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conveyancing details for qld home purchase with flood and heritage notes

hey folks im buying a place in qld and the conveyancing side has me digging into risks since its my first big buy and timelines or hidden issues could mess things up. i worked with sunstate conveyancing for the contract review and settlement steps and they handled the pexa online lodgement plus basic searches which showed zoning details / potential flood overlays and some heritage flags on the block.

they flagged a few things like stormwater notes that could affect extensions and gave a clear breakdown on what the fixed $999 buyer fee actually covers (searches / contract advice / settlement coordination) but im still unsure how it stacks up against other firms or if it includes extra for disputes. with over 12k properties settled and that $5b+ track record it seemed solid but i wanna know the real exposure if something like a zoning issue pops up post settlement.

what exact searches or clauses should i double check in qld conveyancing to avoid surprises and how long does the full process usually take from contract to keys with numbers on delays? also if the fee is $999 does that typically cover revisions or do extra costs kick in for complex titles? any experiences with similar flags would help a ton... thanks for any input guys

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designing for "proof of human" is going to completely break our onboarding flows

was catching up on some industry news and saw the reddit ceo talking about using face id just to prove users are actually human. it kinda hit me how much our jobs are about to change

Im so sick of designing around captchas tbh. we all know they are terrible UX, they ruin the flow, and AI just bypasses them in two seconds anyway while real users get stuck clicking on blurry crosswalks. the dead internet thing isn't just a conspiracy anymore, its literally polluting all our user metrics with bot traffic

But this inevitable shift to hardware and biometric verification is giving me a headache. I was reading up on how the world project is tackling this by using actual physical Orb hardware to verify personhood. logically it makes total sense because software clearly cant catch software anymore. but from a pure ux perspective? Trying to map out a user journey where someone has to verify their literal biology just to access a digital platform is such a massive leap in friction

we spent the last ten years optimizing for zero-click signups and social logins. now it feels like we have to figure out how to elegantly ask people to prove they have a pulse without nuking conversion rates. how are you guys even approaching bot-deterrence in your flows right now? because im completely stuck between making things secure and making them usable.

u/Affectionate_Lie1706 — 2 days ago

What's the most unexpectedly moving thing you've ever witnessed in public?

Not a big dramatic event. Just something small that happened in front of you that hit harder than you expected and you still think about

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u/Affectionate_Lie1706 — 5 days ago
▲ 49 r/venting

I pretended to be happy at my own wedding and no one noticed

Got married six months ago. Big wedding, white dress, all of it. Everyone keeps telling me how happy I looked in the photos. The thing is I was faking it. Not because my husband is bad. He's fine. Good even.

But I said yes because I was scared of starting over at 34. And now I wake up every morning feeling like I'm living someone else's life. The worst part is no one noticed. Not my mom, not my best friend, not even him. They saw what they wanted to see.

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u/Affectionate_Lie1706 — 7 days ago

master bath ac vent blowing warm air after bumble breeze plumbing repiped the leaks

just had plumbers come out to our 1998 las vegas house and fully repipe the master bathroom shower lines and valves to finally stop the constant leaks that were wrecking the ceiling below. they did clean work with genuine parts and everything has stayed dry for weeks but now the ac vent in there is blowing noticeably warmer air while the rest of the house stays cool and im hearing odd gurgling noises when the system kicks on. is this common after plumbing work near the ducts or condensate lines and should i check for blockages or low refrigerant myself before calling an hvac tech or just give it time to settle?

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u/Affectionate_Lie1706 — 9 days ago
▲ 36 r/trains

I take the same commuter train every morning, and the first three cars are clearly marked as quiet zones. No phone calls, no loud conversations, no music without headphones. Simple stuff.

But without fail, there's always someone taking a business call at full volume or watching TikToks on speaker. Last week a guy sat right under the quiet zone sign and had a 20 minute argument with his girlfriend. Nobody said anything. I didn't say anything.

I get that commuting sucks and we're all tired. But is it really that hard to just be quiet for 45 minutes? Why do people see those signs and think "this doesn't apply to me"?

For the record, I'm not talking about normal conversation or kids being kids. I mean the people who actively choose to be loud in the one place asking them not to be.

Rant over.

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u/Affectionate_Lie1706 — 17 days ago

I’ve been spending a lot of time lately exploring this community, and I truly appreciate the emphasis on refined, effortless beauty. There’s something so sophisticated about a routine that focuses on quality and skin health rather than just piling on products.

