u/Brilliant_Bus9385

How many FETs did it take for you to succeed in your 40s? Did you investigate the uterus after a failed FET?

My husband and I have been married for 7 years. Our relationship has had its ups and downs but we have a reoccurring problem that I haven’t been able to get over. He is very close with his family he would like to spend every Sunday there from 2pm til 7/8pm. I on the other hand prefer to spend my Sundays at home relaxing preparing week. Before our son was born I would go a couple times a month. After my son was born it became more difficult to spend that time with inlaws. One month my son and I didn’t go and then my SIL and MIL made a whole fuss about how I’m keeping my son away from them. My husband came home and we had a fight. My son was five months at the time and my gran had died and I was still running my own business, I was overwhelmed. Unfortunately after that I felt like visiting less and less, in time there were more similar fights, which eventually resulted in me not visiting at all from last year March. Fast forward my son is 4 years old and doesn’t enjoy spending time with the inlaws and pretty much wants to hang out with me. My husband has had a huge fight with me accusing me of keeping my son away from his family. Which I haven’t I always ask him if he wanted to go and he says no. My inlaws are both quite ill, and SIL has much older kids. Am I being an asshole in this situation? My inlaws are all narcissists- they never reach out, or wish me for my birthday, they just expect me to show up there every Sunday. This situation is straining my marriage and my husband is very resentful.

All advice welcome 🙏

I did a FET last week and am spiralling, I thought I would test positive 3pt nope, 4dpt nope, 5dpt nope and then I cried and gave up testing. I’m just going to wait for my beta and cry that day once.

We are 42 and transferred a euploid embryo last Wednesday, I’m currently 5dpt and got a negative test and am absolutely balling. I know it’s early still but with every passing day I feel the hope leaving my body.

Hugs please 🙏

We are 42 and transferred a euploid embryo last Wednesday, I’m currently 5dpt and got a negative test and am absolutely balling. I know it’s early still but with every passing day I feel the hope leaving my body.

Hugs please 🙏