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i’m looking for a lawyer that can give me some advice i’m in desperate need about a relationship query

willing to pay please please please!!

i’m looking for a lawyer that can give me some advice i’m in desperate need about a relationship query particularly in the middle east.

location: saudi

willing to pay please please please!!

i’m looking for a lawyer that can give me some advice i’m in desperate need about a relationship query particularly in the middle east.

location: saudi

willing to pay please please please!!

Salam all.

I'm 18, a high school graduate. I'm looking forward to study medicine in the kingdom and currently residing in Riyadh. I have an updated iqama too

I'm looking for volunteer work related to healthcare/ medicine, preferably in Riyadh. Please do provide with links or with guidance as I have trouble deciding my future and volunteering in a hospital may make it easier.

Jazakallahu Khairan.

Its in the middle of the night, 3 am to be exact and i’m having a deep sharp pain in my chest rethinking about my relationship and how sensitive i get.

So, for context i’m an 19M in a relationship with my girlfriend 18F, we’ve been together for well over an year now, we met each other online and met irl a month after, went long distance again. Now i don’t know if the things i get upset over are actually valid or if I’m over sensitive. I’ll try to summarize most of it so it’s easier.

Firstly, when we first met it was near her birthday (during last aug, we were still online close friends during this not officially dating) but i liked her so i did make her handmade bouquets and a birthday letter which i promised to give her when we meet. Fast forward to March (my birthday) she was all excited to deliver me a gift, and kept it a surprise but told me that it wasn’t possible just before the clock hit 12. I was okay with it but she was upset that she couldn’t do anything. During the day she confessed that she lied about her age but it wasn’t much of a worry so i was okay with it but upset that she lied. Although she was DOUBLE upset cause she lied to me and said she felt guilty for it. Like okay i really don’t understand why she was upset and not making my first birthday with her special? Anyways i had to comfort her on MY own birthday. After that she sent me a very low effort made handwritten letter and sent it later.

Secondly, on my graduation i was all happy and excited, i told her i’d be busy and send her videos and pictures when i’m back home. I went out w my friends after my grad party. I video called her and made her a part of it and told her I’d call later, hung up. On my way back home late at night i called her again in metro and while crossing the road and kept her max priority. She felt upset and was dry that whole day, she vented to me when i was back home that her friend got into a gc that made fun of her and made deepfakes of her etc and she was trying to protect her and nonsense. She also said that ‘all men are the same’ ‘i don’t know if you’re in such groupchats but i fear’ like why the fuc* would she say that to me after being in a rlts for an whole year? Like is it valid to call your boyfriend such? I felt upset and got my whole day ruined.

Sometimes I don’t even get compliments from her in a way that makes me happy, i always compliment her no matter what and when she sends me pictures of herself, she makes it seem like shes a celebrity and ignores most of them and replies to only the special ones. When i send my own pictures she compliments them with low effort.

Aswell as whenever i’m upset and trying to vent and its hard for me, i pause and try to make it seem like its all okay. Yet she gets upset and says that she feels suffocated and sabotages herself if i don’t open up right away, also sends me a pic of her crying sometimes that makes me emotional and open up/vent to her right away

Moreover, i always told her i felt ignored and wanted reassurance. I’m currently on vacation in another country and i give her all the attention even when i’m out enjoying i leave a text or two. She never does and i feel upset. She says that its hard for her to get wifi outside but posts stories of where she is going on the way back home instead of texting me back or posts on her ig. She says it was in her drafts and it takes a second or two etc, but why not update me during those seconds? Even when i said i felt so ignored?

Please don’t tell me to communicate it with her, i’ve done that so many times and i wouldnt be here posting about it if i haven’t. I’ve tried basically everything and at the end it feels like either i’m the problem or her and i just need advice, not some lecture to go and talk to your girl or etc.

I really don’t know if i’m being too much but i definitely don’t feel like i’m getting back the love i put in. It’s basically paying for a loss. Most of the days i feel obsessed but she doesn’t, i feel like she’s everything i wanted yet i feel upset being with her. I really don’t know how to process this all or that if it’s really right for me or not. This is my first ever relationship so i don’t even know if i’m doing the bare minimum or that if every relationship is like this. Really need advice cause things seem to hurt me a ton.

