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Lots of pushing for open marriage/exploration which I don’t want bit he’s been fixated.
Went to therapy. Big focus on what I don’t bring to the relationship in terms of sex.
Makes me feel inadequate and says he is unfulfilled.
We have regular sex but he’s just mot satisfied.
Searched his phone as I knew something was going on and found multiple apps.
I would not have found out had i not searched.
Saying he did it for us.
Happy to make me feel like I’m the problem all this time.
There’s more than likely a lot more I don’t know.
Advise please.

You guys I need some good, solid advice from experienced couples. Very interested in hearing other men’s advice too.

My husband very much wants to explore sexually and is frustrated with life and not feeling satisfied. We have regular sex (as much as working parents can) but he is often angry and says he’s not fulfilled.

Recently I realised that this is just never going to end, his unhappiness prevails and it’s making me feel so sad, depressed but pretty angry too. I decided to take the leap and open a profile in a swingers site as I knew how happy it would make him. And it did. His whole mood changed and I’ve loved how ‘light’ and loving he’s being. The reality of that lifestyle, the more I read and learned and explored is so not what I want. I’ve told him that I can’t do this and he raging again. Saying that I set up the profile and life is for living.

There is more to it. I don’t feel safe in this at all as it’s not my desire but have been raped in the past and he can’t see that.

Help!

Hello! Anyone feel like their health has declined since starting JAKS? Feel like I’m often ill and tired.

Anyone else on JAKs for alopecia who experiences extreme tiredness?