u/Double-District9655

Her zaman aldığım restorandan her zaman ki gibi siparişimi verdim. Kurye siparişimi getirdi ama patates eksikti ekstra da 1 dürüm koyulmuştu. Dedim ki herhalde karışıklık olmuştur iadesini Trendyol üzerinden alırım sonra. (Siparişin üzerinde fiş yoktu)

Her neyse zaten çok açtım fazla düşünmeden dürümlerden birini yedim ardından beni kurye aradı yanlış sipariş getirdiğini söyledi, ben de yediğimi söyleyince delirdi "niye başkasının siparişini yiyosun" "senin olmayan şeyi niye yiyosun" gibi şeyler söyleyerek bağırmaya başladı.

Sonrasında geri geldi ve yemediğim diğer dürümü alıp geri gitti. Sonrasında şikayet hakkımı kullanmak için o esnada olayı alevlendirmedim ve bir şey demedim, ardından şikayet ettim.

Müşteri olarak bana yanlış sipariş gelmiş olabileceğini düşünmediğim için özür dilerim ne diyeyim.

Ne olursa olsun bir kuryenin bir müşteriyi böyle azarlaması şok etti açıkçası.

Açtım ve yedim, yanlış getirmeseydin. Bunu düşünmesi gereken müşteri değil.

21 yaşındayım ve bir iş kurmaya çalışıyorum ama işin yasal boyutuna baktığım zaman direkt bağkur çıkıyor aylık 10k civarı. İşimin tutup tutmayacağı belli değil, para kazanıp kazanmayacağım belli değil birde 10k ödemem gerekecek her ay. Bunu aşmanın ya da farklı bir şekilde vergi ödemenin yolu yok mu. Şahıs şirketi kurmam gerektiği söyleniyor araştırdığımda.

Hey,

I have some goals in music, and after reaching a certain point in my own journey, I wanted to connect with people who are just as driven to build something meaningful.

First, I should mention that I don’t make modern mainstream music. I chop movie skits, sample old records, and try to keep the spirit of classic boom bap alive while giving it a slight modern touch. To give you an idea of my style, I’ll leave my Spotify link below so you can check out my work.

What I’m looking for:

- A good microphone and solid mixing skills.

- A literary mindset someone who doesn’t build their music around women, sex, drugs, or similar clichés.

- If I send you a beat, I expect you to actually use it and release something within a reasonable timeframe.

- You should already be releasing music on platforms like Spotify, and my name should be credited where appropriate.

- You should be willing to put effort into promoting the songs you make with my beats.

- If any music we create together becomes commercially successful in the future, I expect us to make fair agreements regarding royalties, rights, and other business matters.

- Most importantly, we should become good friends and grow this thing together.

If you meet all of these requirements without exception, feel free to introduce yourself via email and send over a demo of your work.

DM me for details cuz they remove the post if i share here.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

Hey,

I have some goals in music, and after reaching a certain point in my own journey, I wanted to connect with people who are just as driven to build something meaningful.

First, I should mention that I don’t make modern mainstream music. I chop movie skits, sample old records, and try to keep the spirit of classic boom bap alive while giving it a slight modern touch. To give you an idea of my style, I’ll leave my Spotify link below so you can check out my work.

What I’m looking for:

- A good microphone and solid mixing skills.

- A literary mindset someone who doesn’t build their music around women, sex, drugs, or similar clichés.

- If I send you a beat, I expect you to actually use it and release something within a reasonable timeframe.

- You should already be releasing music on platforms like Spotify, and my name should be credited where appropriate.

- You should be willing to put effort into promoting the songs you make with my beats.

- If any music we create together becomes commercially successful in the future, I expect us to make fair agreements regarding royalties, rights, and other business matters.

- Most importantly, we should become good friends and grow this thing together.

If you meet all of these requirements without exception, feel free to introduce yourself via email and send over a demo of your work.

DM me for details cuz they remove the post if i share here.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

Hey,

I have some goals in music, and after reaching a certain point in my own journey, I wanted to connect with people who are just as driven to build something meaningful.

First, I should mention that I don’t make modern mainstream music. I chop movie skits, sample old records, and try to keep the spirit of classic boom bap alive while giving it a slight modern touch. To give you an idea of my style, I’ll leave my Spotify link below so you can check out my work.

