is it true that women are unable to experience suffering?

question, not really a debate since im curious on the mindset. i made a vent post on here before which didnt get much interaction but did end up in me getting angry dms from self proclaimed truecels telling me i cant suffer due to my xx chromosones and im appropriating sadness, ive heard this online before as well and am just curious to hear the reasons why, this post isnt exactly for debate but to get some insight. thanks

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u/Business-Low-6436 — 7 days ago

which style looks the best (advice?)

ive changed my hair style for quite a while over the years, ive had some really unsuccessful encounters w bleach that fried my hair, these are the ones ive liked the most. i was the happiest w the red hair and black raccoon stripes cus i felt that it rlly represented me. i had to dye it to a darker red due to hair damage and my roots growing back in. i always wonder if i should go back to my previous style over the years. can other girls give their opinion on what looks the best?

(the photos go from 2025 to 2026 first photo is at the start of my hair journey)

u/Business-Low-6436 — 29 days ago

Video on rednote - the normalization of animal abuse in China, I'm tired, disgusted, and sick of it,

I just saw a video on rednote of a person washing a cat, when I check onto the page hes a person who washes a lot of cats. There is no serious blood or visible injury on the cat, yet I understand how it would be triggering to some audiences to watch a kitten being manhandled, limbs twisted, spat on, bullied and crying out in fear.

I'm posting this on here because I don't know where else to post this or who to share this with, I just want to feel like I'm not going insane. Would you guys say this is too much? I would say so, as someone who speaks Chinese if you go to the comments every single comment that questions the man handling of this kitten has a reply underneath that ratioes the original comment by a copy paste Chinese meme comment that says

"Yeah yeah, cats are super precious. Just touch them and they instantly melt, explode, despair, scream, feel pain... twist in agony, scream in despair... twist, crawl darkly, writhe, roll around, turn into pus, lose control of their bowels, vomit, convulse, cough up blood, throw up fur, and die. Yeah yeah, cats are so precious. Touch them and they just melt on the spot, explode, despair, scream, suffer... twist in a breakdown, scream in despair... twist, crawl darkly, writhe, roll around, turn into pus, pee themselves, vomit, convulse, cough up blood, throw up fur, and die."

They continuously respond to every single comment raising concern for the kitten with this over exaggerated meme like template because they believe that this behaviour is completely normal, I feel so disgusted and enraged. When I made a comment in defense of the kitten, saying that the cat will learn nothing from being manhandled and spat on I got a response that said "whos the professional here, him or you?" with the same copy paste meme paragraph. I don't know what else to say other than I'm so fucking tired and disgusted.

Its always China, speaking from someone who grew up there and has been around them all my life, you won't ever see another countries people that so loyally defends hurting animals like this, other replies to valid comments raising concerns replied in pictures where people are bowing to dogs and cats as a joke. What kind of fucking logic is that? as if the simple wish of wanting to care for an animal gently equates to worshipping one.

You can't hear the noise in the video, however its just the cat screaming and crying. They view this as funny entertainment.

Sorry for this unnecessarily long rant which just dropped my faith even more, I'm sorry.

u/Business-Low-6436 — 3 months ago

saying that the female western beauty standard is rooted in pedophilia is a baseless and strange belief

I'm ready to get downvoted for this, but speaking as a non American woman, I've noticed how this is a common belief nowadays, and I'm confused as to why. The female beauty standard for American women is practically non existent in my eyes.

All different kinds of women can be seen as attractive and you guys don't have to fit a specific facial phenotype or mould to be seen as beautiful unlike the beauty standards in East Asia where I'm from. Isn't the beauty standard for women in America to have a huge ass and to look as mature as possible? If the beauty standard was truly pedophilic you wouldn't have such a huge problem with children in America trying to grow up as soon as possible, purposely making themselves look older by applying unflattering makeup and becoming a sephora kid.

The whole thing linking a lack of body hair to pedophilia is an argument point, but wasn't that just created as a marketing tactic for women because brands realized they needed to sell razors not just to men shaving their beard but women in the 1910s? So they linked hairlessness to hygiene and put together the same way they portrayed men shaving their beards.

I don't have extremely strong opinions about this specific topic, but this is my unpopular opinion as a woman from another country

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u/Business-Low-6436 — 3 months ago