u/Ashleymartin06

you for Mother’s Day ?

for the occasional lazy days? if so what brand ? 13m toddler

i wish we could move far away from her . I’m always stressed of the forceful feeling of us having to see his parents with our daughter . his mom is toxic and controlling and manipulative . my husband hates her and resents her SOOOOO Much . but ALWAYS ends up giving in eventually or falling for her emotional manipulation tactics . i just can’t stand knowing were gonna have to see her eventually ugh . the last time we saw her she stormed out of Panera .. why? becuase she crossed a boundary multiple times after being told no and she can’t stand not being in control . she’s the most selfish person I’ve ever met and worst mom to my husband growing up and i j don’t want my daughter period but i only do it for him . anyone else

but wants their approval so bad . he hates her soooo much and she is extremely toxic and someone i don’t want around my daughter with how she acts .. so we finally go no contact with her and he gives in after a week andshes been ignoring him and he keeps trying and trying for approval until he hates her again . i just really wish we could move far away from them . anyone else go through this??

bc we’re married he feels entitled to even if he doesn’t meet any needs emotionally . it always up hurting for me bc I’m really tense and tight . anyone else going through this

se use to always drink water out of her fav straw cups and now i feel like Sne doesn’t like it anymore . i need her to get more water but idk how besides fruits . i just ordered a sip cup ro see if that help? any suggestions? she’s constipated ;(

should i try almond milk ? if so should i wean? my ped said almond milk or ripple due to her not doing good on milk or lactose free . did your toddler do good on almond milk ??

we had her on milk , lactose free milk and soy and none did good for her . we got her on ripple . no more rash and happier but super constipated ! I’ve tried everything and got to the point we had to use a suppositories . should i try almond milk ? should i stick out the ripple a bit longer ? shes been on it for about 3 weeks now.

we have tried milk , lactose free milk , she did bad on those yellow seedy poop so we switched to ripple and she’s been doing better ( no more eczema ) but she is not pooping .. we had to do a suppository . I’ve tried prunes , everything . is it the ripple ? she’s been on it for about two -3 full weeks . should i try almond milk instead ? I’m rewllt worried . she’s always been constipated even as a baby . thank you any advice is appreciated !!

what is the max your 13m should stay up for ? she sometimes pushes 5-6 hours and i think that’s too long right ? what’s the max ? I’m trying to figure everything out and it’s hard to figure out what rhythm is right .

13m use to be a good sleeper til around 12 months . it’s been about 5 weeks to 6 of not sleeping well. she’s up a lot of the night and it’s hard to put her back down form 3 am to 5 it takes two hours . during the day she’ll only nap for 30 and only will nap for the other hour and a half if i hold her . idk what to do ive tried everything . bought a floor bed to see if this will help

worried it’ll make matters worse . Any success stories ? my narc always says they will make the cops think I’m the person in wrong and hi dads and attorney and they would believe him

with a 13m old and a dog? no family .. we need to get out sooner than later , his abuse to me is getting worse and worse .. hotline is never available and i can’t leave my dog behind . I’m at a loss . i wjsh he would just leave or something would happen for him to disappear . i feel sick to my stomach i truly have no one. any helpful advice ?

hi my 13 m has had trouble sleeping the week she turned one . she will only nap for 30 mins and then will only nap if she is being held . with overnights she will wake up once or twice and will take forever to go back to sleep and will cry the minute i put her in the crib . any advice ? it’s been going on for about 5-6 weeks

I’m a SAHM to a 13m and we don’t have much family, I’m pushing through each day but how do you get over the hurt of no family or close friends making any efforts to see you or LO? or even ask about them on the phone .. I’ve always been the type to always ask people how they are and i feel like it’s never really reciprocated and it hurts more that i have a daughter . i have 3 sisters and my mom would rather go shopping every weekend with them then ask to see her or meetup somewhere . with the heat in Florida right now makes it even harder to get out to the park unless it’s first thing in morning or sunset .

hi my 13 m has had trouble sleeping the week she turned one . she will only nap for 30 mins and then will only nap if she is being held . with overnights she will wake up once or twice and will take forever to go back to sleep and will cry the minute i put her in the crib . any advice ? it’s been going on for about 5-6 weeks

I’m getting a floor bed for my daughter and i noticed they say to use the infant certified ones or whatever til 2, however they don’t sell a full size one . is a regular firm mattress ok !?

ok so I’ve always wanted to but was always anxious because i toss and turn . how ever , my toddler tirned 13 months and refuses to sleep unless it’s on me or next to me . is it safer to sleep with her now? i ordered a floor bed and wanted to start sleeping with her . im just really worried about the suffocation thing still but i really need some sleep . any tips or advice ??

ok so I’ve always wanted to but was always anxious because i toss and turn . how ever , my toddler tirned 13 months and refuses to sleep unless it’s on me or next to me . is it safer to sleep with her now? i ordered a floor bed and wanted to start sleeping with her . im just really worried about the suffocation thing still but i really need some sleep . any tips or advice ??

ok so I’ve always wanted to but was always anxious because i toss and turn . how ever , my toddler tirned 13 months and refuses to sleep unless it’s on me or next to me . is it safer to sleep with her now? i ordered a floor bed and wanted to start sleeping with her . im just really worried about the suffocation thing still but i really need some sleep . any tips or advice ??