u/Disastrous_Two5989

Gestern bin ich einem Mann auf dem Fahrrad entgegen gekommen und er holt einfach seinen Penis raus und starrt mich an. Dann war ich heute am Elbstrand und da liegt ein Mann unterm Baum Nackt und streichelt seinen Penis ganz entspannt.

Auf dem Weg nach Hause werd ich angesprochen und ich lehne höflich ab, dann versucht der mir an den Arm zu greifen beim gehen.

Letzte Woche werde ich in der Bahn angeschrien und dann setzt der sich extra so um, um mich beobachten zu können. Ich hab gar keine Lust mehr raus zugehen weil so viele einfach Geiern und sich nicht benehmen können.

Möchte so gern das Wetter geniessen.

Wie geht ihr mit sowas um?

It is super hot atm so I got on my bike in very short jeans shorts (you could not see my butt) and a baggy shirt.

Is this an inappropriate Outfit for riding a bike??

I got so many icky stares from men, when I drove above a bridge a man that was headed towards me saw me and took out his penis!! I made an ew face and drove past.

Do you experience stuff like that as well during bike rides?

I don't want to cover up during summer, it is too hot and I want to get a tan. But now I am reconsidering.

Just wanted to enjoy the weather and get some movement :(

It is super hot here in Germany so I got on my bike in short jeans shorts and a baggy shirt. Is this an inappropriate Outfit for riding a bike??

I got so many icky stares from men, when I drove above a bridge a man that was headed towards me saw me and took out his penis!! I just drove past him and he went into the bushes.

Do you experience stuff like that as well as a woman?

I don't want to wear long pants on my bike in summer because of the heat and to get a tan but now I am reconsidering. Just wanted to enjoy the weather and get some movement :(

Does anyone else sometimes admire themselves in the mirror for a long time?

I experience days where I feel like a goddess, absolutely beautiful! And then there are days where I take a video of myself or look in the mirror and see that I am the ugliest disproportianate woman I have ever seen. I feel so embarassed that I felt confident wearing a cute outfit and that people saw me being so ugly acting like I was pretty.

I don’t know what’s real anymore, and I’m afraid of which version of me is true. How can I see myself in such extremes?

People comment on my butt and it makes me really insecure.

When I went out at night someone screamed at me: Amazing face but no ass!!

Another time in summer I was outside with my friend and I bent over to pick something up wearing small jeans shorts, a man screamed at me aggressively: but you have no ass!!

Someone in Uni once made a comment about that I have the smallest butt he has ever seen, behind my back.

I had 2 boyfriends who said they prefer a big butt, but only after I have been with them for a while. :(

I know I am pretty, I get compliments but all of this made me really insecure to the extend that I think when men walk behind me and they laugh it is about my butt, additionally I never want to walk infront of my date and wonder all the time if I will find someone who is really attracted to my body and likes me the way I am.

I am going to the gym and I run but it is still small.

I am really sad about it and don't know how to cope.