I’m of the opinion 90% of women will cheat with their ideal celebrity crush if given the opportunity. Would you cheat with your celebrity crush? Do you have one?
I’m going to stop being so nice to people who don’t deserve it.
What I obsess over shifts from time to time, but particularly today I’m obsessed over my genitalia not being what I want it to be. I’m a guy, so do with that as you will, but it may not be exactly what you think.
I can hear women laughing at me when I walk by. Which is fine, it’s a free country. But guess what? For every laugh I hear, that’s one less dollar that I’d otherwise give to a homeless woman. Guess it’ll go to a man instead.
I will never show any love to anyone I date, as I never have so far to the 4 people I’ve been with. I love my friends and my family and that’s all. I will never help anyone outside of that in need.
My therapist says it’s a coping mechanism but why is that a bad thing? Fine, I’m coping with my failures and insecurities about my body. I don’t mind that I’m coping if that is what I’m doing.
I’m going to stop being so nice to people who don’t deserve it. I’ve been told I have BDD, idk if it even matters if it’s true or not though.
What I obsess over regarding my body shifts from time to time, but particularly today I’m obsessed over my genitalia not being what I want it to be. I’m a guy, so do with that as you will, but it may not be exactly what you think.
I can hear women laughing at me when I walk by. Which is fine, it’s a free country. But guess what? For every laugh I hear, that’s one less dollar that I’d otherwise give to a homeless woman. Guess it’ll go to a man instead.
I will never show any love to anyone I date, as I never have so far to the 4 people I’ve been with. I love my friends and my family and that’s all. I will never help anyone outside of that in need.
My therapist says it’s a coping mechanism but why is that a bad thing? Fine, I’m coping with my failures and insecurities about my body. I don’t mind that I’m coping if that is what I’m doing.
My now ex broke up with me a little while ago, like 4 months ago to be exact when I made a post about it. She was way out of my league and broke up with me because of it, which hurt my pride but I respect her decision. I don’t respect what her dad said to me, however.
Shortly after the breakup he and I exchanged words over the phone and text message. He said to me that it’s true that I’m indeed out of his daughter’s league, and that has been sticking with me since. I saw him the other day and my insecurities about it came back.
What should I do? I’ve told my therapist before about this very incident, and I thought I had my emotions settled but I don’t.
I’m writing a movie that is based in the USA and I want to know what happens if a person hired someone to end their life to get around suicide, would it get the person they hired to do it in trouble? I want to know how things would proceed if anyone found out. If it varies across the states, let me know, so the state I’m basing this movie in has a realistic police response. Appreciate it.
People are so fucking dumb when it comes to this topic. I’ve seen it on this suicide subs too, “oh tell a professional or your friends or family.” If I told my friends or family they’d worry to death pun intended about me. It would change our relationship forever.
And if I told a professional, like my therapist I’d be 51/50’d. Not only is that embarrassing but it’s a career ender for any jobs that require a serious backcheck. I’ve heard stories of people being denied those jobs because they were 51/50’d.
So we have to come online to vent. Here. I don’t even want to get into my bodily insecurities. It’s just it feels like my body is on fire and I hate it so much.
Well, I feel a little better after venting it to you strangers. I hope you all have a great day, and if you aren’t I hope it gets better.
I have some more questions. When looking for a boyfriend, what is your response to the following questions?
- What height range should he be?
- What weight range should he be?
- Do you prefer sturdy jawlines, rounded ones, or what in particular?
- What lip size is best?
- What income range must he be in?
- [If you want to answer, how should his genitalia measure up? This is optional as it’s a personal question, please don’t answer if you are not comfortable]
- Personality wise, do you want someone serious, funny, or in the middle? Outgoing, introverted, or in the middle?
- Would you date him if you thought could be improved with plastic surgery?
Thanks, it’s a lot of questions.
When looking for a boyfriend, what is your response to the following questions?
- What height range should he be?
- What weight range should he be?
- Do you prefer sturdy jawlines, rounded ones, or what in particular?
- What lip size is best?
- What income range must he be in?
- [If you want to answer, how should his genitalia measure up? This is optional as it’s a personal question, please don’t answer if you are not comfortable]
- Personality wise, do you want someone serious, funny, or in the middle? Outgoing, introverted, or in the middle?
