A guide for the Bois
Saw some posts guiding girls but none on boys , so this one is for you kings.
Academics:
How your grades are evaluated is totally different from what you have experienced all your life , so it will take some time to get used to it . But never ever ignore mids and internals ( internals include quizzes and assignment) try to excel in them and then probably you won't have to worry about failing a subject .
What if you do fail a subject? Well it will not be the end of the world you can still try to pass that subject in summer or side by side your regular semester it will cost you though. So try not to fail
Do not rely on teachers to learn things , moat of the time professors are just reading from the slides, but that doesn't mean there aren't good profs but they are rare to come across.
Social life
Please don't try to be over friendly in first few semester is dar sa ka shaid akela rah jao , people change a lot in first 2 semester asliyat baad ma hi ati but that doesn't mean ka socialize hi na kro bilkul .
And please please choose your company wisely , jaisi ap ki company waisa ap try to stay away from peeps like " ham to aisa hi han " , these type of people will never grow themselves and will never let you grow.
This is one of the most valuable tip:
Most of the boys would be coming from all boys colleges to wo lrkion ko dekh ka paghal hojayain ga ap na aisa nai banana don't ve a freak behind them , and tbh i would advise you to not get involved romantically with a girl at least not in the initial semester, baki interact kro opposite gender ka sath likin limit or tameez ma rah ka
Career
Idk bout other fields likin agar ap computing field ma ho to i beg you please self learn discover your interest and start learning by yourself at least give 60 to 90 minutes daily no matter what to self learning and please while in the learning phase do no rely on Ai , it might sound foolish but you will thank me later. Attend as many hackathons as you can even if you don't know jack shit , and be at least that much ready ka pehla ho summer ma internship ka lia apply kro even if you think you are not qualified but andha dhund krna , one of the things i regret is not starting early don't make the same mistake as me .
AND PLEASE PLEASE UNIVERSITY SA AUR KUCH NA SEEKHO TO CONVERSATIONAL SKILL SEEKH LENA , AND HOW TO PRESENT YOURSELF
Lmbi horahi ha warna batana ko to bohat kuch ha but jo bataya ha ya yaar rkh lo bara ha baki bnda experience sa hi seekhta