26 M liked a girl a lot then she broke my heart

So there was a girl in my college. Let's call her Sush....(ofcourse I won't reveal her real name here). Sush was incredibly nice and sweet girl. Always helpful and nice to everyone. And I liked her a lot for that. Whenever I needed some help regarding anything she helped me everytime. And that's the reason I never confessed to her probably because my head takes priority over my heart. But I always thought I one day I will confess to her. We used to talk sometimes about our common interests. And a lot of it actually matched her. It felt like she was the one for me.

We both liked metal and rock. Vibed over linkin Park and SlipKnot. It was nice. But I never had that courage to confess because of the fear of ruining the friendship. I was also selfish because she used to help me for my studies and assignments and everything and that played a role in not confessing to her. What if the friendship gets ruined she would block me and never talk to me and I won't get any help which I am getting now. Yes I was selfish back then regarding my studies.

So I just never confessed. But then comes the twist. I thought of confessing her during the final exams. College would end anyway. Even if she says no it would be alright for me because we would part anyways. And then when I was just going confess I saw her wearing sindoor and she was with a man. She got married just before the exams. It was a big shock for me and I was sad about it for some time. Really sad.

It took me some time to move on. But I moved on fairly quickly(maybe because of my ADHD). Later I came to know she was in a long term relationship for 6 years before marriage. I am happy for her. She is happily married. And I am glad that I didn't confess. But some of my friends who knew about this probably informed her as her whatsapp statuses are no longer visible to me.

But I am happy where she is and I wish her well in her life as a wellwisher.

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u/CuriousSupport_ — 1 day ago

26 M liked a girl a lot then she broke my heart

So there was a girl in my college. Let's call her Sush....(ofcourse I won't reveal her real name here). Sush was incredibly nice and sweet girl. Always helpful and nice to everyone. And I liked her a lot for that. Whenever I needed some help regarding anything she helped me everytime. And that's the reason I never confessed to her probably because my head takes priority over my heart. But I always thought I one day I will confess to her. We used to talk sometimes about our common interests. And a lot of it actually matched her. It felt like she was the one for me.

We both liked metal and rock. Vibed over linkin Park and SlipKnot. It was nice. But I never had that courage to confess because of the fear of ruining the friendship. I was also selfish because she used to help me for my studies and assignments and everything and that played a role in not confessing to her. What if the friendship gets ruined she would block me and never talk to me and I won't get any help which I am getting now. Yes I was selfish back then regarding my studies.

So I just never confessed. But then comes the twist. I thought of confessing her during the final exams. College would end anyway. Even if she says no it would be alright for me because we would part anyways. And then when I was just going confess I saw her wearing sindoor and she was with a man. She got married just before the exams. It was a big shock for me and I was sad about it for some time. Really sad.

It took me some time to move on. But I moved on fairly quickly(maybe because of my ADHD). Later I came to know she was in a long term relationship for 6 years before marriage. I am happy for her. She is happily married. And I am glad that I didn't confess. But some of my friends who knew about this probably informed her as her whatsapp statuses are no longer visible to me.

But I am happy where she is and I wish her well in her life as a wellwisher.

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u/CuriousSupport_ — 2 days ago

26 M liked a girl then she broke my heart

So there was a girl in my college. Let's call her Sush....(ofcourse I won't reveal her real name here). Sush was incredibly nice and sweet girl. Always helpful and nice to everyone. And I liked her a lot for that. Whenever I needed some help regarding anything she helped me everytime. And that's the reason I never confessed to her probably because my head takes priority over my heart. But I always thought I one day I will confess to her. We used to talk sometimes about our common interests. And a lot of it actually matched her. It felt like she was the one for me.

We both liked metal and rock. Vibed over linkin Park and SlipKnot. It was nice. But I never had that courage to confess because of the fear of ruining the friendship. I was also selfish because she used to help me for my studies and assignments and everything and that played a role in not confessing to her. What if the friendship gets ruined she would block me and never talk to me and I won't get any help which I am getting now. Yes I was selfish back then regarding my studies.

So I just never confessed. But then comes the twist. I thought of confessing her during the final exams. College would end anyway. Even if she says no it would be alright for me because we would part anyways. And then when I was just going confess I saw her wearing sindoor and she was with a man. She got married just before the exams. It was a big shock for me and I was sad about it for some time. Really sad.

It took me some time to move on. But I moved on fairly quickly(maybe because of my ADHD). Later I came to know she was in a long term relationship for 6 years before marriage. I am happy for her. She is happily married. And I am glad that I didn't confess. But some of my friends who knew about this probably informed her as her whatsapp statuses are no longer visible to me.

But I am happy where she is and I wish her well in her life as a wellwisher.

