u/AmbassadorLegal8531

- bhot log bol rhe h me fear mongering kr rha hu

- competion km kr rha hu NIMCET ke liye

- me khud kyu NIMCET de rha hu

- Skills hogi to sb kuch hojayega

- yhe so called DEAD wale bhot log hote h etc etc

so I myself used to advocate about MCA from top clgs , mene drop liya h NIMCET ke liye , me koi fear mongering nhi kr rha , abhi tk jo bhi bnd placed ho chuke h unka sb sorted h , but mene specifically bola tha ki jo log MCA ka plans kr rhe h wo ek baar waps soch lo ,

or koi to chutiye ne post krna mere baar me stating "Pussy head" , Im again telling u all , ab tk jo placed ho gye h unka sb sorted h , but age bhot problem hone wali h or MCA wo bhi 2-3saal krna is will take too much of ur time , or jo bnda pehle se intelligent or hardwoking hoga wo to apna career kese bhi tech field me bna lega but majorty us category me nhi hote h

or rhi baat me kyu NIMCET de rha hu phir ?? saalo mene nimcet ke liye drop liya h or meri prep bhot shi chl rhi h me NIMCET dunga just to get that fucking validation ki mne NIT ki seat drop kri h kyo ki wha jada scope nhi h OR rhi baat competition km krne ki , bsdkwalo 16-18k bnde ppr dete h at MAX (2k bnde serious hote h) to jisko nimcet nikala h wo to bhot easyliye nikal lega koi competition km nhi ho rha ,chutiyo

+ and again mene EDIT me bola tha hi jo bnd hardworking h wo to kuch na kuch udkaad hi lega but majorty ko setback hi milga jb job nhi legegi , ek baar r/developersIndia me dekho loh kitne work ex walye jobless baithe h abhi

and rhi baat MCA/BCA /BTECH /MBA DEAD ki , to mene sitf MCA /BCA ka DEAD bola jo ki majority ke liye true h , or wo bsdk wala to post kr rha h bol rha h ki LOG bolte h MBA bhi dead h to bsdk mene nhi bola MBA bhi dead h me to khud CAT ki prep kr rhe hu TOP clg MBA is FAR better then top clg MCA, , ek baat MBA ki placmetns dekhlo top clg ki gaadn fat jayegi kitna khartarnak h , isssliye mene pivot krliya h

and again bhai jisko jo krna h kro , but makesure aapko apna time waste na kro , TECH market is worst rn , dusri markets are still pretty decnt compared to TECH market rn ,

PEACE ✌

To everyone out here doing BCA and are planning to DO MCA , please understand the fact that so many IT workers are getting laid off every month , Due to AI , and please either switch the domain or be super intelligent to be irreplaceable (95% of folks cant be extremely good ), Tech jobs are not wht they used to be pre covid , thing are so frustating seeing layoffs , hiring freeze , etc etc , its so disappointing , gone the golden days of MCA placemtns from TOP NITs , and doinf MCA that to of 2-3 yr in this tech market will land u nothing , u cant buld enough skills to justfy ur self as fresher and its not for eveyone.

please switch to other field , or see ur self be replaced by AI with inth 2-3 yr

EDIT: IM not saying tech is doomed , but we are in the worst job market in decades, and this transition aint gonna be easy for majorty of the folks, either u came victorious out of it or get laidoff, no in between as if u aint doing good work for tthe companies sooner or later u gonaa be replaced

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