u/CartographerParty880

ill talk about my problems - not looking for solutions

I work in an MNC. I’ve always underperformed starting from college. I was in a tier 1 college and barely graduated with a 7 cg.

I was recruited in my current company in a rotation training program then put in a permanent role this February. It started out fine, after two months, they put me on a “development plan” which was like to get me settled in different roles. It had timelines deliverables two mentors.

I seriously under performed, I fell behind with the work starting month 2 of the plan and it just started piling up. I also went into depression and a medical emergency came up during this time at home, not using this as excuse but to provide context. During that time and started neglecting all aspects of my life. But I do think I don’t do the things I know I need to do. I haven’t followed up on any of my career related plans since I started college unless things got extremely bad and it became about survival. I have poor habits overall in my life. I want to do better but never have consistently. Either I’m avoiding the things I need to do using distraction and when I do face them and think about them I get scared and I instantly go to sleep.

I have a meeting with my manager and the two mentors next week. I’m scared I’ll get fired. What can I do to turn things around? I’m 25 years old

TLDR - chronic underperformed scared will be fired

I work in an MNC. I’ve always underperformed starting from college. I was in a tier 1 college and barely graduated with a 7 cg.

I was recruited in my current company in a rotation training program then put in a permanent role this February. It started out fine, after two months, they put me on a “development plan” which was like to get me settled in different roles. It had timelines deliverables two mentors.

I seriously under performed, I fell behind with the work starting month 2 of the plan and it just started piling up. I also went into depression and a medical emergency came up during this time at home, not using this as excuse but to provide context. During that time and started neglecting all aspects of my life. But I do think I don’t do the things I know I need to do. I haven’t followed up on any of my career related plans since I started college unless things got extremely bad and it became about survival. I have poor habits overall in my life. I want to do better but never have consistently. Either I’m avoiding the things I need to do using distraction and when I do face them and think about them I get scared and I instantly go to sleep.

I have a meeting with my manager and the two mentors next week. I’m scared I’ll get fired. What can I do to turn things around? I’m 25 years old

TLDR - chronic underperformed scared will be fired.

25 F here. I install the app once or twice a year. Try for a week. Match with a few people. Connect more with 3-4 people. Maybe go out with a couple. But the way people are unintentional really disappoints me. I’m good with casual dating - but casual describes the level of commitment. It doesn’t have to describe the level of effort. I don’t think you can look at a person on your phone or ask them a few questions and decide if you want that person in your life as a partner. All you can do is - talk to people like people. If you like them - hang out. See what happens. Meanwhile just be intentional, respectful. That’s all. I swear to god I wish dating was taught in our schools.

I matched with a guy on bumble - had a great conversation with him. But he never got back to me the next day. At this point, I was already pretty much done with the app, so I deleted the app. Couple of days later- I found his Instagram quite easily. I just looked at it and moved on. But every so often I found myself gawking at his Instagram profile - it’s public. A couple of weeks ago, I followed him. He didn’t follow me back.

But guys- I find him so kissable. I just wanna kiss him so bad. Should I just message him? He’s not even like crazy conventionally attractive but I find so cute.

Edit- I am not going to bother him. Will unfollow him. I think I just went crazy there for a while. I would hate it if someone behaved this way with me. Thanks, guys. You brought me back to my senses

Want to buy a few things for my new place. Any suggestions are appreciated-

- a chest of drawers
- a bookshelf
- a bench/ puffy stool/ storage ottoman
- few lamps
- tv unit
- small side table

Does anyone know dance workshops or classes which teach choreography for English pop songs like Uptown Funk, Apple Bottom jeans, classic pitbull pop songs etc

Does anyone know basics of carpentry? I need help building a walk in closet

Have you guys seen the pitchnyc videos on Instagram? If you haven’t check them out! They’re a lot of fun - the idea is a friend presents a deck on why you should my friend. Would you be interested in something like that? Also, would it work here?