- Would you date him if you thought could be improved with plastic surgery?
Thanks, it’s a lot of questions.
If you could answer using a ranking scale of 1-10 that would be great. For example if a 4/10 approached you would you be offended?
I only approach ugly women that are in my league due to my unfortunate looks, and when I flirt so far they’ve never been offended. But I’ve never approached a good looking woman. I have dated an 8/10 but that wasn’t because I asked and I’m pretty sure she had mental health issues anyhow, having now broke up with her.
On a scale of 1-10 what is the lowest attractive level a guy can be when asking you out before you are offended?
If you could answer using a ranking scale of 1-10 that would be great. For example if a 4/10 approached you would you be offended?
I only approach ugly women due to my unfortunate circumstances, and when I flirt so far they’ve never been offended. But I’ve never approached a good looking woman. I have dated an 8/10 but that wasn’t because I asked and I’m pretty sure she had mental health issues anyhow, having now broke up with her.
On a scale of 1-10 what is the lowest attractive level a guy can be when asking you out before you are offended?
I have been called an incel but I don’t think I am an incel. I’ve looked into what incelism is, and I don’t think women owe me or anyone sex or relationships. More importantly I’ve had relationships so I don’t think I am.
I don’t trust women, I think they are making fun of me behind my back. I try to avoid women as much as I can in real life, I sometimes wish I was gay but I am not so I have to entertain them for my own sexual wants.
I only care about things considered “shallow” when it comes to romantic relationships. I’m a guy, so it’s how good looking and well endowed I am, how much money I have, and stuff like that. I know women claim to care more about that but I really don’t believe them. I don’t trust women or think they are capable of romantic feelings beyond simulating them. Sort of like how ChatGPT simulates human conversation skills.
I have friends who fulfill my emotional needs. For relationships I don’t want a partner who will be too emotional with me. I’ve never felt emotionally attached to a woman I’ve been with. I do feel emotional with my male friends, but not in a gay way. If I was gay I’d probably have things easier so sometimes I wish I was gay.
I’m not very political but I guess I’m not a feminist. I think women should get equal pay for work and I’m not anti women working and doing whatever they want to do. I do think women are usually misandrist under the guise of feminism and I don’t respect that but they can do whatever they want. As long as they don’t expect me to come to their help and vice versa everyone is a winner.
Is there any advice or anything you suggest for me in my future relationships? Is there a way I can be upfront with women about this? I don’t want to lead them on as that ends up coming back to cause me personal drama.
I have been called an incel but I don’t think I am an incel. I’ve looked into what incelism is, and I don’t think women owe me or anyone sex or relationships. More importantly I’ve had relationships so I don’t think I am.
I don’t trust women, I think they are making fun of me behind my back. I try to avoid women as much as I can in real life, I sometimes wish I was gay but I am not so I have to entertain them for my own sexual wants.
I only care about things considered “shallow” when it comes to romantic relationships. I’m a guy, so it’s how good looking and well endowed I am, how much money I have, and stuff like that. I know women claim to care more about that but I really don’t believe them. I don’t trust women or think they are capable of romantic feelings beyond simulating them. Sort of like how ChatGPT simulates human conversation skills.
I have friends who fulfill my emotional needs. For relationships I don’t want a partner who will be too emotional with me. I’ve never felt emotionally attached to a woman I’ve been with. I do feel emotional with my male friends, but not in a gay way. If I was gay I’d probably have things easier so sometimes I wish I was gay.
I’m not very political but I guess I’m not a feminist. I think women should get equal pay for work and I’m not anti women working and doing whatever they want to do. I do think women are usually misandrist under the guise of feminism and I don’t respect that but they can do whatever they want. As long as they don’t expect me to come to their help and vice versa everyone is a winner.
Is there any advice or anything you suggest for me in my future relationships? Is there a way I can be upfront with women about this? I don’t want to lead them on as that ends up coming back to cause me personal drama.
A few months ago I got out of a relationship with someone out of my league. I want to know how should men date women who are not in their league?
I’m pretty sure she broke up with me because of my physical inequities but I still was able to extract as much fun as possible within the short time we dated.
Do you have any advice?