TELL ME WHAT IS MY NICHE MUSIC TASTE?
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TELL ME WHAT IS MY NICHE MUSIC TASTE?

i will attach my spotify acc you guys can even check that out

To be completely honest, I wouldn't say I am a very niche music listener, and I don't think I have some kind of "amazing" or elitist music taste. But if there is one thing I know for sure, it is this: I don't think anyone listens to music with as much pure passion as I do. What would life even be without music? When I look at the fact that I have over 50 playlists, and realize that everything I am describing right now comes from just two or three of them, I honestly don't even know how to fully explain my love for it. Music isn't just background noise to me; it is a vital part of how I survive and feel.

I don't really have a neat, single answer when someone asks me what my music taste is because I don't fit into a rigid genre. Instead, I listen to music in intense phases. If I find a song I love, I will listen to it on an absolute loop, over and over, for as long as it takes until it literally runs onto my nerves. I will squeeze every ounce of emotion out of that track until I am ready for the next phase.

My music taste is a direct reflection of my emotional state, and it changes depending on where my heart is

When I am sad, I embrace the beautiful sadness. I don't shy away from vulnerability or existential dread. Instead, I dive straight into it and find a strange sense of comfort, and even a bit of dark wit, in the heavy stuff. I will literally pair The SmithsMitski, and Radiohead together. I use music to actively process my most difficult emotions rather than running away from them.

I love, love, LOVE love songs. In fact, I have an entire playlist dedicated to them called "put it in a love song." I am deeply drawn to music where the musician is a true yearner—someone who is completely baring their soul. I know I am totally into that hopeless romantic kind of thing. My absolute top favourite song is "Iris" by The Goo Goo Dolls. There is a specific line in it that goes, "I'll give up forever to touch you," and it just completely breaks me because it captures that exact level of raw, dramatic, and consuming devotion that I love.

I have a deep obsession with vintage, nostalgic tracks. My playlists are a seamless bridge between different eras. I love the classic, cinematic warmth of Frank Sinatra and the Bee Gees, but I also love transitioning that exact same nostalgic feeling into modern bedroom-pop and indie artists like girl in redTV Girl, and Malcolm Todd.

At the end of the day, my music taste isn't something you can define by a single label. It is a living archive of my phases, my heart, my sadness, and my capacity to love.

https://open.spotify.com/user/3122mxhze4atnj3c5olx76oh7m24?si=661a945d3d264ae0

u/Able_Pomegranate_646 — 5 hours ago
▲ 30 r/ghosting+1 crossposts

idk why guys love to ghost after making you feel special.

ADVICE NEEDED so, I approached this guy regarding something I was curious. after few days he started to text me daily and then started to love bomb me. I made very clear this ain't going to work but he kept texting me not in a creepy way but yea you get it. basically chased me. and throughout this I was mostly mean to him and tried to push him away bcs I knew how guys were. but seeing how consistent he was I gave in and started to match his energy. the moment I gave in he became inconsistent, I thought he might be busy and did not gave much thought. recently he asked what are we I said idk what do you want to be. he said don't want to be in situationship so lets just go w flow. it was fine by me I was not ready for anything serious. but after that convo he stopped initiating the texts even when I initiated he acted so non chalant. and I am such a clown o asked him today ARE YOU GHOSTING bcs I hate this if you don't wanna talk just say it. why were you begging for my number and texted me every minute of your day telling me what you were doing. also earlier whenever I said its late I gotta go he was like no pls don't go at 6am and now he want to sleep at 11pm. I THINK HE FOUND SOMEONE ELSE TO CHASE this was the last text I am done. hate these kinda men

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u/Able_Pomegranate_646 — 9 days ago
▲ 4 r/NoOverthinking+2 crossposts

its 4:44am and I just want to say this out loud

recently I have been feeling so heavy in my chest regarding everything. the things which don't even mean to me is bothering me. I have always been the girl who ignores guys when it comes to protect my peace. I have always been rude to guys or mean to them when they try to flirt or waste my time. but recently I have been talking to this guy or I would say we just update each other and now I feel I am not that imp to him or idk whyyy am I feeling this. I am not even attracted to him. I don't like him fs. but the thing is little things are bothering me so much these days. I AM FEELING THIS HEAVINESS I. CAN'T EVEN STUDY PROPERLY. I have an exam in 6 days and ik the guy is not the only reason it's everything. I am overthinking these days alot. I just want to get better for my exams I can't fuck this up. I am sleeping now and I hope I wake up feeling better and with the same idgaf attitude

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u/Able_Pomegranate_646 — 21 days ago
▲ 0 r/GirlProblems+1 crossposts

DO Y'ALL ALSO GET AROUSED OR WET BY JUST Talking TO A GUY YOU ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO?

I am 20 F and recently i have been talking to this guy 23M about normal stuff and gossips and after talking to sometime i thought i had my periods but when i checked i was just wet. i felt so embarrassed. he is nothing but a friend to me. he tried to flirt w me a few times but i never realised he was flirting until today. he looks 7/10. very attractive voice. but i don't think i should be aroused by that. i never thought about him romantically not even today i just felt gross

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u/Able_Pomegranate_646 — 27 days ago