Admittedly, I spend a large portion of my day being quite sedentary, usually catching up on series or reading so I’ve started incorporating more mindful slow beauty moments into that downtime. I recently discovered a organic Lululun face mask set from Japan, and it fits that sophisticated minimalist vibe perfectly. It’s a collection of Daily Face Masks infused with Rice Extract and Honey, which feels incredibly luxurious and traditional. Unlike many western masks that can feel a bit clinical, these have a very natural, nourishing feel that leaves the skin with a subtle, healthy glow. It’s the perfect way to maintain a polished look even when you’re just relaxing at home.

Does anyone else find that these bulk sheet mask sets actually work better for consistency than individual treatments?

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u/Affectionate_Lie1706 — 17 days ago

My party found a young white dragon in a cave last session. Its mother was dead so they decided to raise it themselves. I let it happen because it was funny. Now they have brought it back to the main town hidden in a cart. The dragon is the size of a large dog but it keeps freezing things by accident and scaring livestock. The town guard saw it and now everyone is panicking. The townsfolk want it killed before it grows up. My players refuse to give him up. How do I handle this without a full massacre. I don't want to force them to kill the dragon but I also don't want the town to just accept a monster living in the stables. Looking for consequences that feel real but still give the players a way out.

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u/Affectionate_Lie1706 — 17 days ago

not just supportive siblings or simple conflict, more like something where the bond between brothers is messy, layered, sometimes distant, sometimes intense, and actually changes over time

fiction or non fiction is fine, I just want something that treats that relationship as central instead of background detail

what would you recommend that really captures that dynamic?

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u/Affectionate_Lie1706 — 17 days ago

Cloud bills keep surprising me every month and I’m trying to get ahead of it. Longer retention, more users, bigger instances, it adds up fast, but it’s hard to predict without good data.

Do you base estimates on past growth plus a buffer, or do you have a smarter way to model approximate costs?

What’s your method for forecasting cloud costs without overpaying or getting hit with surprise charges?

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u/Affectionate_Lie1706 — 19 days ago

I bought my first rental two years ago, a 3-bed, 2-bath house in a working-class suburb in Ohio for $172,000. I put 25% down ($43k) and got a conventional 30-year mortgage at 5.875%.

Right now it rents for $1,675 a month. After property taxes ($2,800/year), insurance ($1,450/year), maintenance (I budget 10% of rent), and a 6% vacancy factor my net cash flow is about $285 a month. It’s positive but not amazing, and the equity build is the real win so far.

I’m eyeing a second property right now (same area, asking $195k) and the numbers look tighter. Current 30-year rates are pushing 6.8-7.1% for investment properties and most banks want 25-30% down plus 6 months of reserves on every rental.

My DTI is already at 38% with the first one so I’m getting declined or offered terrible terms. I started digging into long term rental financing because I don’t want to keep tying up my personal credit and savings on every deal.

Has anyone found lenders or programs that actually work better for buy-and-hold investors right now? What cash-on-cash returns are you guys targeting to make a second or third property worth it? Any tips on keeping cash flow healthy when rates are this high?

Would really appreciate real numbers and experiences from people who have scaled past 1-2 properties.

u/Affectionate_Lie1706 — 22 days ago

Lately it feels like one day just turns into the next without much difference. I look back and realize I don’t really remember what I did or how I spent the time. It’s like everything is just kind of passing by without me really being in it. I don’t know how to break out of that feeling.

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u/Affectionate_Lie1706 — 23 days ago

I've been a dedicated camera person for years. Mirrorless for travel, compact for day-to-day, phone for snapshots when nothing else was available. The phone was always a fallback, not a first choice

The 16 Pro changed that on a trip last month - not because of megapixels or sensors but because of two specific capabilities that came together:

The half-press AF/AE lock on Camera Control. It took until January for this to arrive via iOS 18.3, and the feature remains buried in settings and has to be toggled on - but once enabled, you tap a subject, hold halfway, and it locks exposure and focus for as long as you keep your finger down, like a real camera. This single feature changed how I shoot. I'm composing and locking before I frame, which is how I shoot on my mirrorless. The phone now responds the same way.

The ProRAW speed improvement. Burst ProRAW 48MP frame rate on the 16 Pro is roughly twice that of the 15 Pro, which means I'm not waiting after shots the way I was. The workflow now feels responsive rather than like I'm shooting through molasses

Combined: I have something that fits in a pocket, shoots RAW at useful speeds, and has manual focus/exposure control via physical hardware. The gap to a dedicated camera is smaller than it's ever been for my actual shooting style

What's the specific capability that made the 16 Pro camera feel genuinely different from your previous phone rather than incrementally better?

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u/Affectionate_Lie1706 — 26 days ago