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u/CuriousSupport_ — 3 days ago

I got diagnosed with ADHD(inattentive).Preparing for CAT and other MBA exams.How to cope with it to study?

I have struggled with studies since childhood especially on focusing. Please suggest strategies for that

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u/CuriousSupport_ — 14 days ago

Anybody found RAADS-R confusing and exhausting?

I just couldn't do it. My Clinical psychologist gave me to fill up that. And it was just too much for me.

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u/CuriousSupport_ — 24 days ago

Anybody found RAADS-R test confusing and exhausting?

I just couldn't fillup. It's just too much for me. My Clinical psychologist gave me to fill up that and it was very exhausting.

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u/CuriousSupport_ — 24 days ago
▲ 9 r/AutisticIndians+1 crossposts

Will be going for Assessments for AuDHD but I am scared.

I am scared what if the reports come out normal then money may well be wasted. I am preparing for competitive exams so it makes me feel more like that🥺

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u/CuriousSupport_ — 29 days ago

Is 6.5k for Adhd and Autism for diagnosis ok?

I need a little bit of idea. Is it the right charge? Looking for RCI registered Clinical psychologist.

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u/CuriousSupport_ — 30 days ago

This sub is cooked or what? Whenever I ask doubt I hardly get any response.

I need some guidance whether to quit Cat prep or not. I have 5 in 12th and no work ex. 10 th 83.6 and College 79.8. 3.5 years gap. But I genuinely never get any response here. Is XLRI SIBM Pune scmhrd an option for me or I should I quit mba prep. Please help.

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u/CuriousSupport_ — 1 month ago

Hi. Need help regarding Diagnosis.

26M. Currently preparing for Mba exams. I feel I have Autism and Adhd. But there's no official diagnosis. I am from West Bengal. How can I get checked to have an answer whether I have it or not.

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u/CuriousSupport_ — 1 month ago

Hi. Need help regarding Diagnosis.

26M. Currently preparing for Mba exams. I feel I have Autism and Adhd. But there's no official diagnosis. I am from West Bengal. How can I get checked to have an ans whether I have it or not.

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u/CuriousSupport_ — 1 month ago

Hello I need Help.It's unrelated to this sub but I need some advice.

# Anyone converted college like XLRI or other T1 college with a 5 in 12th. PLEASE RESPOND.I am in serious doubt whether to go for xat or cat or continue with my govt job prep. My 12th is 57.5% if all subjects included otherwise 60%. Rest in 10th I have 83.6% and College 79.8%. GEM No Workex around 3.5 years gap. Should I even prepare for CAT and XAT. Please Help.🥺I posted it on CAT sub but no responded. Please guide me on this.

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u/CuriousSupport_ — 1 month ago

Hello I need Help.I need some advice.

# Anyone converted college like XLRI or other T1 college with a 5 in 12th. PLEASE RESPOND.I am in serious doubt whether to go for xat or cat or continue with my govt job prep. My 12th is 57.5% if all subjects included otherwise 60%. Rest in 10th I have 83.6% and College 79.8%. GEM No Workex around 3.5 years gap. Should I even prepare for CAT and XAT. Please Help.🥺I posted it on CAT sub but no responded. Please guide me on this.

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u/CuriousSupport_ — 1 month ago

Anyone converted college like XLRI or other T1 college with a 5 in 12th. PLEASE RESPOND.

I am in serious doubt whether to go for xat or cat or continue with my govt job prep. My 12th is 57.5% if all subjects included otherwise 60%. Rest in 10th I have 83.6% and College 79.8%. GEM No Workex around 3.5 years gap. Should I even prepare for CAT and XAT. Please Help.🥺

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u/CuriousSupport_ — 1 month ago
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XLRI Grads please do guide me.

Does XLRI include all subject marks in 12th. Because in that case I have 57.5% otherwise 60%. Rest in 10th I have 83.6% and College 79.8%. GEM No Workex. 3.5 years gap. Is it worthwhile to write Xat for XLRI? Should I leave Mba prep altogether? In a serious doubt. Please do guide me.

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u/CuriousSupport_ — 1 month ago

Colleges include all subject marks for interview shortlisting ?

I am in doubt whether it is worthwhile to continue my cat prep or not. If all subjects are considered in 12th then it will be 57.5%. otherwise it's 60%. Rest in 10th I have 83.6 in 10th and College 79.8%. coupled with that around 3.5 years of gap. Should I continue govt job prep? It's a serious doubt.

u/CuriousSupport_ — 1 month ago
▲ 4 r/CAT2026Help+3 crossposts

Is it worth it to give Xat for XLRI after having 3.5/4 Years of gap? Anybody converted XLRI in 2026 with Multiple gap years?

8/6/7 GEM No Workex.

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u/CuriousSupport_ — 1 month ago