u/Acceptable-Gas4073

My chest confuses me

I hate my chest like most trans people do. I was taking off my tape the other day and I remembered that I will never ever have a normal chest. It will always have either scars, tape, or a binder on it. But the confusing part is that I do want scars. I like how they look

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u/Acceptable-Gas4073 — 4 days ago

How do I get my girlfriend to stop smoking?

My girlfriend’s parents are giving her the option to switch to an alternative school because she is failing so many of her classes. But the problem is, the only reason she’s failing is because she’s high all the time. She’s genuinely considering switching schools, but the school isn’t the problem.

And I don’t even want her to stay just cause I would miss her. This other school does not require her to go every day and they are only a few hours a day. If she were always just at home alone, she would fall into deep depression again. And her smoking problem would get worse.

Weed has taken over her life and she refuses to acknowledge it. I’ve tried talking to her and she said she would slow down and she has a little, but she just bought a new 8g yart. I had to quit smoking a couple months ago so of course I know it’s not that easy, but it feels like she’s picking drugs over our relationship

Edit: I will not leave her

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u/Acceptable-Gas4073 — 4 days ago
▲ 1 r/ADHD

How do you guys focus?

I have this project in school that is due today that I have hardly started. Ever since I started taking my meds, I can focus better, but only in topics i enjoy. I don’t enjoy this topic so I can’t for the life of me lock in. What do I do? If I don’t have it turned in by tomorrow I will fail this class

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u/Acceptable-Gas4073 — 4 days ago

How do I neutralize a color?

I don’t think I said that right.

I used splat two days ago and I did red, but it is wayyyyy too bright. I have like darkish hair so I wasn’t expecting it to be so bright. What can I use to make it less bright?

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u/Acceptable-Gas4073 — 4 days ago

How do I neutralize a color?

I don’t think I said that right.

I used splat two days ago and I did red, but it is wayyyyy too bright. I have like darkish hair so I wasn’t expecting it to be so bright. What can I use to make it less bright?

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u/Acceptable-Gas4073 — 4 days ago

How do I neutralize a color?

I don’t think I said that right.

I used splat two days ago and I did red, but it is wayyyyy too bright. I have like darkish hair so I wasn’t expecting it to be so bright. What can I use to make it less bright?

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u/Acceptable-Gas4073 — 4 days ago

How do I neutralize a color?

I don’t think I said that right.

I used splat two days ago and I did red, but it is wayyyyy too bright. I have like darkish hair so I wasn’t expecting it to be so bright. What can I use to make it less bright?

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u/Acceptable-Gas4073 — 4 days ago
▲ 10 r/ftm

My grandpa just called me my name

I havnt spoken to my grandpa in years. He is heavily Mormon and is not very fond of the transgenders. He sends me a texts every year on my birthday and some holidays, but I never reply. But today is my birthday, and I got than annual text. But he called me by my name. Not my birth name, my name. So after years, I finally replied. I said thank you cause I didn’t know what else to say.

That was absolutely shocking. If my testosterone allowed me to cry, I would for sure be crying right now

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u/Acceptable-Gas4073 — 10 days ago
▲ 3 r/family

I’m 15 and my sister is 5. I’ve been reading with her every night and helping her practice her sight words for school. Ever since I’ve started doing that, our relationship has gotten so much closer.

If there are any other older siblings on this subreddit who are questioning if a relationship with their younger sibling is worth it, trust me. It is

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u/Acceptable-Gas4073 — 17 days ago

I had to quit smoking like 7 months ago. I never ever pushed that on my friends so they kept smoking. It’s kinda becoming a problem for one of them but she is a story for a different time.

The other one texted me today and said she is quitting. She said her mom broke down in tears in front of her about how worried she was. She says she doesn’t want to hurt her mom any more.

I am really hoping this will help our other friend too cause it’s a group of 3, so with two that have quit, maybe that will convince her to quit as well, or at least slow down

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u/Acceptable-Gas4073 — 17 days ago

Me and my 5 year old sister share a bathroom. She always seems to forget to flush the toilet, even after I remind her. Does anyone know of a thing I can like attach to the flush thing that has like bright colors or something to get her attention to remind her to flush the toilet? Or do I just have to keep reminding her til she gets it

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u/Acceptable-Gas4073 — 18 days ago

Me and my 5 year old sister share a bathroom. She always seems to forget to flush the toilet, even after I remind her. Does anyone know of a thing I can like attach to the flush thing that has like bright colors or something to get her attention to remind her to flush the toilet? Or do I just have to keep reminding her til she gets it

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u/Acceptable-Gas4073 — 18 days ago
▲ 3 r/ftm

I am to the point in my transition where I’m almost fully stealth and completely passing. I don’t want cis people to know I’m trans, or at least not the ones who care too little to know the trans colors.

I want other trans people to feel safe around me. I don’t want to seem like another cis male threat.

Does anyone know any subtle jewelry that i can wear that can let other trans people know that I am as well trans but that cis people wouldn’t recognize?

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u/Acceptable-Gas4073 — 24 days ago

About 37 hours ago I had two fireballs and a buzzball. I havnt drank for like 6 months previous to this so it got me pretty fucked up. I alcohol tested myself just for fun and it came back completely clean. Do I just have fast metabolism or was it a false negative?

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u/Acceptable-Gas4073 — 24 days ago

1st pic is my hair, second is what color I want to achieve.

What dye brand should I buy to get that color? I don’t wanna spend too much money. I am willing to bleach my hair but if there’s a brand that somehow wouldn’t require bleaching that would be nice

u/Acceptable-Gas4073 — 25 days ago