u/Aggravating-Welder12

I have hyperhidrosis (condition which causes excessive sweating) face, pits, underboobs, booty crack, pretty much my whole body gets abnormally sweaty. I’ll go into a nice cool place and after a short amount of time, I’m sweating and it’s very noticeable. I work in a hot warehouse and even if when the weather isn’t extreme, I am pouring buckets and wiping myself constantly. It’s exhausting and ofc the stares make it worse since it’s commonly triggered by anxiety 😣 so I’m just wondering.. when you see people who are really sweaty, what’s your first thought? Do you make a snap judgement they must be dirty or unhygienic? I shower twice daily because if I’m not sweating in my sleep, my body naturally produces a lot of oil so I wake up feeling like an oil slick too 😀 I’ve been to the doctor, all my bloodwork is good. I also drink a lot of water. Tia yall

Just venting here. I’m on my 3rd week of a new job working in a warehouse. First day was a nightmare! I wear all black ofc but the sweat was so bad I had to change my shirt during break. I wear 2 elastic headbands, 1 to keep sweat out my eyes and the other to keep my neck dry (I have a fat neck lol). Everyone complains it’s hot but I’m one of the only people who melt upon entering. It’s a disaster! A coworker left to get a hot coffee and I swear I started sweating just thinking about it. The humidity is also 85% so that’s fun. I want a job in a cold office, stationary, left alone so I’m not sweating from the heat, I don’t have to move and sweat, I don’t have to conceal the sweat from others. This is so annoying! Again, just venting.

I have an interview Friday and I’m wondering what to expect. They gave some helpful tips in email and I really prepped for the phone screen so I plan to do the same for in person. I know I’ll pass background check but I’m worried about drug test bc I smoke pot. Idk if I’d be able to clean my system out in time so would an offer be rescinded if I fail? TIA!

I’m about 5 mos post op and was just enjoying a coffee and wrap from Starbucks. When I finished a bite and went in for a sip, my stomach instantly cramped. Will this ever go away 😭 it was an accident, I normally follow the 20 min rule but still… is this life forever??

I have an interview with them next week and a drug screen is required. Are they gonna watch me?
Yes, drugs are bad. It’s not a normal, everyday thing. It’s just pot but still, I know it will be a part of the screen. Tia.

I recently quit my job of almost 3 years. I went as long as I could til I inevitably split.. I loved the job so much but after getting a family member a job, it backfired. I also live with this family member and have completely lost trust in them. I’m 39 and feel like I’m so behind in life. My kids dad has custody of them, nothing bad happened, I just couldn’t handle doing it alone and he is in a much better place. I struggle with stability, emotional and otherwise. I have no one to rely on. I’ve been unemployed almost a month now. I totally sabotaged an interview yesterday for a job that would’ve helped get me on my feet. I’m just so depressed and losing my will to live. I’ve never attempted but suicidal ideation has been a norm for me for years. A lot more lately. I don’t go to therapy. I’m really trying to hang on. What do I expect admitting myself? I know everywhere is different but in general any info would be nice.

Kids on my block hit my car with fireworks. I went to the house to show mom and she wasn’t there so I called to let her know and she apologized and said she’ll call in the morning but she would “help” get my car fixed but she’s not rich. I told her I’ll get estimates and can send her everything. It’s not a terrible amount of damage. Do I need to make a police report or call my insurance?

I’m watching a YouTube video about the viral deconstructed matcha and it made me think of something. I order a venti iced coffee with the same syrup and cream add ons, daily. I don’t always expect it to taste the exact same. Some days it’s perfect, if it’s a little off, I’ll live. My complaint is the cream to coffee ratio and the ice watering down my drink. When I saw this video, I wondered how much of a hassle would it be for workers to accommodate an order with a venti iced coffee and syrups in the cup, a separate grande cup of ice and an espresso cup of cream. I love my baristas at 2 locations I visit so I genuinely don’t want to be that customer. They already know my order when I come in so am I a jerk for ordering it this way?

Has anyone taken this program and was it worth it?

Mine is morphe from 2017. It seems ok to use but I’m curious how common this is.

I’ve been using liquid eyeliner since my teens and for the last year I cannot seem to get a smooth enough pen! My go to is Nyx liquid pen but I’ve also tried Kiss, elf and wet n wild. They work fine for a bit then skip or dry out so quickly. And recommendations for something new or am I doing something wrong??

Hi. First time poster, lifelong sufferer of hyperhidrosis. I found carpe a couple years ago to use on my feet since I lived in az and the heat all year made it unbearable to wear sandals, heels, etc… and the smell, my god! So when I found carpe I was so happy it worked. This year I found sweat block and gave it a try. It kinda worked, it takes a while to see results. The foot wipes have a strong clove scent. I decided to try it on my face and that was perfect. So when I ran out I continued with carpe on my feet since it’s more effective. I decided to try sweat block face for my face and I’m not crazy about it. I’m also oily so I was looking forward to seeing that improve too. I use it at night after washing my face and it takes a couple applications to be effective but nothing like the sweat block foot wipes. Has anyone used foot for face or have experience with it.

I am therapy resistant. About 10 yrs ago I saw a counselor who saw my mom and sister too. I stopped going bc it felt like she enjoyed the drama of my family (we’re all unstable). 5 years ago I saw a psychiatrist who put me on Lamotrigine and Effexor. I honestly love them but of course it’s not a cure all. I had a dbt workbook for a while but I fell off using it when I started thinking I was fine. I hate the idea of therapy but it’s highly recommended. If you have experience with dbt, how’s it been for you? Tia

bingo halls in toledo ? Tia.

What kinds of rewards did you give yourself after losing x amount of lbs?

I have borderline personality disorder. I tend to struggle with regulating my emotions and close relationships, getting triggered if I don’t get attention from someone I have deemed my “favorite person”. It’s hell to live with but I really do try.

I started dating a guy I casually hooked up with last year. We met at a swingers club and had a great time. We lost contact but when I saw him again, I remembered the fun we had and asked if he wanted to meet up. We did and it was fun. He lives out of town and comes here for work. We started getting close, he’s a really sweet guy and I was beginning to have feelings for him. I could tell he was too but one night after amazing fun, we laid in bed watching tv. It felt too close, like a normal relationship. I got triggered by this and hurriedly left telling him it’s not him I just needed to go. I sat in the lobby and cried, hoping he’d text to comfort me or ask to come back. He didn’t. I text him apologizing, he responded that it was ok but didn’t know what to say.

We talked a bit after and saw each other again, like normal, but he gave me space. I told him I missed him and wanted to see him. He said he missed me too but what happens after? Will I still be insecure or have another episode. Finally, I told him about my diagnosis. He said he needed to think on it. That’s not what I wanted to hear, but I understood. For a few days I moped around, waiting to hear from him. I noticed him on social media flirting with a woman and it made me feel worse.

After seeing that, I began spiraling. Thinking if he didn’t want me but was openly showing interest in her, I should just back off. I text him that I didn’t think it would work and he replied that hurts but he understood. A few days later, I randomly text asking if we could hook up before a major surgery since I wouldn’t get none for a while. He said he didn’t think it was a good idea, he enjoyed spending time with me but it kinda hurt for me to want him for that. I felt bad then remembered we MET AT A CLUB! I didn’t say that, but definitely thought it.

Later I saw him again flirting with the same woman online. He never text me after my surgery so I got pissed and blocked his number and profile. It’s been a month. I want to reach out but I’m afraid he’s moved on or won’t want to hear from me.

Am I crazy to think he’d want to talk to me? I mean, he literally had no way to get ahold of me unless he came to my work but he’s not that kinda guy.