I went to high school with a kid named Charles. The only problem is that EVERYONE called him Chuckles. Dude came in on the first day and during attendance
"Do we have ... a Charles" no one responded. "A chuckles?"
"Here"
If you don't know already, I have thought that I am Aro for a couple years because I never had a crush. That was until I met one girl. She's unlocked feelings ive never felt and I can only assume this is a crush. I just have no clue what I would call this. I have what I imagine as romantic feelings for only one person. I have heard cupipromantic before but that just does not feel correct and idk.
How many of yall who are married for various reasons have a white wedding ring?
I don't like it but I probably have to get a girlfriend. My family really wants me to have one and some people think it's because im hiding that Im gay but it's not and I just dont know how to explain that because I've had relationships before that they know about. Also most of my friends are getting people and it just feels weird that my first girlfriend was nontypical and shit. If you haven't read any of my other posts you'll know Im still questioning if Im Aro because I have what I can only describe as my first and only crush. Ive never told anyone tho and don't think they'd take it seriously. They'd js say I have no game. I live in the second reddest county in the US. If ppl around know Im Aro Im not too sure how well that would turn out. They would just think that it was gay which is used as an insult around the city and not like me. I do know she has respectable politics tho. That's probably part of why I like her personality. I have had a relationship before but it was a while ago. It was with my best friend and we weren't really romantic cuz we were still in middle school at the time and that felt weird. But I enjoyed having someone I would always be able to talk to who would prioritize time with me. I would find one of those but idk how many ppl would want that. We kinda stopped dating because the ppl at school had never seen us doing shit and they thought we were faking. We still are best friends tho. I kinda js think it would be weird to ask her again for round two and knowing that we both have matured she probably wants something else. But yea the community wants me to get a girlfriend and idk if I'll ever find someone that fits what I would want.
Ive posted this to questioning but haven't gotten advice yet so here I am. I thought I was aro for three years until I met a girl. I never had a crush until I met her. I felt feelings I never had before. I know she isnt rlly hot or anything, but I still can't control that i like her. Id always thought of kissing and hugging as weird and undesirable. I still did but it was different. Since then I've had a gf but it wasn't romantic or anything. I just have what I can only assume to be my first and only crush. After meeting her I've yearned for a relationship that isn't romantic with her and sometimes with other ppl
I don't think I ever want to get married and if I do it would be for legal reasons but I feel like if I did it would be the most unserious party ever like I tell ppl it's a costume party or smth and they show up and im js in my comfy clothes and we have an officiant there
I'm wondering how different people are treated after coming out in different regions. I'm not rlly out or convinced of myself yet but no one in my high school was aro/out as aro
Im making a crossword and was wanting to use Aro as an answer. Could that be a way of coming out to my family
I myself have been in a relationship and wouldnt close the door to being in one but then again im still kinda questioning myself
So I'm getting a haircut soon. I'm a man but I have long hair. That was kind of just to spite my racist aunt who had cancer to rub it in her face that I can have hair and she can't but she died and now I don't have any reason to keep my hair long. But people have said that they like my face and my personality. My friends say the only reason I don't have a gf is because of my hair. I kind of do have a gf but that's something else. I'm getting a haircut soon tho and im scared people are going to like me if they already like everything else that alloromantic people like about someone. I don't want to be someone that rejects ppl tho idk
I always thought I was aro until I met one girl and it was weird but if you care that part is on the questioning part. I had no intention of getting a gf except maybe her. I always just imagined being by myself. I would want a roommate to help me do chores n shit but not to date or anything. Me and my friend have a tradition cuz neither of us ever has had a bf/gf that we are each other's valentines every year. So she asked to be valentines with me and I said yes like I do every year. Then she asked me to be more. I didnt want to be her bf but I said yes. Idk what went into me but I said yes. Nothing really romantic happened but it just felt weird. I didnt really want one but to have one that was my best friend just felt good. We have stopped calling each other bf/gf cuz ppl are assholes but we still are best friends.
So I thought I was aromantic for like three years. I never actually told anyone but I felt it myself. But then I met a girl. I didn't think she was attractive or anything but i felt things I never felt before. I wanted her to be mine and that felt weird. We were in the same friend group but I never rlly talked to her. I never had a crush before that or anything. I thought kissing and hugging and shit was just weird and undesirable. But after her, I still thought they were weird but I didnt want to stay alone. I got a girlfriend after it. It wasn't her, it was what I always imagined. She was my best friend and she just had a special label. That's what I always imagined until the one girl who changed my mind. I just don't know. Edit: It wasn't that I met her or anything it was that I just became in her friend group and that was one of the first times I noticed her Edit: This post has over 1000 views and I bet the girl has no clue this many people knows or she knows and just has no clue
I always thought I was Aromantic. I'd never had a crush or anything, but then I developed feelings for a girl unlike any id ever felt. She isn't stereotypically hot or anything but I just wanted to be with her. She's in my group of friends but I don't really talk to her at all. I've had a gf before. It was because she wanted to have a bf and I would love to have "a friend with a special label" like those are the words I said. Nothing romantic rlly went down tho. Edit: I've started yearning for someone to talk to and be a friend with a special label after this. She may have opened my eyes and now I feel new feelings idk hard to say