u/Desirai

I have fallen into a pretty bad depression episode this week

I'm having like those "passive ideations" where I don't care what happens

But then get scared of those thoughts

Crying a lot. Emotions significantly amplified.

Probably not just the depression, perimenopause and hormones

No I'm not pregnant my husband had the snip

Every tiny thing is just sending me into crying fits

I feel very lonely because the only advice is toxic positivity. Fuck off with that BS. And YES I took my medicine why do all of you keep asking that aARREGHHH

I wish it would stop. Therapist out of town. what's he gonna do anyway? "If you feel like hurting yourself go to the ER" and they will give me some Ativan and monitor me for 4 to 6 hours and then either decide to keep me for a day or send me home and tell me to go to regular psychiatrist.

Don't get me wrong, I am having a very quiet thought of maybe I really should go and then "wow you're over reacting"

Thanks mental healthcare system

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u/Desirai — 2 days ago

Neither USB port nor lighter will charge phones. 2018

Hi, a month ago or so I noticed USB no longer charging anything. It would connect and either say slow charging check cable or it would say USB connected for charging only. Like when it says when I plug my phone to my computer to get my pictures off. Tried 4 different cables from the house, none worked in car but all worked in the house

So I took it to mechanic and they charge me $79 to clean corrosion off battery.... Said check it now and it should work. It did not. Made me kind of mad. They plugged their phones to it and say it's working and I said no ... When I drive an hour to work with my phone on it, it charged exactly 1%

Been using the lighter charging thingy and it stopped working. I bought a brand new lighter plus 2 brand new cables. They don't work either. Originally the lighter charger would light up bright blue when I plugged it in. It does not do that any longer.

Is auto shop going to take me seriously now and fix it? Why would both stop working, is it my battery like they said? (5 year old battery)

I guess they just didn't want to fool with it but dang I had to buy a battery pack to carry with me to charge my phone and work device and it can't charge both. It runs out of charging battery.

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u/Desirai — 3 days ago
▲ 3 r/AskVet

Accidentally left my cat's Roferon out of the fridge overnight

My cat Madison is 4 years old spayed female black cat, positive for calicivirus and FIV. she takes a liquid medicine Roferon once a day for 7 days then pause for 7 days, repeat

vet says it needs to be refrigerated and I accidentally left it out overnight, as soon as I found it I put it back in fridge.

Will it cause a problem? She gets a dose tonight and tomorrow. I'm not sure if it something like when you leave some hamburger meat out and it spoils really fast or if refrigeration is just for efficacy

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u/Desirai — 6 days ago

What is the difference between peat moss and sphagnum moss and which one do they need?

I bought a bag of dirt that is made with both peat and sphagnum moss but I think I've read that one of them is not suitable for millipedes. But I think I've also read that they can have both. That might have been AI confusing me.

I'm planning on getting ivory.

Oh also what about when I collect the wood for them and there might be fungus or lichens? Will those hurt the millipedes?

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u/Desirai — 9 days ago
▲ 2 r/Camry

hey everyone we have a 2023 toyota camry. forgive me because I do not know the correct terms. the USB port that we plug the phone into that then allows us to use apps such as spotify and GPS on the touch screen console has lost connection. it wiggles and so the phone disconnects and reconnects over and over while driving. It also will not charge any phone.

Went to auto shop and they said it needed to be replaced, which is fine but I have no idea what I am looking for. I don't know what it is called. I came across a very old post on this sub reddit by someone who seemed to have the same problem and someone replied with a parts number of 86190-12070 but this isn't an aux jack, it's just a USB port.

we took it to them weeks ago and I keep calling and they say no, we haven't found the part. so I am trying to find the part myself.

it is out of warranty but I am sure the dealership would love to help us for a small service fee of $1000 or something stupid.

does anyone know what I am talking about and can maybe help??

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u/Desirai — 17 days ago

Female 38

Ive never mentioned this to a doctor because I didnt know it wasn't normal. My whole life, bananas and nuts make my mouth burn and tingle. Hot dogs do also but how are they related? Doesn't matter if the hot dog is cooked or i eat it straight from the package. Havent noticed if brand makes a difference

None of that is normal according to my husband. I read about OAS regarding nuts. But hot dogs?

Does it get worse over time? Would it be obvious it was worsening? It feels the same today as it did years ago.

Is this worth mentioning?

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u/Desirai — 19 days ago

I found this millipede outside, he was white and pink. He was so cute, I wish I could keep him!

No banana for scale

u/Desirai — 22 days ago