Asalamualikum,

So i’ll keep this short and simple, i’ve started liking a girl and she has an amazing personality, we feel like we’re compatible for each other and we don’t indulge in any sorts of casual talks. I have told her i’ll approach her once the time is right and we are both suitable for marriage.

Although I just can’t figure out if my deal breakers are being compromised.

For context i’m a muslim male, i pray all my prayers and alhamdulillah on the right track and don’t indulge with women of any sort and have a private life, on the other hand she has a public account and likes to post herself (without a hijab). One of my deal breakers in my future spouse would not wear the hijab and follow the islamic teachings, and that they would respect my decision and keep our lifes private, i don’t find social media any entertaining at all, i take pictures and keep them for myself but at the other hand she posts everything publically and it has made me question if i’m being too much or not.

No, i’m not insecure about a guy hitting on her of any sort, please don’t call me one. I just like to have a peaceful life and avoid the evil eye. Are we compatible? How should i approach her with this as i’ve communicated to her about this before and she said she’ll improve but i haven’t really seen any signs. I don’t want to suffocate another human being with my morals so i don’t want to communicate about this over and over. Is this a thing i should stop caring about? I read somewhere that a husband is held accountable if he doesn’t act like a pillar for his family and lets them slip away, aswell as referred as dayooth if he doesn’t care about his woman showing herself off, i’m not one. Please give me advice on how to view this situation.

Jazakallahu khairan.

As per the title and to keep it short i get anxious when i’m not texting my partner.

I’m an 18M dating my partner 18F since well over an year now, we have built a pretty strong bond and always communicate and have been pretty much gone through everything. We’re currently doing long distance as I had to move for uni and we do talk lots during the day, for a couple of hours, and oh boy long distance does really suck.

To keep it short and simple, she has a well maintained life, she goes out with her friends, spends time with her family, gives time to her pet cats and has side hobbies but for some reason I always get anxious and in a trouble mode when i’m not texting her, before i get an advice to find my own hobbies yes i do have many, i do gym i paint i do loads of other stuff & i do have friends to hangout to keep myself busy and to be fair I barely get time out of my day to sit useless, i really don’t need any new hobbies i just need a way to fix myself in a way i don’t think about her in everything i do, yes it may sound romantic to some but it really does trouble me sometime as i get worried a lot.

At the gym? thinking about her, doing my work? thinking about her, doing literally anything? thinking about her. Yes i call myself obsessed but I don’t even know how to fix this much of obsessiveness, and as per human nature the more you get attached the further they go.

(english isnt my first language so please ignore the grammatical errors)

As per some brief context I need advice on how to heal or what i should do as a next move, i just graduated highschool and i’ve been with her since 11 months of long distance and we have met once, our experience when we met was great and we do have similar interests and belong from the same country and live only an hour away by flight, i can travel too once in a while.

But recently things started to go downhill and i’m unsure on what i should do or if this is normal for a female to react this way due to her cycles or her emotional intelligence. Things have been really rough on me as I’m the oldest sibling and will persue medicine which is one of the hardest degrees, i’m mentally preparing myself and giving more time off to my career than anything else right now and i do need support from her side too, but she always complains that i dont do much for her and don’t spend time with her.

One of the main concerns is that she does the push/pull method on me, sometimes shes all super close but the very next day shes dry and barely in the mood to text which wasnt the case when i first met her and this happens alot, it makes me feel drained and exhausted. We have constant arguments now which have started to drain me, and yeah as this world says if a relationship doesn’t bring you peace its not worth it.

She’s an amazing partner overall and ive communicated every single argument with her, she emphasizes on sending pics everyday as it keeps the relationship alive and since we cant call much due to her strict parents, but another argument we have is that she always complain I dont send pics so often, and the only reason for that is ive always had an insecurity of my looks.