What I’m looking for:

- A good microphone and solid mixing skills.

- A literary mindset someone who doesn’t build their music around women, sex, drugs, or similar clichés.

- If I send you a beat, I expect you to actually use it and release something within a reasonable timeframe.

- You should already be releasing music on platforms like Spotify, and my name should be credited where appropriate.

- You should be willing to put effort into promoting the songs you make with my beats.

- If any music we create together becomes commercially successful in the future, I expect us to make fair agreements regarding royalties, rights, and other business matters.

- Most importantly, we should become good friends and grow this thing together.

If you meet all of these requirements without exception, feel free to introduce yourself via email and send over a demo of your work.

DM me for details cuz they remove the post if i share here.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

Hi,

I am 22M and I have been with my girlfriend, 20F, for about two years. She does not have any male friends. Not because I asked her not to, but because she was already like that when I met her. She has one private account and one main account. On her private account, I am the only person there. On her main account, apart from her father and people like that, I am currently the only male follower/following as well.

During the first months of our relationship, I suddenly noticed a guy on her private account. She was following him and he was following her. Then I checked and saw that they were also following each other on their personal accounts. Naturally, I was very surprised, and I got a terrible feeling in my chest. Who was this guy all of a sudden?

I messaged her and asked. She said he was just some random person, that he was not important, and that she could remove him immediately if I wanted. And she did. She removed him from everywhere right away. Up to that point, it may seem like there was no real issue, but after that, certain thoughts started getting stuck in my head.

Why would a girl who does not let anyone except me into her very private account add another guy? Who was this guy? What had happened between them?

The more I asked, the more inconsistent her answers started to feel to me. She sent me screenshots. According to their conversation, she had first wished him a happy birthday, and that is how the conversation started. Then he said something like, “If there is anything you do not understand, you can ask me,” and my girlfriend asked him to explain a lesson to her. According to her, that was all they talked about, and there was nothing more.

This happened almost two years ago, during the first months of our relationship. But I still have not been able to get over it. Whenever I think about it, my throat tightens and I feel a deep sense of distrust. Recently, I could not hold it in anymore and brought it up again, which shook our relationship. But this time, if what she told me is true, I learned the situation in more detail.

According to her, about a year before she added him to her private account, she had liked a reel from that account. The person who posted the reel was this guy. He then messaged her to ask about the song on her profile, and that is how they started talking. At first, they talked through the private account, but then they started following each other on their personal accounts. According to my girlfriend, they had already been following each other for about a year, and I just had not noticed.

When they first started talking, she apparently learned his birthday. Then, according to her, they did not talk for a whole year. A year later, she saw from the messages that it was his birthday and wished him a happy birthday. After that, they also started following each other on her private account, and the whole lesson-help conversation came up. Then I saw it, asked her about it, and she removed him from everywhere.

Since that day, for almost two years, I have not seen her talking to any other guy or doing anything similar. I am not saying she is not “allowed” to talk to men. I am not that kind of person. I am only mentioning it because this is generally the kind of person she is. So, for two years, there has not been another incident like this. But because I overthink a lot, I am still carrying this situation into the present and damaging our relationship.

The questions in my head just will not go away:

1. If she was someone who told me many things even in the early months of our relationship, why did she never mention this guy she added to her private account until I noticed it myself? The birthday message, the conversation, the fact that they were following each other… she did not tell me about any of it while it was happening.
2. What happened between them that made her add him to an account she kept so private?
3. Why did she give such inconsistent answers?
4. Does she change when the circumstances change?
5. Does she have the potential to cheat?
6. If she hid these things from me, what else could she be hiding?

Questions like these have been bothering me for years. To me, whatever happened between her and that guy feels like an unfinished flirtation, or something that started but never really went anywhere. Because in my eyes, all the details seem to point in that direction. It feels like she is hiding something, or at least not telling me the whole truth.

Yes, nothing similar has happened in the past two years. But I still cannot get over the fear and the distrust inside me. My mind keeps going back to these unresolved questions. Since I also cannot fully resolve them by talking to her, they just keep growing inside me.

I genuinely need different perspectives and new ways of thinking about this. I am sorry for writing such a long and detailed post.

Thank you in advance to anyone who takes the time to read and respond.