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I’m really anxious as my child’s father’s has a first appearance coming up soon. The charge is uttering threats towards me, one of the threats included burning the house down. These were made over text message. He actually called the police on me because I fleed the house with our daughter, when the police came I showed them my phone and they took the evidence and charged him. The crown has yet to approve charges. He seems to think that I can get him off on the charges if I plead to the crown that I didn’t think he meant it and want to reconcile. I’m wondering if it’s even true?? How likely is the crown to pursue criminal charges if they have photo evidence of the text messages where he utter threats? What impact does my voice even have?

I’m curious what the likely result of this case would be?? Does anyone have any insight?

My partner and I decided to make a little film for ourselves, set the camera up from the bottom. Well I noticed that when he pulled out at times that my vagina was gaping open quite large. I was honestly a little horrified and hadn’t seen this before. I have 2 kids and have been to pelvic floor physio and was told I have a grade 3 kegel contraction (so moderate strength). I’m really not sure why this is happening and am worried about laxity. I’ve had my partner make comments so it’s on my mind.

I’m a small in most Aritzia tops, measurements are 37-28-38. (32F cup) and 5’1”z Wondering if I should go with an XS or S in this dress? While I am curvy, my frame is on the smaller side and there is nothing I hate more than loose fabric in the waist. I’ve heard it runs quite large. Any advice?

I plan to go to pelvic floor PT but I wanted to ask here while I wait. What are some indicators that I have vaginal laxity? How tight should I be around a single finger when relaxed vs kegel? I used to be able to orgasm vaginally prior to delivering children. I have two kids, no bowel issues. I sometimes trickle a little bit when I sneeze, more right after recent birth but less now with kegels 1 year postpartum. How spring should my vaginal walls be at rest? Does resting tone affect sexual sensation for my partner? Does queefing a lot during sex indicate looseness? (Mostly doggy style).

Thanks, really looking for some information regarding self assessment or if I’m just insecure.

I’m feeling terribly insecure after kids. Got a negative comment from a partner. I’d rather avoid talking about that and just get answers about anatomy. How far apart are the side walls of the vagina? When you insert a finger, how tight is it? How springy are the walls? Trying to test my laxity….

I’m wondering how I can test this? I’ve recently had a partner tell me some things, and I’m not sure if they are true. I’ve had a couple kids and have questioned it so I’m wondering what I can do to test the laxity. I do kegels regularly, I can insert one finger easily since having children (I never used to be able to, it used to hurt at the opening). I can feel top and bottom walls, touching my finger, but not gripping or hugging until I kegel. When I kegel it’s a gentle hug, until I really concentrate and focus, and then I can get a firm grip on the finger with a proper kegel. I have a small dildo, about 1.5 inches in diameter. If insert this and squeeze, there is no wiggle room and I can push against my side or top walls and there is a lot of resistance and strength against my force. There is more wiggle room on the dildo at the top though, near the cervix. It’s less strong in the upper portion. Any tips?

My boyfriend raged on me and told me I’m the loosest vagina he’s ever had. I’ve had two kids. I do my kegels. I’m feeling so insecure and I don’t know if what he said is true. What are signs from guys that I might be loose?

For context, he’s mad because we were fighting and I called him out on job hopping and being unreliable at work.