Poor Tysha
Tywin’s treatment of Tysha is one of the cruelest things in the entire series and I genuinely don’t understand how people try to justify it. She was just a young girl who loved Tyrion, and because Tywin couldn’t stand the idea of his son marrying a “commoner,” he destroyed both of them.
Forcing Tyrion to watch while she was assaulted, then forcing him to participate too, wasn’t “discipline” or “protecting the family name.” It was sadistic humiliation. There is no excuse for it.
And honestly, I don’t even want to imagine how terrified and broken Tysha must have felt during all of it. People sometimes discuss this storyline like it’s just another political move by Tywin, but there was a real human being at the center of that horror. She didn’t deserve any of it.
What makes it even worse is that Tyrion spent years believing she never loved him, because Jaime was forced to lie. Tywin didn’t just ruin one moment he permanently damaged Tyrion’s ability to trust love and kindness. That’s not greatness or “hard leadership.”