One of the biggest problems i have even after loads of communication is the way she gaslights me and blackmails me, whenever i’m upset and not in the mood to talk she pressures me into speaking it out but when i do she goes upset and i have to make sure shes better even though i’m the one who needed comfort, even when i’m bawling my eyes out i have to worry that shes okay instead of me caring about my own self or she does it for me. The worst that happened was an argument on my birthday that was her fault and i was upset, she went upset too and sent me a lame letter and i had to comfort her ruining MY OWN day, just for reference i made a handmade bouquet and two long letters on hers last year, another problem is the fact that she likes to post herself mainly her face and her body (covered) on social media, not in a revealing sense but i’m an arab and women here generally cover themselves and i want a wife that doesn’t crave public attention, but she still does it and says she wants to have fun in her ‘teens’ i’m unsure if this is just my protective jealousy or insecurity but it bothers me to the point its all i overthink about everyday cause i eliminated everything that made her jealous but she couldnt do this for me.

Thats pretty much it and i’m not sure what i should do, i’m a very private guy that likes to keep my life unknown to others and not drag unnecessary attention but shes the opposite which is something id consider as a red flag for me, aswell as the fact i feel constantly underwhelmed that id hurt her cause she always complains i dont do enough for her even though she also lacks lots of things too, i always try to be carey and mind my tone but she forgets most of the time and is selfish in general, it feels like shes not a compatible partner for me.

I’m unsure on what to do? (ps pls dont tell me to communicate with her as ive done this all and finally had the courage to ask people online as things dont ever change so i thought maybe I AM the one whos wrong)

Thanks for the time and patience if you read till this very end 🙏

I’m an international student, 18, with a resident id living here in saudi arabia, the universities here for premed have very strict requirements and i unfortunately haven’t given qudurat/tahsili nor ACT/SAT

I’ve only given my a levels and IELTS due to some problems and couldnt appear for the other exams

I’m feeling lost as i dont know what decision i should take so i’m looking for guidance online and trying to figure out the best move for me.

Is it better to take a gap year, improve my grades, appear for external exams and get into a good university here with a chance of scholarships? (eg king saud, alfaisal, king abdulaziz) etc in the 2027 session? I fear taking a gap year and feeling behind or should i join any university as some low criteria ones have accepted me

I don’t know how much importance is medicine uni ranks and if it really matters or not, ive heard they all offer the same course and take roughly about the same time, its just about the prestige and rank of a university that stands out, does it really matter??

I do need help as times short, if i should take a gap year or to not, aswell as taking a gap year would certainly open more opportunities for me but would make me behind.

Looking forward to guidance ☹️

I’m 18, pakistani with residency living in riyadh, KSA.

Ive recently completed my a levels, i’m the oldest in my siblings and ive applied for the medicine program in alfaisal uni but unfortunate, got rejected. Ive done a levels and IELTS but i’m unsure what my next steps should be and where to apply, my dad isnt much of help either considering he has done his phd and masters in engineering. I missed out on the qiyas exams too due to my boards clashing with the exams*.*

I seriously need some guidance and help, should i take a gap year and improve my a levels? My parents are a bit strict to let me study outside of KSA and theres little to no options of premed here as they only really offer the course to Saudi citizens and the private universities are highly expensive with starting fees upto 70k riyals.

Any guidance, tips or general information would be a blessing at this moment as time is short 😞🙏 i’ll pray for you guys just help me out

Thanks..

i’m 18, pakistani, looking for friends (preferably paki/indian etcetc) 🤗 i have no idea how reddit really works so i’m down to text anywhere else

i’ll be starting premed soon and I’m currently living in Riyadh, I do gym & I can sketch blah blah

Ive added a TIMESTAMPED video proof in the drive as a proof of 9700/41 GUYS SPEAK ABOUT THIS MORE! We all need to email cambridge as they only consider keals when candidates pressurize them! Send them emails use an ai if you cant write one but do email! We need some kind of compensation or else the thresholds will skyrocket due to the people who used the exam keals unfairly! SPEAK UP PEOPLE

PROOF:
https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1GIfg-sQpGj-Y7bEjDFN0zJRfB01mGw8x