u/Celerey-02

Basically nenu ma parents tho and siblings tho everything share chestha, like even small details about my day or life..

Recently I started dating, idhi na first relationship, but I’m feeling guilty because intlo lie chesi velthunna hangouts ki and they have no idea. Emaina adigithe kuda face paina im lying to them, feeling guilty about this but there’s no other option..

Ivanni intlo chepthe definitely they won’t let me out, and they think I’m some innocent ani kani I do all kind of vile stuff. It feels like I’m hiding one identity from them ani.

But I’m an adult and I want to do things I like but still edho guilty feeling that I’m disappointing them ani

Nenu switch aina kabatti chepthunna. Don’t use refined sunflower oils for daily cooking, andharu freedom ani fortune ani etc etc oil use chestharu daily cooking or deep frying ki kani it is slowly killing you.

Refined oils eh manaki health damage chala chesthayi malli adhi daily use chesi plus deep fry chesi thinatam is not good. Price point wise, refined oil 5L costs around 900rs whereas cold pressed oils cost around 1200-1300, so barely 300 rs difference.

Aa 300 rs kosam health ni karchu pettakandi, switch to cold pressed groundnut oils, adhi kuda use only limited amounts, don’t overuse oils. Inka ghee also can be used. Idhi just awareness kosam im posting because I’ve noticed everyone around me use these refined oils, advertisements kuda chala chestharu kani it’s not at all healthy. Oka 300 rs extra aina sare don’t compromise your families health.

So naku oka best friend undu. Lately we’ve been getting overly attached to each other. Ante we’ve been meeting constantly inka physical closeness chala ekuva aindhi between us. Like we hold hands, inka sit close and ala we’ve been close with each other since last few days..

We both mutually have feelings for each other anukovachu, from his actions I’m sure he does and I know I do too. But before everything he’s my best friend. Aythe both of our love language is physical touch so anduke it’s kind of getting serious these days, like gestures increase aithunayi.

But one thing enti ante I don’t see any future together for us, like I’m 100% sure that this will not work out, he knows it too. Reasons are many but we both know this is not permanent nor will work out for both of us. So it’s better to not get serious, or it’ll only hurt us both more.

So I need tips on how to just divert all these external things we’ve been doing and go back to being best friends again, I don’t want to lose my best friend over temporary feelings. Only since few weeks we’ve been feeling a little more but I think we’re still at a stage where we can fix things and go back to what we were before but how ? Please give tips.

I know many will say leave him or block him but I’m convinced that this is temporary, this can be fixed in some way..

I’m currently 2026 batche and my final sem results are not declared yet, so in the tcs bgc form it’s asking for CGPA but my CGPA can change after my final sem results. It says no changes can be made once the form is submitted so should I wait like 1 month more for my final sem results to be declared and then submit the bgc form and then proceed with bgv documents upload?

Or should I just fill the form with current CGPA and upload whatever docs I have now ? It’s been 2-3 weeks since I got the form on the portal, still I haven’t filled it, it’ll take like 1 month more for my final sem results to be declared.

Please help me with this..

Guys it’s difficult for me to get cute tee shirts or tank tops to wear at night because most of them especially if they are pastel colours, they are see through or they show my nips.

At home I don’t feel comfortable not wearing anything inside my nightwear because I live with my family (dad, brother, mom) and otherwise I live in hostel.. but during summers or even during sleeping bras feel quite uncomfortable for me..

So please suggest me what to wear under nightwear or what kind of nightwear tops do you guys wear? Even if it’s oversized, my nips pop out most of the times…

I’m finding it hard to discover myself. Ante naku na gurinchi thelidhu, naku em ishtam, nenu ela enjoy chesthanu, em activities Nannu excite chesthayi, ivanni slowly I forget over the years..

Last few years nunchi all I was doing was people pleasing. Nenu chala pedha people pleaser ni, like my whole focus was on my friends and what they like, how can I make them happy ani. And overtime adhi ela aindhi ante, it became like my happiness was dependent on them. Vallatho spend chesthe nenu happy, lepothe I’m sad. Any plans with them I feel happy, but if I do something alone I feel lonely.

Inka like motham vere people paina depend aindhi, na happiness kuda nenu valla response inka vallatho spend chesina time tho measure chesthunna.

Then it hit me, they all are happy with or without me ani, nene oka pedha red flower la valla chuttu thiruguthunna. Andharu happy gane unaru last ki I lost myself. Few years ago, I knew what I was, I was happy with myself. Especially lockdown lo I had no one to talk to, still I never felt lonely nor I cared about anyone and I was genuinely very happy with myself.

How do I rediscover myself and start enjoying my own company especially being a people pleaser.. I know friends and connections are important ani but I don’t want to make them the centre of my existence, they should be an add on to my already happy life. But idhi antha ela cheyali, I feel empty if I don’t message my friends daily, kani i want to break that loop, how to find myself and na likes and dislikes ela thelusukovali ?

Na close friend undhi, we are like best buddies. Aythe thana birthday ki nenu oka personal letter raasa, it was very difficult for me to write about her in just one page, chala think chesi, evo few memories and few thoughts raasa aa letter lo, I also cried reading it myself after I finished writing.

Aithe thana boyfriend adigadu anta em rasindhi letter lo ani, so she took a picture and sent it to him. Idk but I feel hurt because adhi nenu chala personal ga raasa, definitely I didn’t want her bf to read it. She told me he was laughing while reading it, I felt so bad.

Nenu ela ante, even if I love my friends I never ever express it much, they don’t too, but we know deep down. First time ila letter rayatam to express my actual thoughts.. so idk if it’s normal but I felt like our personal thing was shared with someone ani. And I feel hurt because atleast nannu adigi share chesina it would’ve been better.

Am I overthinking? How do I move forward with her, because I’m hurt ?

I want to experience the upcoming Spider-Man movie (Spider-Man brand new day) in the theatres but I haven’t watched any Spider-Man movies before or haven’t watched any marvel movies too..

Please let me know what movies I need to watch in order so I can enjoy the upcoming movie. (Only suggest required movies as I don’t have much time to watch the whole marvel universe 🥲)

Nenu driving nerchukoni oka 3 years aitundhi.. aythe 2 years ago license kuda ochindhi, inka many times car nadipina, but the problem is everytime ma dad or someone who knows driving unde natho.

So ekadiki vellina solo ga driving epudu cheyaledhu in these 3 years. Recent ga I drove 3 hours in highway and ring road and in traffic for nearly 1 hr. But with dad sitting next to me..

Aythe repu last day of college undhi, I just want to go to college myself, alone. Should I do it? Naku confidence undhi kani konchem scared and tension ga undhi because epudu solo ga drive cheyaledhu and college is like 40 minutes from my home.

I know nenu slow ga veltha ani but still konchem bhayam undhi because what if something goes wrong ani.. anduke I thought I’ll practise for sometime early morning with someone and then go myself ?

But do you think it’s a good idea or should I just go like usual ? Emo oka side emo epudu vellaledhu ani bhayam inko side emo last day kadha I want to experience being independent once ani undhi.