u/Chlomaki2341

Does anyone really hate their abusers? It's been happening to me lately; I resent them and they disgust me. I hate how they always defend abusers, saying, "Well, you were just a kid, didn't you know?" as if they didn't literally sexually abuse someone and ruin their life. It's not a "simple mistake." I understand that a child can't be blamed the same way as an adult, but that doesn't change the fact that they did it. It's disgusting, and it fills me with such revulsion when someone says it.

I would like to know if it is possible and if it is a good method

How do I stop being shy? I'm dying of fear because of a presentation on Monday, I'm so nervous I can't even memorize it. How can I memorize it and control my nerves? People make it look so easy, it's a lot of trouble for me. My previous presentations have gone horribly, getting all tongue-tied.

I want to know how to cancel it urgently, it's Monday and I would like to know what methods would work well for me.

I need to cancel an exhibition and it's urgent, it's on Monday, what methods could I use to get it canceled?

On Monday I have an exhibition but it's impossible for me to memorize, I forget quickly, I seriously want to cry, I'm afraid to go The other exhibitions I've done have always turned out horribly, I always end up getting stuck and getting nervous and blanking out. This got worse since I was abused when I was 10 years old. My memory doesn't work anymore, and if I don't pass that exam, I will be humiliated and fail the course.

El lunes tengo exposición nos dieron una semana pero siempre me pongo nerviosa y encima tiene que ser de 5 minutos que puedo hacer para memorizar todo a tiempo y no trabarme? Todas las que hice me recontra trabe

On Monday I have an exhibition and I really don't want to go, I just want it to be canceled, how could I manifest that?

Is it normal to have nightmares dreaming about school? I was abused at school and lately I've been having nightmares about it whenever I go to a school in my dreams something bad happens