u/Classic-Citron-1338

so my boyfriend and i been together 5 months. we don’t live together yet. usually we hang out at my place and never really at his. last weekend we went there to pick some of his stuff up to stay at my place.

i was staring at his carpet and saw something with color under the couch. it was a pink hair scrunchie.
i don’t wear those and never left it there.

i asked him what’s this? and he just looked at me with complete shock and basically didn’t say anything much for 10 minutes i told him to speak up but he didn’t.

then he told me that it just was still in his work bag that fell out from the time he was on vacation with his friend before me and a girl liked him there and gave it to him as a memory of her. he said he never liked her back and never even kissed her or anything.

he had his work bag laying open on the floor because he just came back from getting send out for the army a few weeks.

i them asked him why he had to wait so long to tell me why the shocked face he said he thought i would be angry. he told
me is was nothing and that i shouldn’t worry.

but finding this and other suspicious stuff like phone always on do not disturb
makes it seems like he’s lying to me and and im thinking about breaking up

27F. been struggling to keep a job longer than a few months before i have to call in sick… and this pattern has followed me my entire life making me lose jobs..

I love my job I have rn but i had to call in sick 3 times in the span of 3 months and i feel horrible about it.

i really do try my best, i have medication, i work out, i have my own appartement, but everytime my symptoms get really bad on top of having bpd as well and i have to call in sick for work because i cant handle everything anymore.

i don’t want to be all negative because i do have things that go well for me and im doing a lot better than i used to but i just wish i could keep a job that i really love
does anyone else struggle with this or have any advice 🥹

27F. been struggling to keep a job longer than a few months before i have to call in sick… I love my job I have rn but i had to call in sick 3 times in the span of 3 months and i feel horrible about it.

i really do try my best, i have medication, i work out, i have my own appartement, but everytime my symptoms get really bad on top of having ptsd and i have to call in sick for work because i cant handle everything anymore.

i don’t want to be all negative because i do have things that go well for me and im doing a lot better than i used to but i just wish i could keep a job that i really love

anyone else who struggle with this or have any advice 🥹

and live a more peaceful life with a secure partner instead of suffering everyday from damn anxiety and overthinking
i’m done

just seeing my patterns… i am deeply flawed but hope i’ll get better one day

can’t seem to find people that genuinely want to know me, what i’m about what i believe in, what i stand for. i keep meeting men who are so lustful over me i just feel unloveable.

have been single 2 years. thought well. let’s try a dating app!🙂

went on a dating app, kinda fell in love with someone who wanted something serious (great!) 🙂, we went dates 2/3 times a week. great connection from both sides, talking everyday, great dates i thought oh! this could really be it! 🥰

then when things got more serious he told me he was not sure he’s ready for a serious relationship 🫠 but still wanted to get to know me and stay in contact. (what for?? 😩).

i told him i was ready for something serious. he told me if i changed my mind i could contact him. 🙃

friend saw him on tinder few days later looking for something “casual”. well atleast that’s honest.

great experience!! 😆

both late 20’s. i am ready and really want a serious relationship eventually. he isn’t sure he’s ready. is it worth staying with my feeling growing over time for someone who is not sure they are ready?

being in my late 20’s i do feel like someone who is on the same page as me is what i want even though i do have feelings… waste of time and energy?

both late 20’s. i really want something serious eventually he isn’t sure…