suffering yourself, only for the kids to suffer aswell and get abused. LIKE WHY CANT YOU STOP MULTIPLYING, these beggars genuinely deserve a condom instead of cash. Also why tf is child birth free, they js dgaf

Genuinely they don’t understand how damaging this is to the society and everything. It’s not “oh if i have more kids, maybe one of em will make it out and be rich”… You’re just ruining multiple lives at once just cuz u couldn’t control ur erection, like bro stop having a billion kids then blame the rich and charities they don’t help the poor when you’re not even taking basic responsibility, maybe instead of having 100 kids and putting them all on the streets, don’t have kids till you’re stable yourself, or maybe just have one that you can actually fund a future for and educate, cuz most of these kids are also like typical, just being oppressive and misogynistic and wtv’s already wrong, and ppl are also like “look! fastest growing religi-“ no bro you’re breeding too much and fast

cuz of this, the rate just rises faster and more humans show up and suffer and it’s js invasive human pollution 💔 like no signs of a functional society… and the traffic jams up

idk if this is gonna taken down aswell.. This sub is like the only major sub for the mixed pakistani young community (as it says its not muslim only), but still im seeing a pattern, any post a non religious makes gets more criticized than an islamic post, i thought "everyone" is loved and respected? yet ppl repost these posts in other islamic and paki subs and make fun and target people acting like these people are worse than war lords and terrorists just cuz you don't like criticism on your beliefs, like that one dude who said he's gonna call in taliban just to control these "liberals"... and whenever they see them, they're like "bro ur just one of them", "heh another one of 'them'" tf is them? pigs? same with when they talk about and criticize any other religion, culture, lgbt, race, country, or anything.. and that's apparently fine?..., but as soon as a non religious talks back or a different religion person talks back, calling out smthn, even respectfully, they jump back and say "why are u so islamophobic", "bro these are indian attackers", (wtf is up with these indian accusations) etc.. like what's this hypocrisy? like can we be non biased and keep it logical, someone posting duas daily and religious stuff gets to get away with it but when someone speaks up on religions or hot takes, it gets taken down... like i like this sub but lets also keep it on the middle grounds, every other pakistani sub is basically islamic and hardcore, you can't just claim everything up and then claim to be loving, like we are seeing a growth of free minds in the young but its not cool, ppl treat non religious ppl as worse than murderers like u legit get death threats in dms which no one believes, and please stop blaming it on "culture".. ik its pakistan but still, you can't oppress everything else and then get offended whenever someone says anything, ain't fair.

sorry for any mistakes, im on phone and travelling

hey guys i hope you are all doing great

I was just using my pc today when randomly my gpu driver failed, I have a slightly used RTX 3080 that i put into my new pc build, from an old build

My build is:

- CPU: Intel Core Ultra 9 285K
- RAM: 96GB DDR5 6800mhz Corsair Dominator Titanium
- MOBO: ROG STRIX z890
- PSU: Corsair RM 1000x

I've been looking for a solution since morning, i've tried uninstalling reinstalling drivers, DDU safe mode uninstall, Battery Reset, Unplugging Card, Updating windows, i even cleaned the pc out, thankfully i still have the intel graphics in the cpu, which im on right now, but is there any other solution that might be helpful? or is the gpu dead? im not sure if this was caused by some driver update or windows update or anything, i was using my pc, went afk to other room for an hour, came back and the driver wasnt working and the refresh rate was choppy, any help would be appreciated.

hey guys i hope you are all doing great

I was just using my pc today when randomly my gpu driver failed, I have a slightly used RTX 3080 that i put into my new pc build, from an old build

My build is:

- CPU: Intel Core Ultra 9 285K
- RAM: 96GB DDR5 6800mhz Corsair Dominator Titanium
- MOBO: ROG STRIX z890
- PSU: Corsair RM 1000x

I've been looking for a solution since morning, i've tried uninstalling reinstalling drivers, DDU safe mode uninstall, Battery Reset, Unplugging Card, Updating windows, i even cleaned the pc out, thankfully i still have the intel graphics in the cpu, which im on right now, but is there any other solution that might be helpful? or is the gpu dead? im not sure if this was caused by some driver update or windows update or anything, i was using my pc, went afk to other room for an hour, came back and the driver wasnt working and the refresh rate was choppy, any help would be appreciated.

hey guys i hope you are all doing great

I was just using my pc today when randomly my gpu driver failed, I have a slightly used RTX 3080 that i put into my new pc build, from an old build

My build is:

- CPU: Intel Core Ultra 9 285K
- RAM: 96GB DDR5 6800mhz Corsair Dominator Titanium
- MOBO: ROG STRIX z890
- PSU: Corsair RM 1000x

I've been looking for a solution since morning, i've tried uninstalling reinstalling drivers, DDU safe mode uninstall, Battery Reset, Unplugging Card, Updating windows, i even cleaned the pc out, thankfully i still have the intel graphics in the cpu, which im on right now, but is there any other solution that might be helpful? or is the gpu dead? im not sure if this was caused by some driver update or windows update or anything, i was using my pc, went afk to other room for an hour, came back and the driver wasnt working and the refresh rate was choppy, any help would be appreciated.

made a post in another pakistani subreddit talking about everything wrong with this religion, oppression and misogyny and the effects its having in our country and the world and they labeled it as ‘it’s culture bro’ and threatened me privately and deleted the post, lmao bro why aren’t people open up to valid arguments and critical thinking and reasoning without thinking it’s islamophobic and shit, and it’s the same people who watch porn, drink, have sex, be violent and do every imaginable ‘sin’ but draw the line at eating pork (the rumor that pork is bad is a huge misconception, the times these religions were made, pigs were kept in unsanitary conditions as a bulk, which started up this whole thing, anyways that’s another topic) i just wanted to point out the hypocrisy, these the same people who attack u and say you’ll burn in hell and stuff when u say u dont believe in god but then say bro ur islamophobic and disrespectful when u point out smthn… smh it’s disrespectful aswell to us

this normalised cult is a hellhole and i’m tired of seeing this country get fucked cuz of it, i made a long ass post ranting but they js deleted and banned me, i js found out ts subreddit thank goodness

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