u/Ariko2

I'm an autistic trans woman looking mainly for neurodiverse women to date, but dating apps are trash, I'm treated like a man on them and when I'm lucky enough for a match 90% (literally, statistically speaking) of the time I don't even get a second message and 90% of the second message crowd ghost.

I mainly look for neurodiverse women because they'll understand me better and I'd feel safer with them, the problem is I don't know where I'm meant to go to find them outside of dating apps? I probably won't meet an autistic woman at a bar and I feel like a predator approaching people in person, I just don't know what to do? ​​